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Keeping Uncle Sam Away from Toddlers (IWF article)
For once, I agree with “Independent Women’s Forum”
Brief #22
IWF Policy Brief
Cutting-edge analysis of the news of the day from the Independent Women’s Forum
June 11, 2009
Keep Uncle Sam Away from Toddlers:
The Case Against Government Funding for Preschool
By Carrie Lukas
Executive Summary
The President has suggested that greater federal
government support for early childhood education is an
important component of improving educational
opportunities in the United States and would be an
investment in our human capital. Yet there is little
evidence to support the case for greater federal
involvement in preschool.
While policymakers assume that an investment in public
preschool will lead to improved student outcomes, the
research on the effects of preschool is far from
conclusive. Some studies have linked preschool
attendance with short-term gains in student test scores
and other education-related outcomes, but those
improvements fade over time. Additionally, most studies
that have found significant gains associated with
preschool have focused on lower-income or at-risk
student populations. There is no reason to think that such gains would also occur among the general
student population, which is the target of most “universal” preschool proposals. Still, other studies
have linked increased time in preschool with negative social behavior, which would suggest that
encouraging greater use of preschool could contribute to as many problems as it solves.
LINK:
http://www.iwf.org/files/ccd51591aa7467a111d9f4437830ea9c.pdf
This is better viewed as PDF than on here.
However, as a reminder:
The words School, Education, and Learning are not synonymous, if you think about them.
The attempt of the present (and past) administrations to equate the U.S. Public School Educational system with either Education, or Public, is linguistically and financially ridiculous.
Language is not math. For example, anyone declaring, openly, that
10+10 =/= 20
would probably not become President, Governor, or a U.S. Senator or Assemblyperson. It lacks a certain credibility. It creates a certain cognitive dissonance, until the missing data shows up, such as, perhaps:
10(-15+5)+10=/=20
EVEN a US public school 4th grader PROBABLY (wish I could say this for sure) would recognize that something was amiss with that equation. If they knew the symbol “=/=,” which is unlikely, come to think of it. It is simply my intent — in this blog — to show some of the missing math behind the Linguistic Cognitive Dissonance of Government Proclamations that are getting people killed, or raped, or keeping them artificially on welfare. This is NOT rocket science, it simply takes — like the best most effective kind of learning will — being highly motivated to know, and being willing to remove a few blinders and sunglasses that have made the glaring facts a little less difficult to handle.
Unfortunately, we have had Presidents (plural), and U.S. Senators AND Representatives (I haven’t checked all the “governors” yet) pronouncing a similar epidemic and supposed problem without substantial questioning of it — from the general public. Now, that simply lacks credibility. I posted, after Mother’s Day, the data that “fatherhood” was NOT woefully, federally underfunded in 2009, 2008, or at any identifiable time since about 1995.
There’s perhaps more than one reason it’s sad that “religion” (supposedly) was deleted from the public school system. Now, as a person who has taken some serious hits — literally — under the guise of “wives submit” as from the Bible, I have seen its underbelly. But there are SOME upsides to some of the wisdom in some of these holy writs of the major religions. For example, how sad that all women about to engage in a sexual — let alone marital — relationship, didn’t understand this simplicity:
(I’ll give a version I have no respect for — it even comes across in this one):
GOD’S WORD® Translation (©1995)
A gullible person believes anything, but a sensible person watches his step.
Now, when nearly an entire nation is this gullible, on one of the FIRST places I would look is at the educational system.
“misogyny”
What motivated me to find out WHY Family Court AND the child support system uniformly didn’t do their assigned and proclaimed jobs was being slapped in the face (while minding my own business) when they didn’t. It bounced me out of work and back onto dependence. The LAST thing I wanted after leaving domestic violence, and the last lesson I wanted my smart children to absorb: Sell your soul to the highest bidder, and cast your lot with whichever parent is NOT under prolonger, personal fire.
Language is NOT math, yet it does have a FEW logical rules attached, for example as a thesaurus would show, NOT all nouns are synomymous.
When the same President (and Administration) that tells us, an epidemic of fatherlessness just rained down from heaven, and female-headed households are doomed for disaster (Say, what? Are you or are you NOT President?) because struggle and hard times (or emotions) were involved, now says that:
Education = Public School Education only
Head Start actually helps long-term
(and this same President has virtually deleted the concept of ‘motherhood” and the word “mother” from public dialogue)
(and the concept of “educational choice” as allowing charter schools (which are also government-funded) ignoring that “homeschooling” DOES exist (and many times works better), and other such propaganda,
Then we have not only a linguistic, but also a financial crisis in credibility. We have a cognitive crisis becoming a mental health crisis. NOW, I have a question: Who stands to profit from an ongoing source of cognitive dissonance? (let alone “high-conflict” divorces). WHO is profiting from the womb-to-tomb, paid for by the people involved in it (and even others without children) cognitively dissonant proclamation that “Big Brother Knows Best” when it comes to “education.” The more correct word is mass-indoctrination.
Sound analysis of ANY problem comes from looking at the history of it, and linguistics are a GREAT clue.
And as it relates to family court matters — mine — as a single mother, I did not have time to waste, and as a mother (period), I didn’t appreciate having my daughters’ education slowed down while fighting my ex (who did not graduate from college, and at the time was not even working steadily, nor had he an exactly stellar track record as to lawful lifestyle — see prior domestic violence) and a member of my family with whom he’d had a male-bonding moment (who had not himself had children, nor taught extensively as I had, nor for that matter, bothered to report, refer, intervene, or acknowledge that when I filed that restraining order with kickout, there was a collection of weapons in the home, often used to intimidate me out of Independent Woman actions (such as participating in music events without ex present), and talk of suicidality. Which, incidentally, didn’t go away with the piece of paper.
On the pronouncement that I “couldn’t” do what I at the time both had been, and was, I was forced (by a family law judge) BACK into a lifestyle that had already been tried, and found VERY wanting, by my household — not the person driving the situation, which was not even a parent and had no legal standing to do so. When reminded of the “no legal standing” in a firm manner, I was then harrassed by mail repeatedly, and (being busy) was on the verge of taking legal action on this (simultaneously with attempting to renew a restraining order, which that mail in fact was enabling the father to break), only to find myself suddenly in a full-blown custody suit by the person who had attempted to offer his own daughters’ visitation time to this particular couple.
I thus believe that the basic problem in some of these discussions is simply that of common literacy.
The picture below is ONE usage of the word SCHOOL
If you want to understand the public school educational system in this country, in a paradigm, look at this picture:
5-
ot.
NOW: You are the parents of a beautiful child, or several children. You have to work a job (not own a business, learn to handle investments, inherited wealth, were raised in a Senator’s household, are not an attorney as is at least one prominent father’s rights advocate, Mr. Leving (very cozy with President Obama, and hailing from the same state), and because your job doesn’t pay too well, you and/or the partner (spouse) living with you, are going to MISS the most formative years and hours of your beautiful children’s upbringing. Every day, someone else is going to be their “prime-time” trainer and values assigner, and you will get the leftover of YOUR day and of THEIR day to remediate, inculcate, supplement, or HUG them — hopefully. YOu have been taught that this is how life is, and always will be. It isn’t for everyone, but right now, it is for you, and people you associate with you.
In the above picture, would you want your child to grow up to be a little fish in a pack of fish at the bottom of the food chain (almost), or would you want to teach him to be a shark (given only those two options?), and at least swim free for a while, and have some teeth, and respect. Heck, even have a blockbuster movie named after you ‘Jaws.”
Would you want to toss the dice and hope the shark doesn’t get YOUR kid (or rely on prayer), but understand that part of the deal is, darting this way or that IF a shark comes near during school hours (and certain types of personalities ARE attracted to crowds of children, it’s true), while one of their classmates is eaten up instead?
Would you want your child, for reasons of simple survival, to learn by example how to act like the shark and consider other human beings as part of his food chain (whereas, when it comes to humans, they ARE the same species, if not personalities).
This shark was designed to use its teeth, and swim, act, and behave in certain manners. PEOPLE do not have to.
Here’s another type of No Child Left Behind behavior, named after a different animal: Google (images for) “Goose-step. Even the phrase “No Child Left Behind” indicates none are excelling (which is on many levels also a lie, as it only refers to this one system). What a narcissistic mindset. If the government doesn’t do it, it can’t be done, or doesn’t matter. It doesn’t count.
FOLKS:
It’s not about “education” it’s about “Schooling.”
(Primary book dates back to 1990, “Dumbing Us Down.” Still true today).
AH WELL, Independent Women’s Forum is MUCH more moderate in its proclamations. Perhaps they are all still married, or have not lost children in the mix somewhere. I’ll stop. . . . No more comments from me below (I think one short interjection, that’s all). See the original site, above.
(BELOW HERE IS QUOTATION:)
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“There is also reason for concern that greater government involvement in preschool could actually reduce the quality of
education available to and received by many children, and discourage parents from enrolling children in programs that
reflect their values.”
Depending on how programs are structured, government preschool programs could encourage parents
to switch from private preschool providers to subsidized public programs. The often dismal record of
our public school system in providing children with a quality education in kindergarten through 12th
grade should caution policymakers about the potential quality of public programs for three- and four-
year-olds.
It’s also worth noting that there is nothing in the Constitution that would suggest that providing early
educational opportunities {{LetsGetHonest comment: or any other education…}} is a proper use of federal power.
The care and education of children,
particularly children as young as three and four, should the responsibility of parents, not Uncle Sam.
Introduction
Among President Obama’s campaign promises was to
increase the federal government’s commitment to early
childhood education. Specifically, on their campaign
website, candidates Obama and Biden describe their
“Zero to Five Plan,” which would emphasize not only
expanding educational opportunities to three- and four
year-olds, who are typically not yet eligible for public
kindergarten, but “early care and education for infants.”
Specifically, President Obama pledged to create “Early
Learning Challenge Grants” that would be given to
states to support their efforts providing educational
opportunities for those under age five and to help move
states toward “voluntary, universal preschool.”1
The President and Democratic Congress have already begun to expand federal government support for early learning initiatives. The $787 billion economic
stimulus package (officially entitled the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act) included more than $1 billion over two years for the federal Head Start program, which supports educational opportunities for three- and four-year-olds from low-income families, and $1.1 billion over two years for the Early
Head Start program, which supports initiatives for infants, toddlers, and pregnant women. Other money included in the stimulus package for education programs (such as funding for the Individual with Disabilities Education Act and Title I) will also be used by states to bolster early learning
programs.2 (footnotes below)
Individual states are also increasingly creating programs to subsidize or provide preschool opportunities
for parents. For example, Georgia, Oklahoma, and Florida already offer universal preschool, and
numerous other states (Arizona, New Mexico, Washington, South Carolina, Virginia, and West
Virginia) have all considered proposals that would move in that direction.3
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Supporters of these programs believe they will better prepare young children for school, improve
student’s education, and lead to better life outcomes. For example, during a speech to the Hispanic
Chamber of Commerce, President Obama argued:
Studies show that children in early childhood education programs are more likely to score
higher in reading and math, more likely to graduate from high school and attend college, more
likely to hold a job, and more likely to earn more in that job. For every dollar we invest in these
programs, we get nearly $10 back in reduced welfare rolls, fewer health care costs, and less
crime.4
Yet as this policy brief highlights, policymakers shouldn’t assume that such results will come expanded
government support of preschool, especially as government’s support expands beyond the low-income
or “at risk” student population.
Does Preschool Improve Student Outcomes?
Those supporting increased government provision of preschool typically suggest that the money
invested in such programs pays off by creating much larger benefits for individuals and society at large.
They claim that high quality preschool programs lead to improved student outcomes and ultimately a
more educated, productive workforce and expanded tax base. Yet a balanced look at the available
research on the effects of preschool should give policymakers pause.
Most evaluations of preschool programs which are cited as evidence of their great potential benefits
have analyzed programs that serve low-income children and those considered at risk of failing to thrive
in traditional public school. And even when studies are focused on disadvantaged populations, the
research is far from a slam dunk in proving preschools’ long-term efficacy. As Darcy Olsen, an
education analyst and president of the Goldwater Institute, writes:
Taken as a whole, a review of the research shows that some early interventions have had
meaningful short-term effects on disadvantaged students’ cognitive ability, grade-level retention,
and special education placement. However, most research also indicates that the effects of early
interventions disappear after children leave the programs.5
The program that is most frequently touted as evidence of the great potential benefits of universal
preschool is the High/Scope Perry Preschool Project. And indeed, this study, which began in the
1960s and has followed an experimental and control group for 40 years, has found meaningful benefits
enjoyed by those who participated in the program on a range of outcomes, including high-school
graduation rates, adult crime, and earnings. Yet researchers caution against assuming that the impact of
this program would be replicated by a universal preschool program serving the general population. As
education analysts from the Lexington Institute explain:
It’s important to note that there were only 58 preschoolers in the experimental group (and 123
in all, including the control group), and all were not only disadvantaged but deemed at risk for
“retarded intellectual functioning and eventual school failure.” They received one or two years
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“Several states have
implemented aggressive
preschool programs and
there is little to suggest that
it is paying off in terms of
improving the states’ overall
education climate.”
of half-day preschool and home visitations. This was certainly not a large or representative
group, not even of the disadvantaged populations, and it is a real stretch to generalize results
into a rationale for pouring billions of dollars into public pre-K for all, including the children of
affluent families.6
Evaluations done on Head Start, the federal program
dedicated to providing preschool opportunities for low-
income families, are also not encouraging. Generally,
studies show initial modest gains in terms of student
abilities and outcomes, but those gains quickly dissipate.
By early elementary school, researchers could find no
differences between the test scores of those who had
participated in Head Start and peers who hadn’t
participated in a preschool program.7
Even many proponents of preschool programs for those in the low-income or at risk population have
cautioned against assuming that the benefits enjoyed by that population would translate into similar
benefits for the general population. James Heckman, a Nobel prize winning economist, makes the case
for increased investment in early education programs for disadvantaged populations because of his
belief in its potential for significant payoffs. However, when asked about universal preschool
programs, he reiterated the case for targeted programs, explaining “Functioning middle-class homes are
producing healthy, productive kids. …It is foolish to try to substitute for what the middle-class and
upper-middle-class parents are already doing.”8
And indeed, if more preschool was a surefire way to improve student outcomes among the general
population, one would expect to find ample evidence of that dynamic already occurring. Several states
have implemented aggressive preschool programs and there is little to suggest that it is paying off in
terms of improving the states’ overall education climate. As education analysts from the Reason
Foundation wrote in the Wall Street Journal:
[T]he results from Oklahoma and Georgia—both of which implemented universal preschool a
decade or more ago—paint an equally dismal picture. A 2006 analysis by Education Week
found the Oklahoma and Georgia were among the 10 states that had made the least progress on
NAEP. Oklahoma, in fact, lost ground after it embraced universal preschool: In 1992 its
fourth and eighth graders tested one point above the national average in math. Now they are
several points below. Ditto for reading. Georgia’s universal preschool program has made
virtually no difference to its fourth-grade reading scores.9
Rates of preschool attendance have soared during recent decades. The Department of Education
estimated that, in 1965, five percent of three-year-olds and 16 percent of four-year-olds attended
preschool. By the beginning of this decade, 42 percent of three-year-olds and 68 percent of four-year-
olds were enrolled in preschool.10 Yet the data on important educational outcomes—from
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“There is significant
evidence to suggest that
there is a link between the
amount of time young
children spend outside of
their parents’ care and
behavioral problems.”
performance on nationalized tests to graduation rates—has shown no significant gains during this
period, and in some cases have declined.11
There is also cause for concern that encouraging greater enrollment in preschool may not just fail to
produce positive results, but it could lead to some adverse outcomes. Some researchers have found
evidence suggesting that increased enrollment in preschool programs could lead to problem behaviors.
For example, one study conducted by researchers at Stanford
University and University of California, Berkeley concluded
kindergartners who had attended more than fifteen hours of
preschool each week were more likely to exhibit aggressive
behavior in class.12
Negative behavioral effects would likely be particularly
pronounced if the government moves in the direction of
President Obama’s “Zero to 5” proposal to encourage the
enrollment of babies and young toddlers. There is significant
evidence to suggest that there is a link between the amount of
time young children spend outside of their parents’ care and
behavioral problems. The National Institute of Child Health and Human Development, for example,
conducted a study of children in ten geographic sites who were followed from birth to kindergarten and
found an association between greater amount of non-maternal care and behavioral problems:
The more time children spend in any of a variety of non-maternal care arrangements across the
first 4.5 years of life, the more externalizing problems and conflict with adults they manifest at
54 months of age and in kindergarten, as reported by mothers, caregivers, and teachers…more
time in care not only predicts problem behavior measured on a continuous scale but at-risk
(though not clinical) levels of problem behavior, as well as assertiveness, disobedience, and
aggression. It should also be noted that these correctional finding also imply that lower levels
of problems were associated with less time in child care.13
In summary, the evidence simply does not support the claims of universal preschool proponents that
an investment in early education will pay off in terms of improving the educational and life prospects of
the general population.
Crowding Out Private Preschool Providers
Another reason for concern about the potential for greater government involvement in preschool is the
potential that, as government expands its support for early learning opportunities, parents could end up
having fewer options for their children’s education instead of more. To the extent that the government
creates specific center-based programs or focuses its support on programs provided through the public
school system, policymakers would be putting private schools and early learning centers at a
disadvantage. Parents committed to enrolling their children in a preschool would face the choice of
paying for private preschool or sending their children to a subsidized public option. As a result, many
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“Lawmakers would be
better off focusing on
identifying why the
public school system
regularly fails so many
of its charges instead
of expanding its
mandate in education.”
parents who currently pay for private early learning opportunities may switch to enrolling their child in
a public school. This dynamic could result in the elimination of private options, and fewer choices for
parents.
The potential crowding out of private preschool providers in favor of government-run options should
be of particular concern to those who see early education opportunities as critical not just for skill
development, but for children’s socialization and moral development. Given the reticence of so many
advocates of increased educational funding to allow any dollars to reach any organization that isn’t fully
secular (for example, through a voucher or other school choice program), it is likely that many states
would exclude preschools with a religious affiliation from participating in any government supported
preschool program. This means that many parent who currently choose a facility in part to support
their values and provide additional moral education will find themselves with a difficult choice of
forgoing the subsidized service (supported with their tax dollars) or forgoing the moral environment
they had hoped to provide to their children.
Problems with Existing Government Run Schools
Before lawmakers extend the responsibilities of the public
education system to include three- and four–year-olds, it would
be prudent to examine how it is performing its existing duties
in serving students eligible for kindergarten through twelfth
grade.
President Obama himself has been critical of the performance
of many public schools:
And yet, despite resources that are unmatched
anywhere in the world, we’ve let our grades slip, our
schools crumble, our teacher quality fall short, and other nations outpace us. …The relative
decline of American education is untenable for our economy, it’s unsustainable for our
democracy, it’s unacceptable for our children — and we can’t afford to let it continue.14
And indeed, a look at the statistics about our public school system’s performance is sobering. The
National Assessment of Educational Progress, a standardized test designed to assess the overall
performance of American students, regularly shows that the system is failing too many of its students:
in 2007, one third of 4th graders and one quarter of 8th graders scored “below basic” in reading, and
nearly twenty percent of 4th graders and 30 percent of 8th graders scored “below basic” in math. More
than one-quarter of American children don’t graduate from high school. And, as President Obama
noted, the United States often lags behind other developed nations on academic tests despite spending
more on education.15
The disheartening performance of the public school system should caution those who would believe
that greater government involvement in the lives and education of our youngest children will necessary
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“Government programs
that support preschool
also fail on the measure
of fairness: they
support the choices
made by some parents
over others.”
improve their prospects. Lawmakers would be better off focusing on identifying why the public school
system regularly fails so many of its charges instead of expanding its mandate in education.
There Are Better Ways to Support Parents with Young Children
Government programs that support preschool also fail on the measure of fairness: they support the
choices made by some parents over others. For example, many parents believe that they are their
children’s best teacher and would prefer to keep a parent at home with their three- or four-year-old.
And, even if preschool were generally associated with benefiting most four-year-olds, certainly there are
some who would do better with another year at home. Parents are
best positioned to determine if preschool, and what kind of
preschool, will benefit their children. Government programs that
subsidize specific services, instead of children, would discourage
parents from making decisions based on their children’s unique
needs.
If the real goal is to support the educational development of young
children, lawmakers would do better by providing a refundable tax
credit to families with children of an eligible age, which could be
used to pay for preschool, other educational services, educational
materials, such as books and age-appropriate curriculum, or even to compensate for the reduced
earnings enjoyed by families that opt to keep a parent at home. Such a tax credit would give parents
more latitude to make decisions based on their personal beliefs and situation, and would be superior to
merely expanding government services to provide for a select group of children.
Conclusion
While lawmakers rarely seem concerned about the founders’ intentions, it is worth noting that there is
nothing in the Constitution to suggest that using taxpayer money to support preschool programs in a
proper role for the federal government. Policymakers claim that using taxpayer money to fund more
access to preschool enhances the greater good, but there is little evidence to suggest that this holds true
for the general population. There is also reason for concern that there would be unintended
consequences to pushing greater enrollment in publicly-supported preschool programs, both for
individual students and for the education system as a whole.
Lawmakers would do better by focusing on improving the existing K-12 education system, instead of
seeking to expand it, and to helping families provide for their children by reducing their tax burden.
About the Author
Carrie Lukas is the vice president for policy and economics at the Independent Women’s Forum and
author of The Politically Incorrect Guide to Women, Sex, and Feminism.
{{I said above, I do not swim in the same direction on ALL the issues here, particularly domestic violence and feminism. The thing about feminism is the backlash, My goodness. . . . }}
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Endnotes
1
Available at: http://www.barackobama.com/issues/education/index.php#early-childhood.
2
Christina A. Samuels, “Stimulus Providing Big Funding Boost for Early Childhood,” Education Week, March 27,
2009.
3
Darcy Olsen and Lisa Snell, “Assessing Proposals for Preschool and Kindergarten: Essential Information for
Parents, Taxpayers, and Policymakers,” Reason Foundation, Policy Study No. 344, May 2006, p. I.
4
“President Obama’s Remarks to the Hispanic Chamber of Commerce,” New York Times, March 10, 2009.
Available at: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/03/10/us/politics/10text-obama.html?_r=1&pagewanted=3.
5
Darcy Olsen and Jennifer Martin, “Assessing Proposals for Preschools and Kindergarten: Essential
Information for Parents, Taxpayers, and Policymakers,” Goldwater Institute, Policy Report No. 201, February 8,
2005, p. 4.
6
Robert Holland and Don Soifer, “How Sound an Investment? An Analysis of Federal Prekindergarten
Proposals,” Lexington Institute, March 2008, p.10.
7
Shikha Dalmia and Lisa Snell, “Universal Preschool Hasn’t Delivered Results,” San Francisco Chronicle, October
17, 2008.
8
Robert Holland and Don Soifer, “How Sound an Investment? An Analysis of Federal Prekindergarten
Proposals,” Lexington Institute, March 2008, p.9-10.
9
Shikha Dalmia and Lisa Snell, “Protect Our Kids from Preschool,” The Wall Street Journal, August 22, 2008.
10
Darcy Olsen and Lisa Snell, “Assessing Proposals for Preschool and Kindergarten: Essential Information for
Parents, Taxpayers, and Policymakers,” Reason Foundation, Policy Study No. 344, May 2006, p. 6.
11
Dan Lips, Shanea Watkins, Ph.D. and John Fleming, Does Spending More on Education Improve Academic
Achievement?,”, Heritage Foundation Backgrounder #2179, September 8, 2008. Available at:
http://www.heritage.org/research/Education/bg2179.cfm.
12
Shikha Dalmia and Lisa Snell, “Protect Our Kids from Preschool,” The Wall Street Journal, August 22, 2008.
13
National Institute of Child Health and Human Development Early Child Care Research Network, “Does
Amount of Time Spent in Child Care Predict Socioemotional Adjustment During the Transition to
Kindergarten,” Child Development, July/August 2003, Volume 74, Number 4, 989.
14
“President Obama’s Remarks to the Hispanic Chamber of Commerce,” New York Times, March 10, 2009.
Available at: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/03/10/us/politics/10text-obama.html?_r=1&pagewanted=3.
15
Dan Lips, Jennifer Marshall, and Lindsey Burke, “A Parent’s Guide to Education Reform,” The Heritage
Foundation, September 2, 2008.
Written by Let's Get Honest|She Looks It Up
June 19, 2009 at 4:03 PM
Responsible Citizenhood – What’s Health, Which Humans, What Services: (Welcome to “HHS”)
NOTE: Post in progress, likely to be split into two. Right now, it’s rough riding
My “Save to Draft” link vanished, so I either “publish” or all this “perishes.” Sorry to Pile it Higher and Deeper. Check back later if you don’t have galoshes on today. Check it out now, if you are an investigative sort, I”m chock full of hot links (trails to follow — trails to where $$ are being spen)t.
The article from IWF talks about Head Start. It’s at the VERY bottom. Being me, I had to illustrate where “Head Start” and “Early Head” start lay, federally speaking. Head Start is a huMONGOUS Federal Investment, almost as much as hauling Dads out of prisons and putting them back in touch with the kids, in exchange for lowered child support payments to make the welfare rolls look better. If this results in a few familywipeouts, well, there are other government entitites to clean up, investigate (supposedly) and propose further incursions on the 2nd Amendment, and other civil rights, ONE of which is to be alienated from money you earned, or determining how to spend it, either — I suppose, to help protect us from ourselves in a bulletless manner.
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Normally I am not on the same page as IWF Independent Women’s Forum. Why? I’d pinpoint it as this — they’re not on the same page as me when it comes to the importance of VAWA — I’m as independent as the best of ’em, but I’d like to speculate that if a number of these libertarian-style writers had actually been the target of abuse, or had children kidnapped or parentally-stolen, and were unable to get justice for their retrieval, I think the tune would go a little differently. A close friend of mine, who witnessed much of what happened, and how it affected me, commented that the libertarians are great with the THEORIES, and are mostly theory too, no compassion.
Whether or not that’s so, I’ve had a busy few days, and will let this Policy Brief “to the contrary” on the megalith of Head Start as being pushed by our current President, speak for me. I do agree on this matter.
Catalog of Federal Domestic Assistance (CFDA) provides a full listing of all Federal programs available to State and local governments (including the District of Columbia); federally-recognized Indian tribal governments; Territories (and possessions) of the United States; domestic public, quasi- public, and private profit and nonprofit organizations and institutions; specialized groups; and individuals.
Head Start is CFDA “93.600”
Fiscal Year: 2009
| CFDA Prog. No. | Popular Title | CAN Award Amount |
| 93.600 | Head Start | $ 5,772,627,164 |
| Total: | $ 5,772,627,164 | |
And we’re in June. Here’s 2008:
Fiscal Year: 2008
| CFDA Prog. No. | Popular Title | CAN Award Amount |
| 93.600 | Head Start | $ 6,677,528,436 |
| Total: | $ 6,677,528,436 | |
And that’s not counting “ARRA Head Start” or “ARRA Early Head Start.” which you can look up separately.
. . OK, since you begged me:
Fiscal Year: 2009, ARRA Head Start
| CFDA Prog. No. | Popular Title | CAN Award Amount |
| 93.708 | ARRA – Head Start | $ 20,191,359 |
| Total: | $ 20,191,359 | |
and for good measure:
While we are at it, I’m feeling ornery, so I’m going to post the DISCRETIONARY grants, by type, for FY 2009 only.
Le’ts hope our government is indeed full of prudence and discretion (wisdom) in the matter of the total at the bottom of this chart:
This report shows the number of discretionary grants and associated dollar values organized by the four major activity types shown below, and their subcategories.
Research – Includes traditional research projects by individual investigators and other broadly based traditional and other research as well as research career programs. NIH awards about half of these grant dollars.
Services – Includes grants to deliver health or social services, treatment and rehabilitation programs, education and information programs, and programs to detect health problems. ACF awards the majority of services grants.
Training – Includes research and health professions training programs, education projects, and rural area health care training. NIH and HRSA award most training grants.
Other – Includes construction projects, grants for the planning and development of health programs and health resources, evaluations, and health infrastructure awards—a small percentage of the total discretionary grants.
FY: 2011 2010 2009 2008 2007 2006 2005 2004
| Activity Type | Number | Dollars |
| Research | ||
| SOCIAL SCIENCE RESEARCH (INCLUDES SURVEYS) | 45 | $2,134,706 |
| SCIENTIFIC/HEALTH RESEARCH (INCLUDES SURVEYS) | 30,574 | $10,705,113,249 |
| Research Subtotal | 30,619 | $10,707,247,955 |
| Services | ||
| DEMONSTRATION | 917 | $545,381,046 |
| HEALTH SERVICES | 2,662 | $1,198,502,612 |
| SOCIAL SERVICES | 2,048 | $6,029,628,475 |
| Services Subtotal | 5,627 | $7,773,512,133 |
| Training | ||
| TECHNICAL ASSISTANCE | 38 | $1,356,536 |
| TRAINING/TRAINEESHIP | 3,591 | $544,297,132 |
| CONFERENCES (INFORMATION TRANSFER/TECHNOLOGY TRANSFER) | 12 | $71,811 |
| Training Subtotal | 3,641 | $545,725,479 |
| Other | ||
| OTHER | 3,875 | $4,169,016,838 |
| PLANNING | 7 | $0 |
| CONSTRUCTION | 13 | $0 |
| FELLOWSHIP/SCHOLARSHIP/STUDENT LOANS | 2,003 | $57,647,835 |
| KDA (KNOWLEDGE/DEVELOPMENT/APPLICATION) | 174 | $15,011,235 |
| Other Subtotal | 6,072 | $4,241,675,908 |
| Grand Total | 45,959 | $23,268,161,475 |
(For those of you who came out of the US Public Education System, that’s $23 with a B as in Billion.
Aren’t you curious about the “other” category? I am….)
Some (not alll) agencies. The FIRST number to right of name is number of OFFICES< then SECOND is the number of PROGRAMS:
Of these 17 “Offices” (a functional, not geographic term)typically known by their initials (Cf. “FDA”) are these. Again, the number to the RIGHT represents the # of programs under this “office.”
In terms of dollars (see below, 2008), only CMMS (Medicare and Medicaid) had more than ACF:
HHS Grants By OPDIV
This report shows the total number of grants (mandatory and discretionary) and total number of grant dollars awarded by each HHS operating division (agency). It also shows the percentage of the total number of grants, and the percentage of total grant dollars that each agency awarded with respect to the total number of grants and grant dollars awarded by all HHS agencies. Of the total HHS grant dollars, the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS) awards about two-thirds; the Administration for Children & Families (ACF) awards about 20%; and the National Institutes of Health (NIH) awards less than 10%.
(FY displays as 2011 for some reason, but these are 2008 figures).
FY: 2011 2010 2009 2008 2007 2006 2005 2004
| OPDIV | Number | #% | Dollars | $% |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| ACF | 7,799 | 10.28% | $46,151,691,513 | 17.40% |
| AHRQ | 307 | 0.40% | $84,085,143 | 0.03% |
| AOA | 1,141 | 1.50% | $1,385,629,076 | 0.52% |
| CDC | 3,486 | 4.59% | $4,424,589,279 | 1.67% |
| CMS | 1,000 | 1.32% | $181,153,208,973 | 68.29% |
| DHHS/OS | 631 | 0.83% | $877,067,242 | 0.33% |
| FDA | 142 | 0.19% | $36,823,882 | 0.01% |
| HRSA | 6,137 | 8.09% | $5,870,873,213 | 2.21% |
| IHS | 673 | 0.89% | $1,203,106,391 | 0.45% |
| NIH | 52,057 | 68.59% | $21,113,804,312 | 7.96% |
| SAMHSA | 2,525 | 3.33% | $2,973,765,742 | 1.12% |
| Total | 75,898 | $265,274,644,766 |
OK, let us now look at those 70 ACF programs:
Below, the # (93.###) is the “CFDA” Number used in the TAGGS database cataloguing usage of grants — down to who got them, and at least a nominal description, as well as, er, how much was allocated and when. So those CFDA #s are a research tool for the informed citizen. Catalogue of Federal Domestic Assistance (CFDA, get it?)
I’ve colored, highlit, italicized, and bolded many of them. How MANY of these programs overlap with each other, and are VERY much entwined with the topic of this blog — family court matters.
For example, if child support were consistently enforced, PERHAPS more Moms could stay home with infants, saving money at Head Start centers. However Motherhood is not in consonance with “promoting Fatherhood/”health marriages” policy of late, which means, bring Dads back, more access. This means sometimes Moms then have to go out and replace that child support she just lost at custody-switch time, which then, if Dad also has full-time work and not a stay-at-home second wife, would necessitate possibly more child care, right? See the merry go round?
Of course, see also the article on the Boyhood project, and the commentary that the US is the world’s largest (by per capita) jailor, which is probably a factor in so many fatherless families, maybe even as much as them danged feminazi’s saying, stop hitting us! and letting women out of abusive situations.
I want us to see the incredible breadth and scope of activity under this department. And to make a note of research tools, and to understand, the next time your local state, county, or city says they’re broke, that there may be some federal reasons why. ALL of these are under the Executive Branch of government. Responsible Citizenhood entails learning about them — before you become desperate for services from one or more of them!
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Below, you may now see why IWF might be squawking about whether More, Earlier, Better (0-5 actually helps, or for that matter, is best. For that, please (now) see the next post (date: 06-19-09)
Written by Let's Get Honest|She Looks It Up
June 16, 2009 at 12:29 PM
Suicide, Incarceration? Yes, “it’s a guy thing,” but let’s talk SENSE as to why! (2006, “TheBoysProject.net”)
Finally, some SENSE, facts, (vs. rhetoric, or paid-for data), from at least ONE man concerned about the welfare of men and boys (and, as a result, our nation). . .on “The State of American Manhood.“
Thomas G. Mortenson, Senior Scholar, The Pell Institute for the Study of Higher Education, and Higher Education Policy Analyst has my attention, because his talk makes sense with experience AND data. Rather than rhetoric and trying to scapegoat an entire gender, or system, this newsletter is full of charts and data addressing the very real problem.
The 2006 newsletter No. 171, from “Postsecondary.org” is attached as a PDF to this post
If you are limited in time (or patience with my writing style), PLEASE read my quotes in italic blue ( which discusses higher education as the former land-ownership access to the middle class, and participation in the US economy) from Mr. Mortenson’s blog, and the about 24-page, black & white, chart-filled, common-sense pdf. . . . It will help you come this June 20th, cut through some of the propaganda!
I will listen to any man or woman who will acknowledge the problem in a sane and non-volatile manner, and state some of the potential causes more sensibly than to blame an entire gender for wanting, say, justice, or employment, or to protect themselves or their children from violence. Who does not come at the reader with hate, or religious bias, at least that I can see. And whose personal background is not a trail of fundraising and rabble raising with a religion already known to be rough on women.
From his blog, “postsecondaryopportunity.blogspot.com“:
My endowment gift to the Pell Institute is an unrestricted gift to support and advance the research agenda of the Institute. I decided to do so a decade ago because closing the gap in higher educational opportunity between those born into low-income families and those born into affluent families would not be accomplished in my lifetime. In fact this gap has been widening almost steadily since the advent of regressive social policy in the United States around 1980.
My personal motivation for endowing the Pell Institute with my gift reflects my family’s story of what America has meant to us. {{Note: this man spent his own money, not taxpayers!, in attempting to address a social problem}}
Family history has become a lifelong hobby, and I am not done yet with either life or that assignment.
In 1975 I went to Europe to see where my ancestors had come from and try to understand why they left their homelands for America. Of the five places I visited one, in Prussia (now Poland) I knew the motivation to emigrate was to escape conscription into Otto von Bismark’s armies. These were draft dodgers.
But in the other four places I was stunned to find that my ancestors had lived in the shadow of castles. My ancestors were share croppers, or serfs, and did not own the land they farmed. They worked for the people who lived in the castles and owned the land. These places included Sweden (Skane), East Germany (Neuenkirchen), West Germany (Oberderdingen) and Switzerland (Graubunden). My farmer ancestors saw that good farm land was available free or at least cheap in the United States, and so they left and settled in Minnesota, Illinois, Wisconsin, Iowa and South Dakota.
When these ancestors came to America between about 1840 and 1880 they came as farmers, and opportunity in the agrarian economy of that era meant owning and working your own land. America provided that opportunity in abundance and my ancestors benefited directly from the opportunities America offered but which were not available in Sweden, Prussia, Neubrandenburg, Mecklinburg and Switzerland.
My ancestors also benefited from the developing educational system America decided it needed.
The modern equivalent to the opportunity of land ownership that my ancestors sought when they emigrated from Europe for America is higher education. Since about 1973 access to the American middle class is through higher education. Other work that paid well in agriculture, manufacturing and some other industries has been replaced with work in other industries such as education and health care, business and professional services, leisure and hospitality services and other service industries that require higher education.
Today both immigrants and natives can prosper only if they have the education and training that only higher education provides. Higher education has become the gatekeeper to the American middle class experience. And under regressive policy choices that access has been largely limited to those that inherit privilege by their birth. The United States is becoming the kind of country that my ancestors fled when they left Europe for the opportunities available in America. And Europe is starting to look more like the progressive America that we once were.
THIS SPEAKS TO ME. I entered marriage educated, well-educated, and took an extra 4 years to explore what the public school and my family did NOT provide for me, a sense of purpose, and faith (“God”) to the education. I already knew to share music was my joy and intention since age 15. But I had no answers or system of reference to what had happened in our own family, including 4 divorces, a sudden death, and why no one ever talked about “God” while they sent the girls (only) to church. There was in fact, almost no talk of life whatsoever, it was just lived, and experienced. No long-term planning, no service orientation, no deep thought as to the “whys” of life ever took place. No talk about relationships, men & women, families, life, community — almost anything. We simply absorbed education and literature, privileged travels and arts & leisure. I sought this elsewhere, in a B.Th., and then settled in, I thought to marriage. It did not occur to search for meaning to parents who didn’t even believe there was a God. My extended communities consisted of professional and school associates, and roommates, etc. v ia work.
MARRIAGE WAS EXPERIENCED AS A DECADE OF INTENTIONAL PUT-DOWN AND ATTEMPT TO “EVEN THE BALANCE” BY CHOPPING OFF PARTS OF MY LIFE AND PSYCHE (AND TO AN EXTENT, OUR DAUGHTERS’ ALSO), SO AS NOT TO EMBARASS DAD. RATHER THAN DAD, AS WE HAD, LIFTING HIMSELF UP BY READING, STUDY, AND EFFORT.
DIVORCE & CUSTODY WAS EXPERIENCED, IN FAMILY COURT, THE SAME WAY. AS I CONTINUED TO SEARCH FOR ANSWERS WHY (IN THIS REALM), I WAS SHOCKED AND DISTURBED TO FIND MY COUNTRY ENDORSING A VIRTUAL STATE RELIGION BASED ON GENDER AND FEAR OF THE FEMININE. LOOKING FURTHER, THE ECONOMY APPEARS TO BE DRIVEN BY — AND ABSOLUTELY REQUIRE — CLASS SEPARATION BY EDUCATIONAL DYSFUNCTION. THE USA HAS BECOME THE WORLD’S LARGEST INCARCERATOR, AND WASTING ITS OWN TALENT. WOMEN ARE FLEEING IT FOR SAFETY AND CIVIL RIGHTS, ALTHOUGH WHERE SAFETY MAY BE IS QUESTIONABLE. IT IS EXPORTING DYSFUNCTION WORLDWIDE THROUGH A NUMBER OF INSTITUTIONS, AND AT PUBLIC EXPENSE.
THOMAS MORTENSON OBSERVES AND DOCUMENTS SOME OF THIS THIS. I HOPE YOU READ.
Note: I am not federally funded, and cannot spend too long adjusting each post, the dysfunction I speak of still affects my life, my daughters’ and my family of origin’s, and it is tending to drain our creative productive energies to fighting over this issue of justice, and the right to keep family secrets (which include a history of DV on both sides, generationally), and in general dumb down and impoverish my own family line. I was in a service industry, one which helped lift people up by empowering them to do music, well, together. That experience, and the music people were exposed to, enriched all of us by the doing.
I had to stop to fight this battle, and hope that we will not continue recycling through dumbing-us-down any longer. As of this post, my own daughter is about to enter a top-notch university in California. That graduation is colored by my need to SKIP it for safety reasons, a recent parental abduction to avoid child support and “win,” and a family refusal to recognize that alternatives to the public school education work, and are viable for single mothers. As well as a refusal to acknowledge the role of fundamentalist-driven misogyny in the current trouble.
Carpet-baggers and profiteers have ALWAYS thrived after war and in situations of strife and chaos. Sometimes they don’t wait to find such situations, but help create them. It is not enough to chase the ambulances, but to actually create the accidents.
Mr. Mortenson appears to notice that the educational system is such, at least for boys (I say, for girls as well, it doesn’t help us, at this point). I maintain, at this point, that it is the accident-creater that is driving this ecomony. Our present economy feeds off dysfunction and dependency, and literally REQUIRES it. Whereas, formerly, it was a credit and pride to a family to be able to feed themselves, and then some.
THIS scholar & newsletter ACKNOWLEDGES: A lot of the “fatherlessness” and disengagement is apparent in part from, the USA having become the world’s largest Imprisoner. THEN, he relates it to higher education for men.
So, Mr. Mortensen here begins by ADMITTING we have a problem, and naming it.
“By a broad array of economic, social, and civic measures, a growing section of American men are in serious trouble. For decades men have been disengaging from the labor force, disengaging from children they have fathered**, getting into serious trouble with the law, disengaging from civic roles, and even killing themselves at record rates. Our traditional notions of economically productive, socially responsible, family oriented, civically engaged and happy adult men apply to a rapidly shrinking share of American men.”
**The typical father’s rights activist would often blame this on either (1) women, for divorcing or not marrying, or (2) the family court system, as well as of course, those feminists. This had my attention immediately it is NOT inflammatory, but acknowledges a problem exists.
Page 19-20:
Incarceration is a guy thing… 90.1 % of those behind bars in the US are men…[Citing 2004/2005 statistics, and Federal/State/Local, as to local, he writes: “These men were in jail for property and violent crimes — acts that deserved punishment.”
FR solution: reduce their child support and increase their re-engagement with the children they fathered, without addressing WHY these people were in jail, or whether their behavior was sufficiently safe. Work-around: fund supervised visitation centers.. THIS author’s solution: Note this history and characteristics of US imprisoning men, and relate it to education. He NOTes that it began to increase rapidly in 1975, and that this is “attributable in part to Rockefeller drug laws in NY State, that introduced mandatory, long sentences for drug use.“
I knew this from reading libertarians who oppose/question drug laws (as well as violence against women laws) poking around the origins of family law, and finding out that one reason low-income people are so streamlined {{via mediation}} through the system (those without money which could be soaked for other services, such as custody evaluators, etc.) was that the courts and prisons were overcrowded because of the drug issues. This is rarely a topic in “responsible fatherhood” press.
As of this newsletter, 2006
of 213 countries, the 5 with highest incarceration rates are, in order: USA (top), Russian Federation (2nd), St. Kitts & Nevis (who?), Bermuda (UK), and Virgin Islands (USA)
Costs of incarceration:
(summarized quote); While experts vary, typically the direct operational costs are in the range of $20-25,000 per prisoner per year. At (XXX) prisoners, the annual costs is in the range of $43.6 BILLION to 54.5 BILLION per year.
For comparison, the annual discretionary (only, not “total”) grants for the Health and Human Services Dept. (2008) of the USA is cited as $40 billion. How many citizens know what that $40 BILLION is going towards? Not even the GAO does, we are now hearing (General Accountability Office), whose job it is to know. And report.
Just imagine if some way were found to avert the criminality — or major and increasing incarceration rate — among American men. . . Perhaps these two figures might be cancelling each other out? Is promoting responsible fatherhood and healthy marriage at the adult level (one figure I heard says, $150 million/year allocated) and in prisons and courtrooms as sensible as addressing foundational issues of the educational system? Is pouring more MONEY into the K-12 system going to fix it, or are there some design flaws? Is the exodus of “religion” from the public life (to be compensated for by allowing religious conservatives to run major US agencies) the problem?
I think Mr. Mortenson may be on the right track. Unfortunately, he’s of retirement age, and others will have to carry on, let’s hope.
So, Consider: “The Boys Project”
I am among many mothers where educational choice became a battlefield. I have a unique perspective from having taught many years before becoming a mother, then homeschooled our own daughters during the marriage, and having forcibly had children jerked in and out of different educational venues afterwards (while continuing, til recently, to teach kids across a spectrum myself). Because homeschooling had been challenged in family court, I continued to read up and try to ascertain WHY an educated (supposedly) adult could come to equate the word “credentialed” with “competent” and remain unable or unwilling to accept evidence underfoot.
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No, I’m not selling anything. I just found a male person that has something relevant and non-inflammatory to say on boyhood/manhood
This talks about the EDUCATION.
This report below addresses the problem from a different perspective — that of education. Combined with his blog, it makes sense. He tells how public education is failing boys. It is ALSO failing girls, even when they succeed in it, and not addressed in this either is how the shooters, in public schools, are uniformly (to my knowledge) male, and their targets commonly female. Schools are failing girls, too. There is probably a message here about the school system’s assault on individual autonomy.
But, the dialogue (and charts) are at least above the level of “feminazi bitch family-haters, and poor, underfunded fatherhood woes” dialogue typical of the press these days. And some of the Congressional initiatives, too. At least let’s toss into the pot some other factors.
My ex husband, non-college grad, became an education expert a few years after I filed the restraining order. The theme of our divorce, as well as our marriage, continued to focus on repeated put-downs, religiously motivated. The pattern was: I would act, it would be undone, under some external threat or declaration. The result is: action produces punishment, inaction (which would ostensibly appear safer) produces poverty. Nice choice. I think that the public education system failed us both — me, female, through success, him, male through failure, and overall, in manners that have been addressed in other books. This system does NOT support the families, and were it not so politicized to start with, POSSIBLY there wouldn’t be so many reactionary movements to it, giving a bad name to others who simply exited the system because they had a better alternative available elsewhere.
Consider:
A report from ‘The Boys Project” – “The_State_of_American_Manhood“
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I forgot where I ran across this one. Who cares? But the authors say I can post if I credit them. So here is A Report from The Boys Project — and it’s not talking about responsible fatherhood (aren’t you BORED with that?), but some very REAL issues that existed before the ones that are being artificially prophesied, and then produced, through my own federal government.
I cannot reproduce the pages on this post, so please look yourself.
They are talking about inequality in the public school classroom.
Now we are on my turf, and there is some truth to this. However, our nation is not going to permit the obvious solution — understanding the insanity between age-separated co-ed grade levels for children, kept in rooms, from K-8th grade at a minimum.
See pages 19 & 20. Scan and enjoy. I will also post from one author’s blog.
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What this is:
- A Sept. 2006 Newsletter 171, “Postsecondary Education Opportunity,” with the reference to “postsecondaryopportunity.blogspot.com,” which I recommend (and may quote) and “postsecondary.org”
- It is a 24-page pdf WE SHOULD READ filled with graphs, statements, and figures not common to the men’s rights/women’s rights dialogue.
- Thomas G. Mortenson is a Senior Scholar at the Pell Institute for Higher Education.
Why didn’t Congress vote in 1998 and 1999 to hold a National Let’s Talk About Higher Education Summit with as much urgency and drama as they did about “fathers” per se?
Written by Let's Get Honest|She Looks It Up
June 4, 2009 at 7:05 AM
That’s my USA: 1770s-Founding Fathers design a nation, including “Congress,” 1990s-Congress redesigns “Fatherhood,” [Omitting “motherhood”] while slaves and women try to fit in somewhere along the way
And inbetween (1863, 1963), two major civil rights leaders (one white, one black, both male), remind the nation about the original proposition of Justice.
Meanwhile, before and after the Civil War, women ask to be included in the nouns referring to “citizens” and “persons.” Somewhere around World War I, Congress passes this; with Maryland waiting til 1958 to send its acknowledgement in…
Yep, that’s what I love about this country, the “USA”:
1770s, let’s say 1776. . . .
Some forefathers held a number of meetings (summits) and designed, among other things Declared Independence from Longstanding and Egregious Pattern of Oppressions, declared certain unalienable rights including life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, protested and enumerated (specifically) some nasty things the Mother Country (England) and its King had done, and in an attempt to make sure the people had a voice in their own government. They designed two houses of Congress to meet and make laws; an EXECUTIVE Branch to enforce & execute them (NOT write them) and a JUDICIAL Branch to judge fairly as to the enforcement of these laws.
This all based on the premise that no one individual or entity should have too much power over the people.
The concept of a national definition of “Happiness” I don’t think was set in concrete; but that life and liberty would enable men to pursue it, at least.
Keywords: “Forefathers Design Congress”
For “oppression,” compare “abuse.”
SAMPLE:
Declaration of Independence, July 4, 1776
When in the course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the laws of nature and of nature’s God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.
We hold these truths to be self-evident:
That all men are created equal; that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights; that among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness; that, to secure these rights, governments are instituted among men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed; that whenever any form of government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the right of the people to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new government, laying its foundation on such principles, and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their safety and happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shown that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same object, evinces a design to reduce them under absolute despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such government, and to provide new guards for their future security. Such has been the patient sufferance of these colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former systems of government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over these states. To prove this, let facts be submitted to a candid world.
- He has made judges dependent on his will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.
- He has erected a multitude of new offices, and sent hither swarms of officers to harass our people and eat out their substance.
- He has kept among us, in times of peace, standing armies, without the consent of our legislatures. ((NB: The standing armies of our day & time may have other names, but are backed up by police force….))
- He has affected to render the military independent of, and superior to, the civil power.
- He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our Constitution and unacknowledged by our laws, giving his assent to their acts of pretended legislation:
Hmmm. . . . . Interesting . . . . .
1848 — 72 years later, women say, “Us, too!”
Some women, referring to the Declaration of Independence meet in NY to demand equal rights, including the vote.
Fighting for the Vote
The first women’s rights convention took place in Seneca Falls, N.Y., in July 1848. The declaration that emerged was modeled after the Declaration of Independence. Written by Elizabeth Cady Stanton, it claimed that “all men and women are created equal” and that “the history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman.” Following a long list of grievances were resolutions for equitable laws, equal educational and job opportunities, and the right to vote.
1863 (87 years later….)
President Lincoln remembers what 1776 was about
Growing pains — some discrepancies of interpretation of the word “men” arise, and more discrepancies about the balance of powers between Federal and States.
President Lincoln — following a 2-hour speech, gives a memorable 2- MINUTE speech referring to the above:
| Four score and seven years ago, our fathers brought forth, upon this continent, a new nation, conceived in liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that “all men are created equal”
Now we are engaged in a great civil war, testing whether that nation, or any nation so conceived, and so dedicated, can long endure. We are met on a great battlefield of that war. We have come to dedicate a portion of it, as a final resting place for those who died here, that the nation might live. This we may, in all propriety do. But, in a larger sense, we can not dedicate — we can not consecrate — we can not hallow, this ground — The brave men, living and dead, who struggled here, have hallowed it, far above our poor power to add or detract. The world will little note, nor long remember what we say here; while it can never forget what they did here. It is rather for us, the living, we here be dedicated to the great task remaining before us — that, from these honored dead we take increased devotion to that cause for which they here, gave the last full measure of devotion — that we here highly resolve these dead shall not have died in vain; that the nation, shall have a new birth of freedom, and that government of the people by the people for the people, shall not perish from the earth.
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“With the Union victory in the Civil War, women abolitionists hoped their hard work would result in suffrage for women as well as for blacks. But the 14th and 15th Amendments to the Constitution, adopted in 1868 and 1870 respectively, granted citizenship and suffrage to blacks but not to women.”
1866-1868 –
13th, 14th, & 15th, Amendments still not thought to include women:
Constitutional Grants of Powers to Congress under the Civil War Amendments
AMENDMENT XIII
Passed by Congress January 31, 1865. Ratified December 6, 1865.
Section 1.
Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction.
Section 2.
Congress shall have power to enforce this article by appropriate legislation.
AMENDMENT XIV
Passed by Congress June 13, 1866. Ratified July 9, 1868.
Section 1.
All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the State wherein they reside. No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.
Section 2-4 [omitted].
Section 5.
The Congress shall have the power to enforce, by appropriate legislation, the provisions of this article.
AMENDMENT XV
Passed by Congress February 26, 1869. Ratified February 3, 1870.
Section 1.
The right of citizens of the United States to vote shall not be denied or abridged by the United States or by any State on account of race, color, or previous condition of servitude.
Section 2.
The Congress shall have the power to enforce this article by appropriate legislation.
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1871 (95 years later) Congress has yet to acknowledge women as citizens or persons, in re: voting
Petition to Congress, December 1871
In the year following the ratification of the 15th amendment, a voting rights petition sent to the Senate and House of Representatives requested that suffrage rights be extended to women and that women be granted the privilege of being heard on the floor of Congress. It was signed by Susan B. Anthony, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, and other suffragists. Well known in the United States suffrage movement, Anthony and Stanton organized the National Woman Suffrage Association (NWSA) in 1869.
(http://www.archives.gov/education/lessons/woman-suffrage/petition-to-congress.html)
1920 — US. Constitution 19th Amendment, gives
women suffrage.
Nineteenth Amendment
Passed by Congress June 4, 1919.
Ratified August 18, 1920.Section 1: The right of citizens of the United States to vote shall not be denied or abridged by the United States or by any State on account of sex.
Section 2: Congress shall have power to enforce this article by appropriate legislation.
Which countries granted women the vote first? Do you see USA on here?
1958
Maryland finally sends its acknowledgement that women can vote (now 38 yrs old) to Congress.
1963 (187 years later). . ..

This man, speaking at the “Lincoln Memorial” remembers both Lincoln and the Declaration of Independence.
Because of copyright (image is public domain), please review at link (title) for audio and transcription:
I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.
Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.
But one hundred years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languished in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. And so we’ve come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.
In a sense we’ve come to our nation’s capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir.
1966 – N.O.W. formed, and says:
We, men and women, who hereby constitute ourselves as the National Organization for Women, believe that the time has come for a new movement toward true equality for all women in America, and toward a fully equal partnership of the sexes, as part of the world-wide revolution of human rights now taking place within and beyond our national borders.
The purpose of NOW is to take action to bring women into full participation in the mainstream of American society now, exercising all the privileges and responsibilities thereof in truly equal partnership with men.
We believe the time has come to move beyond the abstract argument, discussion and symposia over the status and special nature of women which has raged in America in recent years; the time has come to confront, with concrete action, the conditions that now prevent women from enjoying the equality of opportunity and freedom of which is their right, as individual Americans, and as human beings.
NOW is dedicated to the proposition that women, first and foremost, are human beings, who, like all other people in our society, must have the chance to develop their fullest human potential. We believe that women can achieve such equality only by accepting to the full the challenges and responsibilities they share with all other people in our society, as part of the decision-making mainstream of American political, economic and social life.
We organize to initiate or support action, nationally, or in any part of this nation, by individuals or organizations, to break through the silken curtain of prejudice and discrimination against women in government, industry, the professions, the churches, the political parties, the judiciary, the labor unions, in education, science, medicine, law, religion and every other field of importance in American society. Enormous changes taking place in our society make it both possible and urgently necessary to advance the unfinished revolution of women toward true equality, now. With a life span lengthened to nearly 75 years it is no longer either necessary or possible for women to devote the greater part of their lives to child-rearing; yet childbearing and rearing which continues to be a most important part of most women’s lives-still is used to justify barring women from equal professional and economic participation and advance.
AND:
NOW we have Congress Designing Fatherhood, trying to “equalize” the progress since, say, women got the right to vote, own property, sue their husbands in divorce situations, and become increasingly educated:
1990s, before women’s right to vote turns 100, Fatherhood Fights Back . . .
The Fatherhood Industry – initiatives to promote responsible fatherhood, stigmatize absentee fathers
Progressive, The , Nov, 1999 by Judith Davidoff
Created in 1994 to “counter the growing problem of fatherlessness by stimulating a broad-based social movement to restore responsible fatherhood as a national priority,” the National Fatherhood Initiative believes that “fathers make unique and irreplaceable contributions to the lives of their children.”
In its first year, the group convened a National Summit on Fatherhood in Dallas. The purpose, according to the group’s literature, was to gather the nation’s “civic, business, and philanthropic leaders” together to “build a national consensus on the need to quickly reduce father absence.” The National Fatherhood Initiative provides technical assistance to the Governors’ Task Force on Fatherhood Promotion, whose goal is to help “rebuild the institution of fatherhood” in the twenty-first century. And the group works with the bipartisan Congressional Task Force on Fatherhood Promotion,formed in 1997 to promote leadership in combating “fatherlessness.”
1992/1993, Jack Straton writes about “what’s Fair to Children of Abusive Men?
1994 – VAWA act passed. Losing no time,
1994 — NFI Formed
JUNE 1995? — Clinton, Fatherhood Executive Memo (see my blogroll), directing ALL Federal Depts & Agencies to review and revise their policies to include fathers.
June 1998 — House of Reps passes a resolution (see below; I also posted the 1999 Congressional resolution earlier).
AND SO ON, AND SO FORTH…
The Declaration of Independence AND The Gettysburg Address AND the “I Have a Dream” speech contain complete sentences: subject, object, verb. They reference specific time and place and identified principles.
- Several of the doctrines I find so damaging and hurtful to families in this nation, USA, today, do not even have a verb! They are buzzwords, sound-bytes, with no nutrients inside. They are enzymes, not protein, not fiber, not a healthy balance of nutrients. When even the SUBJECTs (agents of the missing verbs) are missing, then we have no open accountability for either precipating the action leading up to the desired state:
- “Promoting Responsible Fatherhood.”
- “Healthy Families”
- “No Child Left Behind”
- “Personal Work and Responsibility Act” (i.e., get off welfare)
- “Violence Against Women Act”
- “Parental Alienation Syndrome”
- “Equal Parenting” (a made-up word, attempting to eradicate the difference between “mother” and “father” and in essence, delete the word “mother” from public discourse, reducing us instead to “female.”), and, as I said yesterday,
- “Explicating Domestic Violence in the Context of Custody.”
- “Best Interests of the Child.” (anyone have a DEFINITION of that??)
We would be better off promoting justice, rather than “fatherhood” (but not motherhood”), to promote which requires UNDERmining the justice process, outside of plain view of the participants.
That’s enough for today. More of the same can be found at the HHS website.
I will share some of the “funding” of the fatherhood movement (some, only) in a separate post.
1998 H. Res 417 s
Next thing you know, about 222 hundred years later
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105th CONGRESS
2d Session
H. RES. 417
Regarding the importance of fathers in the raising and development of
their children.
_______________________________________________________________________
IN THE HOUSE OF REPRESENTATIVES
April 30, 1998
Mr. Pitts (for himself, Mr. Turner, Mr. Rogan, Mr. McIntyre, Mr.
Gingrich, Mr. Armey, Mr. DeLay, Mr. Boehner, Mr. Gephardt, and Mr.
Bonior) submitted the following resolution; which was referred to the
Committee on Education and the Workforce
_______________________________________________________________________
RESOLUTION
Regarding the importance of fathers in the raising and development of
their children.
Whereas studies reveal that even in high-crime, inner-city neighborhoods, well
over 90 percent of children from safe, stable, two-parent homes do not
become delinquents;
Whereas researchers have linked father presence with improved fetal and infant
development, and father-child interaction has been shown to promote a
http://frwebgate1.access.gpo.gov/cgi-bin/TEXTgate.cgi?WAISdocID=9851889234+2+1+0&WAISaction=retrieve
1998_H04249.pdf (application/pdf Object).
The vote (Roll No. 212) was yeas 415, nays 0, not voting 18.
REGARDING IMPORTANCE OF FATHERS IN RAISING
AND DEVELOPMENT OF THEIR CHILDREN
(House of Representatives – June 09, 1998)
H. Res. 417
Whereas studies reveal that even in high-crime, inner-city neighborhoods, well over 90 percent of
children from safe, stable, two-parent homes do not become delinquents;
Whereas researchers have linked father presence with improved fetal and infant development, and
father-child interaction has been shown to promote a child’s physical well-being, perceptual
abilities, and competency for relatedness with other persons, even at a young age;
Whereas premature infants whose fathers spend ample time playing with them have better cognitive
outcomes, and children who have higher than average self-esteem and lower than average
depression report having a close relationship with their father;
Whereas both boys and girls demonstrate a greater ability to take initiative and evidence
self-control when they are reared with fathers who are actively involved in their upbringing;
Whereas, although mothers often work tremendously hard to rear their children in a nurturing
environment, a mother can benefit from the positive support of the father of her children;
Whereas, according to a 1996 Gallup Poll, 79.1 percent of Americans believe the most significant
family or social problem facing America is the physical absence of the father from the home and the
resulting lack of involvement of fathers in the rearing and development of their children;
Whereas, according to the Bureau of the Census, in 1994, 19,500,000 children in the United
States (nearly one-fourth of all children in the United States) lived in families in which the father was
absent;
Whereas, according to a 1996 Gallup Poll, 90.9 percent of Americans believe it is important for
children to live in a home with both their mother and their father’;
Whereas it is estimated that half of all United States children born today will spend at least half their
childhood in a family in which a father figure is absent;
Whereas estimates of the likelihood that marriages will end in divorce range from 40 percent to 50
percent, and approximately three out of every five divorcing couples have at least one child;
Whereas almost half of all 11- through 16-year-old children who live in mother-headed homes
have not seen their father in the last twelve months;
Whereas the likelihood that a young male will engage in criminal activity doubles if he is reared
without a father and triples if he lives in a neighborhood with a high concentration of single-parent
families;
Whereas children of single-parents are less likely to complete high school and more likely to have
low earnings and low employment stability as adults than children reared in two-parent families;
Whereas a 1990 Los Angeles Times poll found that 57 percent of all fathers and 55 percent of all
mothers feel guilty about not spending enough time with their children;
Whereas almost 20 percent of 6th through 12th graders report that they have not had a good
conversation lasting for at least 10 minutes with at least one of their parents in more than a month;
Whereas, according to a Gallup poll, over 50 percent of all adults agreed that fathers today spend
less time with their children than their fathers spent with them;
Whereas President Clinton has stated that `the single biggest social problem in our society may be
the growing absence of fathers from their children’s homes because it contributes to so many other
social problems’ and that ‘the real source of the [welfare] problem is the inordinate number of out
of wedlock births in this country’;
Whereas the Congressional Task Force on Fatherhood Promotion and the Senate Task Force on
Fatherhood Promotion were both formed in 1997, and the Governors Fatherhood Task Force was
formed in February 1998;
Whereas the Congressional Task Force on Fatherhood Promotion is exploring the social changes
that are required to ensure that every child is reared with a father who is committed to be actively
involved in the rearing and development of his children;
Whereas the 36 members of the Congressional Task Force on Fatherhood Promotion are
promoting fatherhood in their congressional districts;
Whereas the National Fatherhood Initiative is holding a National Summit on Fatherhood in
Washington, D.C., with the purpose of mobilizing a response to father absence in several of the
most powerful sectors of society, including public policy, public and private social services,
education, religion, entertainment, the media, and the civic community;
Whereas both Republican and Democrat leaders of the House of Representatives and the Senate
will be participating in this event; and
Whereas the promotion of fatherhood is a bipartisan issue: Now, therefore, be it
Resolved, That the House of Representatives–
(1) recognizes that the creation of a better America depends in large part on the active involvement
of fathers in the rearing and development of their children;
(2) urges each father in America to accept his full share of responsibility for the lives of his children,
to be actively involved in rearing his children, and to encourage the academic, moral, and spiritual
development of his children and urges the States to aggressively prosecute those fathers who fail to
fulfill their legal responsibility to pay child support;
(3) encourages each father to devote time, energy, and resources to his children, recognizing that
children need not only material support, but more importantly a secure, affectionate, family
environment; and
(4) expresses its support for a national summit on fatherhood
Written by Let's Get Honest|She Looks It Up
June 1, 2009 at 11:42 AM
When “National Fathers Returning” gets logistically complex…
Where father-absence meets the Guinness Book of Records, public policy gets a little complex:
I’d like to see THAT co-parenting plan. . . .
Desmond Hatchett fathers 21 kids to 11 women
By staff writers
NEWS.com.au
May 30, 2009 12:01am
Mr Hatchett has apparently set a US record but denied he had set out to claim a place in history.
“It just happened,” he said.
Desmond Hatchett’s extraordinary brood came to light after authorities in Tennessee took the 29-year-old to court for non-payment of child support.
He said the women he was involved with all knew that he had other children.
(Someone give me a profile on whether or not the women, too, attended government-funded compulsory public education, in order to get so smart, or discriminating, or plain old lonely, or ??? inspired to pursue their careers.)
Written by Let's Get Honest|She Looks It Up
May 29, 2009 at 5:15 PM
Posted in History of Family Court, My Takes, and Favorite Takes
Tagged with fatherhood, social commentary, U.S. Govt $$ hard @ work..
Irresponsible Behavior in Promoting Responsible Fatherhood
I was ALMOST done for today, when I saw again another site of a man protesting the DV laws.
Being the snoop that I have become (bloodhound when I smell a rat?), I went from this link back through “Equal Justice Foundation” (which has automatic contributions from Federal Employees, but promotes known fatherhood shucksters, hucksters, lawyers, and media experts, including this one):
Barack Obama on the Jeffrey Leving Radio Show
It even has captions for the audio-impaired, which my PC currently is.
Here’s another resounding promotion of FATHERHOOD a few days before MOTHER’s Days, from these same two. At first I thought it was related directly to the “fatherhood woes” MSNBC article I recently commented on.
“Obama and Leving To Endorse Responsible Fatherhood on Soul 106”
Chicago May 9. PR/Newswire: Attorney Jeff Leving’s Exclusive interview with Presidential Hopeful Senator Barack Obama will appear on the Jeffrey Leving Father’s Legal Rights Radio Show on (what appears to be close to Mother’s Day 2008, again……).
The Focus of the Inteview will be on Obama’s Responsible Fatherhood and Healthy Families Act that he re-introduced. As President, Obama will sign this family-strengthening act into law. (after him here comes Senator Evan Bayh, same deal). Fatherhood woes, MY EYE!
Less than a year later, in the same Land of Lincoln, a Governor was arrested for attempting to sell Obama’s Senate seat.
(Link is the 12/08/08 Times online.UK report,)
The Governor of Illinois was arrested yesterday for allegedly trying to sell Barack Obama’s vacated US Senate seat to the highest bidder.
The arrest of Rod Blagojevich and John Harris, his chief of staff, cast a light on the home state of the President-elect, which has a history of endemic corruption.
The charges include allegations that the Democratic governor, who has served two-terms, conspired with Antoin “Tony” Rezko, a former friend and political donor of Mr Obama, in schemes requiring individuals and companies to pay kickbacks in return for state contracts.
This appears to be business as usual. (The Oldest Profession — Salesmanship). (AND the 2nd oldest, in a sense….)
Here is the SENATE Task Force on Responsible Fatherhood (Bear in mind — this task force is at least 10 years old)
http://www.fatherhood.org/tf_senate.asp
Members are invited to speak at NFI events held throughout the country, including Congressional briefings and the annual Fatherhood Awards Gala, and are regularly updated on any developments and new research findings relevant to the fatherhood movement.
The Senate Task Force is co-chaired by Senator Evan Bayh (D – IN) and Senator John Thune (R-SD).
The Members of the Senate Task Force:
Lisa Murkowski – AK
John McCain – AZ
Christopher Dodd – CT
Michael Crapo – ID
Sam Brownback – KS
Barbara Mikulski – MD
Arlen Specter – PA
Robert Bennett – UT
Jeff Sessions – AL
Jon Kyl – AZ
Tom Harkin – IA
Pat Roberts – KS
Mitch McConnell – KY
Mary Landrieu – LA
Edward Kennedy – MA
Susan Collins – ME
Olympia Snowe – ME
James Inhofe – OK
Jim DeMint – SC
Tim Johnson – SD
Kay Bailey Hutchison – TX
Orrin Hatch – UT
Mike Enzi – WY
Here is the “Congressional” One (i..e, House of Reps, I gather):
Being a member of the Congressional Task Force on Responsible Fatherhood signifies a commitment to the responsible fatherhood movement and a devotion to supporting legislation that promotes and fosters responsible fatherhood. Members are invited to speak at NFI events that are held throughout the country, including Congressional briefings and the Annual Fatherhood Awards Gala, and are regularly updated on any developments and new research findings relevant to the fatherhood movement.
WAIT A MINUTE! AREN’T THERE ELECTED REPRESENTATIVES?
ARE THEY NOT LEGALLY RESPONSIBLE TO ALSO REPRESENT THE INTERESTS OF THE MOTHERS IN THEIR CONSTITUENCIES, AND INFORM THOSE MOTHERS AS WELL AS THOSE FATHERS, WHAT’S UP? ARE NOT WOMEN APPROXIMATELY HALF THE POPULATION IN THESE STATES AND MOST LIKELY DISTRICTS? THEN WHY ARE THESE ELECTED REPRESENTATIVES SIGNING ON, CARTE-BLANCHE, TO A “MOVEMENT”??
The Congressional Task Force is chaired by
Reps. Joseph Pitts (R-PA), Mike McIntyre (D-NC),
Robert Aderholt (R-AL), John Sullivan (R-OK), and Eleanor Holmes Norton (D-DC).
The Members of the Congressional Task Force:
Dennis Cardoza – CA-18
Bob Filner – CA-51
Jack Kingston – GA-1
David Scott – GA-13
Sanford Bishop – GA-2
Luis Gutierrez – IL-4
Donald Manzullo – IL-16
Daniel Lipinski – IL-3
Mark Souder – IN-3
Mike Pence – IN-6
John Sarbanes – MD-3
Elijah Cummings – MD-7
Chris Van Hollen – MD-8
Roy Blunt – MO-7
Bob Etheridge – NC-2
Walter Jones – NC-3
Sue Myrick – NC-9
Lee Terry – NE-2
Donald Payne – NJ-10
Peter King – NY-3
Todd Platts – PA-19
Joe Wilson – SC-2
John Duncan – TN-2
Zach Wamp – TN-3
Kay Granger – TX-12
Chet Edwards – TX-17
Solomon Ortiz – TX-27
Frank Wolf – VA-10
J. Randy Forbes – VA-4
What IS this, a perpetual motion machine, administration to administration?
http://www.responsiblefatherhood.com/aboutthecouncil.html
The Illinois Council on Responsible Fatherhood is a state commission established by the Illinois State Legislature to promote the positive involvement of both parents in the lives of their children.
It’s very name indicates the truth. It has assumed that women are most normally the caretakers of the children, and because of this, and ONLY because of this, has chosen to try to equal the balance by representing the interests of fathers. Across the board.
Our Mission
The mission of the Illinois Council on Responsible Fatherhood is to significantly increase the number of children in Illinois that grow up with a responsible father in their lives. We seek to do this through:1) Raising public awareness of the impact of father absence on children
2) Assisting state agencies and other service providers the resources they need to promote responsible fatherhood
3) Reforming perceptions within state agencies and other service providers regarding the role of fathers as parents
4) Advocating for programs, policies and legislation that will encourage the positive involvement of fathers
The Responsible Fatherhood Act
Signed into law – Aug. 5, 2003Judge Stuttley – February 16th, 2008 Symposium on Parental Alienation Syndrome
{{The American Prosecutors Research Institute discredited this as far back as 2003. Didn’t deter Judge Stuttley, I suppose….}}
Alex Roseborough – March 1st, 2008 Symposium on Psychology and the Law and Its Affects on Fatherhood
{{that’s “Effects,” . . .. }}
Jeffery Leving – March 1st, 2008 Symposium on Psychology and the Law and Its Affects on Fatherhood
Annual Reports
2008 – 2007 – 2006 – 2005 – 2004In ILLINOIS Dept. of Health and Human Services alone:
Administered by: Bureau of Child and Adolescent Health
The mission of the Illinois Fatherhood Initiative is to end father absence by connecting children and fathers and promoting responsible fatherhood by equipping men to be father and father figures. The Illinois Fatherhood Initiative has developed the “Boot Camp for New Dads” program to address this issue. This is a national hospital-based program for expectant and new dads to prepare them to be actively involved fathers. The Boot Camp curriculum is a half-day workshop for expectant fathers held at local hospitals or community-based organizations. Each expectant father is taught the basics of being a new dad: how to hold a baby, change a diaper, what to expect in the first months and much more. This unique community education program for first-time fathers has Boot Camp veterans (together with their two to three-month-old babies) show the ropes to soon-to-be dads. These new dads return as veterans, continuing the cycle and offering their best advice to the next class.
Its target population is “First time fathers”. Illinois Fatherhood Initiative is currently involved with 20 hospitals located in high-risk communities in Illinois. During the last year, over 1,000 men attended Boot Camp for New Dads in Illinois.
Founder’s Message
Illinois Fatherhood Initiative (IFI) was created in February 1997 (3 years after VAWA passed. 1 yr before the US Senate posted the National Return to Fathers’ day, etc….) to address the increasing problem of father absence in society. Research indicates that some 24,000,000 children – 1.1 million in Illinois alone – are growing up today in homes without their father.
David is founder of Illinois Fatherhood Initiative, the country’s first state wide non-profit fatherhood organization, whose mission is connecting children and fathers by promoting responsible fathering and helping to equip men to become better fathers and father-figures. IFI has programs in schools, hospital, and workplaces across Illinois.
Are we DONE yet? It’s been 12 years! I find the concept that this is NEW a little odd. Why are there continual re-introductions of this act, and who is monitoring its success? Are fewer families getting annihilated? Are more Dads paying child support? Are women who left their men getting back with them, with POSITIVE results? Are fewer boys sowing their wild oats, and fewer girls deciding to have babies without a man in the home?
No, I did not notice that in May 2008 (see distant reference above, on this post), Presidential Hopeful then-Senator Barack Obama was adding to my uncollectable child support woes by signing on, AGAIN, to MORE fatherhood initiatives, which were woefully unattended to, not noticed in the US Senate or House of Representatives, and woefully underfunded as well:
However THIS one was a year earlier 2008. Why I didn’t notice in 2008? I was attempting to chase down EDD after the DV order having been overturned, and the DCSS (translation: OCSE) having refused to enforce child support OR standing custody orders, I became job-less. As I worked in a NON-state-funded Nonprofit (a.k.a., the Catholic Church), I got zero unemployment. Serves me right for not having known better than to, female, work in a church that for centuries wouldn’t let young girls (only boys) sing some of the most beautiful choral music around. And had to settle out of court on child abuse cases. However, at that time I DID, until just previously. All contact with my kids had been erased under what I NOW realize to be an out-come based, federally-funded policy to reduce child support arrears for fathers by granting them more access to their kids, no matter why such access was restrained to start with (say, prison, anyone?).
While I was unaware of THIS:
OMB Control No: 0970-0204
Expiration Date: 11/30/2008
(OMB = Office of Mgmt & Budget)
State Child Access Program Survey
Program Reporting Requirements
For Participation in the
Grants to States for Access and
Visitation Program –
Description of Projects & Participant Data
Purpose
The purpose of this survey is to provide information to Congress on the progress of services
provided under the Child Access and Visitation Grant, the goal of which is to “…support and
facilitate a noncustodial parents’ access to and visitation with their children.”
As part of the Personal Responsibility and Work Opportunity Reconciliation Act of 1996, states
are required to monitor, evaluate, and report on programs funded through this grant program in
accordance with regulations prescribed by the Secretary. A final rule delineating the program
data reporting requirements was published by the federal Office of Child Support Enforcement in
the Federal Register (64 FR 15132) on March 30, 1999, and specifies the collection of data as
follows:
“Section 303.109(c) REPORTING. The state must:
(1) Report a detailed description of each program funded, providing the following
information as appropriate: service providers and administrators, service area
(rural/urban), population served (income, race, marital status{{WHY NOT GENDER??}}), program goals, application
or referral process (including referral sources), voluntary or mandatory nature of the
programs, types of activities and length and features of a completed program; and
(2) Report data including: the number of applicants/referrals for each program, the total
number of participating individuals, and the number of persons who have completed
program requirements by authorized activities (mediation—voluntary and mandatory,
counseling, education, development of parenting plans, visitation enforcement—
including monitoring, supervision and neutral drop-off and pickup) and development of
guidelines for visitation and alternative custody arrangements.”
The local service provider is:
…responsible for completing the “Local Service Provider Survey” for clients served and
submitting this information to the state who, in turn, will submit it to OCSE . {{OFFICE OF CHILD SUPPORT ENFORCEMENT}} A new
feature of the survey (see Section D: Local Service Provider Worksheet) requires that grantees report on the following:
REQUIRED OUTCOME:
#1. Increased NCP parenting time with children.
(NCP = non custodial parent)
DEFINITION of Required Outcome:
“An increase in the number of hours, days, weekends, and/or holidays as compared to
parenting time prior to the provision of access and visitation services.”
HERE is from 2006 — ALONE:
Nationwide, States Deliver a Range of Access/Visitation Services
States determine services to be provided which include those defined in authorizing legislation (i.e., mediation, counseling, parent education, development of parenting plans, and visitation enforcement, including supervised visitation and/or neutral drop-off and pick-up). All services must be related to the overall goal of the AV program which is to “…enable states to establish and administer programs to support and facilitate non-custodial parents’ access to and visitation of their children….”
The majority of States provide more than one service, and in many instances, parents are the recipients of more than one service. Listed below are the number of parents that received each service type and the number of States that provided these services in FY 2006.
| Service Type | Number of States | Number of Parents |
|---|---|---|
| Mediation | 40 | 17,654 |
| Counseling | 31 | 4,529 |
| Parent Education | 36 | 47,994 |
| Parenting Plans | 38 | 15,340 |
| Visitation Enforcement: Supervised Visitation | 46 | 16,089 |
| Visitation Enforcement: Neutral Drop-Off/Pick-Up | 32 | 5,025 |
EVERY ONE of these ASPECTS HAS BEEN CALLED INTO QUESTION IN RE: DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SITUATIONS. EVERY ONE OF THEM IS ALSO ITSELF A RICH SOURCE OF JOB-REFERRALS WITHIN THE COURT COMMUNITY AND AN OPPORTUNITY FOR FURTHER KICKBACKS AND ABUSE. A WOMAN IN CALIFORNIA HAD A DAUGHTER IN SUPERVISED VISITATION, AND MADE WAVES WHEN THE SUPERVISOR HAD A SLAVE/MASTER RELATIONSHIP INVOLVING BESTIALITY (ETC.) AND INFECTED HER DAUGHTER. MOM HIT THE ROOF, CALLED WASHINGTON, WHO CALLED BACK, AND ATTEMPTED TO GET THE JUDGE RECUSED. THIS DIDN’T HAPPEN, SAID JUDGE WAS MERELY SWITCHED. MOREOVER, THERE IS THE ASPECT OF DOUBLE-DIPPING OF FUNDS, AND SO ON AND SO FORTH. WHO IS SUPERVISING THE SUPERVISORS, AND TRAINING THE PEOPLE TO DO SO? WHO IS DESIGNING THE PARENTING PLANS, AND ALSO PROFITING FROM WRITING AND SPEAKING ABOUT THEM? SAME COURT PERSONNEL, MANY TIMES, ASSIGNING THE PARENTS TO THEM. WHAT A JOBS BANK . . . . .
(I just added a link to the “Blogroll” for this pdf, which is recommended reading, and was found at “stopfamilyviolence.org” it is reporting troublesome matters as of 2002 regarding these programs (co. “MIINCAVA”).
I.The Growing Call for Supervised Visitation Programs
For years, judges have asked parties litigating custody cases to find “neutral third parties,” generally
a family member or close friend, to supervise visitation. {{AND NOW YOU KNOW WHY THEY HAVE BEEN ASKING THIS — FEDERAL GRANTS REQUIRE THIS}} This can be a daunting task for a volunteer,
however, given the time and energy required of a visitation supervisor. Even if a family member
or friend agrees to supervise visits, he or she may be vulnerable to the noncustodial parent’s demands
and threats, rendering the supervision ineffective.4There is also a risk that the volunteer may simply
not believe the allegations made about the visiting parent and may decide to only loosely monitor
the visit, further endangering the child.5 Supervised visitation programs6 address this problem by
providing ongoing contact between a child and his or her noncustodial7 parent in the presence of
a neutral third party in cases where physical or sexual abuse, neglect, parental dysfunction, or do-
mestic violence has been alleged.8These programs often include a variety of services9 ranging
from one-on-one supervision with a monitor continuously in the room, to visits in large rooms
monitored by several supervisors.10 Expertise of staff also varies; because of limited resources,
many programs must rely heavily on volunteers, students, and paid community members to provide
monitoring of visits.11The level of security present at programs also varies, with only some programs
offering on-site private security officers or law enforcement personnel.12
I.The Growing Call for Supervised Visitation Programs
For years, judges have asked parties litigating custody cases to find “neutral third parties,” generally
a family member or close friend, to supervise visitation. This can be a daunting task for a volunteer,
however, given the time and energy required of a visitation supervisor. Even if a family member
or friend agrees to supervise visits, he or she may be vulnerable to the noncustodial parent’s demands
and threats, rendering the supervision ineffective.4There is also a risk that the volunteer may simply
not believe the allegations made about the visiting parent and may decide to only loosely monitor
the visit, further endangering the child.5 Supervised visitation programs6 address this problem by
providing ongoing contact between a child and his or her noncustodial7 parent in the presence of
a neutral third party in cases where physical or sexual abuse, neglect, parental dysfunction, or do-
mestic violence has been alleged.8These programs often include a variety of services9 ranging
from one-on-one supervision with a monitor continuously in the room, to visits in large rooms
monitored by several supervisors.10 Expertise of staff also varies; because of limited resources,
many programs must rely heavily on volunteers, students, and paid community members to provide
monitoring of visits.11The level of security present at programs also varies, with only some programs
offering on-site private security officers or law enforcement personnel.12
FOR MORE ON THIS, SEE THE LINK TO RIGHT OF THIS PAGE. . .. NB: The word “high-conflict” is code for “we don’t really believe it was domestic violence or child abuse.”
BACK TO THE ACCESS/VISITATION GRANTS PAGE, FY 2006:
It is important to note that parents are counted once per service and that the amount of time or service hours devoted to each parent is not collected. As a result, parent education yields high numbers of parents served because it usually entails a one-time-only participation in a 2-4 hour seminar. Supervised visitation, on the other hand, is considered a time-intensive service that a noncustodial parent (NCP) utilizes over a period of time usually determined by the court. States do not report on the development of their service guidelines.
Access Services Result in Increased Parenting Time with Children
In FY 2006, approximately 34,212 fathers and 36,830 mothers received access and visitation services. In addition, 25,667 NCPs increased parenting time with their children. ((This can be misleading, because for a single exchange to take place, typically both parents are going to be involved. the point is, they need supervised visitation because someone was abusive! or, someone reported abuse, and supervised visitation was ordered in retaliation!)(see my earlier post today, Jack Straton, Ph.D. talks about this). “Supervised Visitation Time” is PAID-FOR TIME, and is a performance. It lacks the quality of the spontaneous, SAFE relationship that would otherwise exist. It is a concept that arises from a wish to overcome the sole custody, or no-contact situation requested when there has been either violence towards a parent, or abuse of a child to start with! ! !
Parent Referral Sources to Access Services
Courts continue to be the primary source of parent referrals (50%) to AV services. Child support agencies completed 22% of parent referrals in FY 2006, a slight drop from 24% in FY 2005.
Local Service Providers
In FY 2006, States contracted with 327 court and/or community-based, non-profit service providers for the delivery of access and visitation services.
Funding by State
Access and Visitation Grants:
Federal Allocation and State Match
Total
| State | Federal Allocation | State Match | Total Funding |
|---|---|---|---|
| Alabama | $142,610 | $15,846 | $158,456 |
| Alaska | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Arizona | $179,474 | $19,942 | $199,415 |
| Arkansas | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| California | $988,710 | $109,857 | $1,098,567 |
| Colorado | $130,679 | $14,520 | $145,199 |
| Connecticut | $101,505 | $11,278 | $112,783 |
| Delaware | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| District of Columbia | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Florida | $519,757 | $57,751 | $577,508 |
| Georgia | $272,041 | $30,227 | $302,267 |
| Guam | $100,000 | $0 | $100,000 |
| Hawaii | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Idaho | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Illinois | $329,141 | $36,571 | $365,712 |
| Indiana | $164,289 | $18,254 | $182,544 |
| Iowa | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Kansas | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Kentucky | $115,835 | $12,871 | $128,706 |
| Louisiana | $175,073 | $19,453 | $194,525 |
| Maine | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Maryland | $176,152 | $19,572 | $195,724 |
| Massachusetts | $171,937 | $19,104 | $191,041 |
| Michigan | $289,707 | $32,190 | $321,897 |
| Minnesota | $123,675 | $13,742 | $137,417 |
| Mississippi | $113,215 | $12,579 | $125,795 |
| Missouri | $171,130 | $19,014 | $190,144 |
| Montana | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Nebraska | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Nevada | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| New Hampshire | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| New Jersey | $217,628 | $24,181 | $241,809 |
| New Mexico | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| New York | $605,368 | $67,263 | $672,631 |
| North Carolina | $272,566 | $30,285 | $302,851 |
| North Dakota | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Ohio | $334,160 | $37,129 | $371,288 |
| Oklahoma | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Oregon | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Pennsylvania | $341,055 | $37,895 | $378,950 |
| Puerto Rico | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Rhode Island | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| South Carolina | $142,481 | $15,831 | $158,312 |
| South Dakota | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Tennessee | $178,061 | $19,785 | $197,845 |
| Texas | $646,627 | $71,847 | $718,474 |
| Utah | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Vermont | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Virgin Islands | $100,000 | $0 | $100,000 |
| Virginia | $192,500 | $21,389 | $213,889 |
| Washington | $171,388 | $19,043 | $190,431 |
| West Virginia | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| Wisconsin | $133,236 | $14,804 | $148,040 |
| Wyoming | $100,000 | $11,111 | $111,111 |
| $10,000,000 | $1,088,889 | $11,088,888 |
Background Information
Designated State Agencies
In 1996, governors designated the State agency responsible for administering the Access and Visitation Grant program. To date, the majority of State access and visitation programs are managed by either the State Administrative Offices of the Court or State Child Support Enforcement Agencies.
Designated Federal Agency
The Office of Child Support Enforcement, Administration for Children and Families, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services is officially responsible for managing this grant program.
I told you above, it’s not about the kids, it’s about money — and the transfer of it.
Staff Contact:
Tracie Pogue, Program Specialist Office of Child Support Enforcement Administration for Children and Families HHS 370 L’Enfant Promenade, S.W. 4th Floor Washington, DC 20447 Email: Tracie.Pogue@acf.hhs.gov
Enabling Legislation
The “Grants to States for Access and Visitation” Program (42 U.S.C. 669b) was authorized by Congress through passage of the Personal Responsibility and Work Opportunity Reconciliation Act of 1996.
The goal of the program is to:
“…enable States to establish and administer programs to support and facilitate non-custodial parents’ {{TRANSLATION AT THAT TIME — FATHER”S!! }} access to and visitation of their children….”
States are directed to accomplish this goal through the provision of services including, but not limited to:
- mediation (mandatory and voluntary);
- counseling;
- education (e.g., parent education);
- development of parenting plans;
- visitation enforcement (including monitored supervision and neutral drop-off/pick-up); and
- development of guidelines for visitation and alternative custody arrangements.
Important Note
This is a formula grant program. States have the discretion to decide what services to provide, organizations to be funded, geographic areas to be covered, and persons to be served.
Annual Funding
$10 million appropriated each year by Congress.
Here is a less recent link regarding VAWA, complete with a lot of tables.
I am not able to take more time today to make sense of it. I KNOW that when I went for help, and searcheed high and low for it, it was not found, to be able to protect as a single-by-choice, competent, working mother, to continue safely engaged in my work, which otherwise would’ve been able to support this household. The DAD had been contributing less and less, with little to no enforcement. Violent style incidents (including stalking) continued to escalatel adn expand in scope and quantity up to, and beyond the point my daughters were finally (and in some exasperation on their part, continuing to be unwilling participants in this), they were stolen on an overnight visitaiton. I could not get them back or prevent that action. After that, I still could not, yet, enforce child support arrears, or stop the FURTHER stalking that took place.
From my perspective, it certainlyo seems that the decks were stacked against me. I believe these two movements : “Fatherhood” (in name at least) and “Violence Against Women” are working contrary to each other, both of them soaking up tons of federal, state, local, and nonprofit community $$.
In my about 18 years of involement in the abuse (enduring, the attempting to leave), I have ONE and one ONLY positive experience of intervention by any police officer in any community in which I have lived. After our case went to family law, it appears to me that I became an “enemy” of the officers I sought help from, with a single exceptin or two of neutrality. Simulataneously, as finances got worse (and worse), the car was increasingly ticketed and cited, including once at 3am in front of my own house (where no garage was available, or off-street parking) and after I’d already been to court to get an extension on registration. Before this deadline had expired, the car was towed, and later sold, making it nearly impossible to get to work around here, certainly work that would sustain a livelihood.
Here’s a link:
http://digital.library.unt.edu/govdocs/crs/permalink/meta-crs-4130:1
You can attempt to decipher it yourself. I was Googling “2006 Funding of VAWA act.”
Written by Let's Get Honest|She Looks It Up
May 26, 2009 at 3:07 PM
Posted in Cast, Script, Characters, Scenery, Stage Directions, History of Family Court, Organizations, Foundations, Associations NGO Hybrids
Tagged with custody, Due process, family law, fatherhood, Feminists, mediation, men's rights, obfuscation, social commentary, U.S. Govt $$ hard @ work.., women's rights
Ireland’s CPS Woes — Convicted Sex Offender Training Young People for Child Protection Workers??
Warning: My post today starts in Ireland, but ends up back in the USA.
This is a little more complicated than “Who’s Policing the Police?”
Who’s Watching the People Training the Trainers to Watch the People?
This was prompted by an article that came to my attention called
Moral of This Grim Tale is Lesson in Passing Buck
As best as I can decipher the T&C of the Copyright here, I must only point to the home page, not the actual page of the article in question. So if you want the whole thing, I have given you title of article, and home page of “http://www.independent.ie“
This appears to be a universal, and world-wide problem. The more the agencies, the less the accountability, and SOME agencies attract inappropriate sorts. Unfortunately some agencies and institutions (including schools of many sorts, not just one “sort”) attract unscrupulous sorts because that’s a clear and steady place CHILDREN are found.
It seems to me that the wholesale dismantling of the family unit, in the name of protecting and educating children, needs to be addressed. The mass failures need to be addressed. I do not believe it is possible to stop every crime from happening. But if I DID want crime stopped, based on my personal, and extensive experience, I would rather (next time) see what I can personally do, when it hits me in the face (pun intentional) than, as we WOMEN are taught to do, call out for someone to intervene and help. Yeah, right.
The report into how Niall McElwee, a well-known child protection expert, was able to remain in his post at Athlone Institute of Technology for two years after having been convicted of indecent assault of two young women makes for grim reading.
Yet, in the first of a series of shameful lacks of adherence to child protection procedures, no restrictions were put on the lecturer’s behaviour.
Yet a convicted sex offender was still appearing regularly in the media and at conferences and academic gatherings the world over.
It is clear no referral system exists between our two largest social care authorities. McElwee will probably argue that, as far as he was concerned, if the gardai and the HSE knew of his conduct, and both saw fit to continue working with him, then he was surely in the clear. Yet common sense dictates that a call should also have been made to his employers in the Athlone Institute of Technology, where he was charged with training young people to become child protection workers. Having a sex offender in that important role seems ironic, to say the very least.
(The original has hyperlinks in the text, and related articles to the side.)
I noticed visitors from other countries (no comments so far, eh?), including Belgium, Bucharest, Egypt, Saudia Arabia, Canada, Australia, Trinidad, and a few places I had to look up on the map. This site gets some views. Well, welcome Ireland, I guess you have similar issues here.
Kind of reminds me of the sketch of the Max Escher hands I was familiar with, growing up. Metaphorically, this is basically what I think America at least is turning into. It has become a nation of pronouncers and declarers (all in the best interests of the kids, and to protect them).
It is absolutely essential that we ALL begin studying the ‘studiers’ and researching the researchers. Unless we LIKE dropping off our tax dollars in order to hire people to execute policies promoted, many times, by a wealthy foundation driving institutions, initiatives and Congress on a vision of the wealthy about what to do with the poor, mostly, how to manage them. (And keep them poor).
I personally want answers for the language degradation that has drenched the brains of people wishing to tell me how to: leave abuse, raise children, what lifestyle to work, what personal priorities to espouse, what is and is not “OK” when I can read laws that already exist and say this. There is practically not one word which can be taken at face value, yet we are supposed to do this. I don’t. As I said, no wonder “mental health professionals” abound in certain circles — and once established a profession has to continue. Where to find more clients? Produce them
I didn’t know that Ireland, also, had similar issues. Perhaps if worldwide, we people who are being studied and protected (or our kids are) by these institutions in such a manner that, as adults, they see fit to address what happened to them in class action lawsuits, we might communicate about alternative theories than Farming Out Our Thinking, Letting Our Own Self-Suffiency Exit [Stage Right]
That acronym is “FOOTLOOSE” and was just made up. It makes about as much sense as “Health and Human Services” (HHS, the major U.S. Federal grant-making agency) in charge of doing so. Maybe I should delete an “O” in the 2nd syllable, because somewhere, footing (“grasp on reality”) has indeed been Lost.
Remember that old science fiction film (with alien invaders, only recognizable if you had special glasses), called
“SERVING HUMANITY” ?
This was accurate. Not til the end of the movie does it become clear that this refers to a menu, and people were the food. Yes, they were “serving humanity,” for sure.
WHEN STUDIED< STUDY BACK. WHEN REPORTED ON, REPORT BACK! WHEN PROPHESIED OVER (in essence, that’s what a lot of these studies are in concept — simple proclamations. (Well, not quite as simple or well-written, as the Declaration of Independence, true).
I declare this based on my recent (internet-based) scrutiny of programs that have been scrutinizing the huddled masses, and sorting them by color, shape, income category, marital status, and of course, gender. In our school system we also sort them, (within schools already sorted by several of the above statistics) by how well they perform according to their peers, and the wider public, all of which is then reported and discussed on high, and then sometimes, even personally presented by a representative from someone on high.
I declarae that this appears to have been the source of some of the puzzlement and confusion in the family law systems, where we expect “laws” already in place to protect “families” to be fairly enforced, and not (beyond our reach, and without information to us) that policy-makers entering into prisons, child support offices, and in conventions on parenting education and fatherhood, conduct random samplings and then nationwide infrastructures to tie TIME with Kids to MONEY for KIDS, and shift wealth around accordingly. I do not approve of “outcome based” education. As a mother and educator, I know that if the engagement, the joy of learning and the understanding that learning is a necessary and enjoyable skill (in fact, way of life) is the principle, then the stick -and-carrot approach is not the MAIN approach. I have a higher opinion of children than that.
Nor, do I wish to enter into a courtroom and find out years later that agencies working in the background — but driven by governmental POLICIES — have determined (Big-Brother, In Loco Parentis, “JUST-us” theories — to, for its own ends, use a “carrot and stick” approach with noncustodial fathers (including incarcerated ones and middle and higher class ones as well), particularly to fathers /spouses who have used the same approach on the wives, particularly when it comes to the stick (hands, implement, weapons, etc.) That philosophy is going to infantilize a nation, PERMANENTLY.
Recently, in California, a six foot tall Dept. of Education Head (Federal), Arne Duncan, was seen towering over some youngsters (this is called “PR”) and then proclaiming on TV that California Schools have “lost their way,” and no, they will not be considered individually, but will sink or swim together. This is called, “No Child Left Behind,” and Big Brother stepping in to scold and fix what (er, Big Brother designed and forced on the general public to start with).
My gut response to having a 40+ male appointee (and I”m 50+) hailing from a city I used to live and work (in the schools) in, Chicago, come to California and lecture us about having lost our way — was, “ON WHAT BASIS HAS AN ENTIRE STATE BECOME YOUR AUDIENCE, TO BE SCOLDED LIKE A BAD CHILD?” And within this state are thousands of parents whose children are not even in the public school system. What hypocrisy.!
Meanwhile, in one Northern California school, a (female, naturally) middle school (think “puberty” and you have the general age range if you’re not from this country)music teacher was surrounded by a group of children and stoned. Not to death, but rocks werre thrown at her, there was injury, and her escape was prevented. She was punished for attempting to set a limit on some of their behavior. Thankfully, and children were arrested. The District brought in more law enforcement through the end of the year.
And in another school district, a superintendent being brought in (to clean up a mess, naturally — it’s why the come in, right?), in a noble move, said that HIS seven year old would attend a local elementary school.
That’s noble. At least he’s willing to sacrifice his own child, as well as others.
I have a separate blog on education (infantile in size, so far), and another one (pre-natal in state) on the topic of Administering Families and Serving Humanity, and yes, that was sarcastic. Prepare to be shocked.
But these are related topics.
Meanwhile, any public discussion of any type of schooling NOT federally-mandated, budgeted, and NOT doing less for its dollars than almost any existing business I can think of, will not make the evening news.


The cartoonist to the left has inserted hands writing checks.
The Declaration of Independence
Read, and understand. What was this Declaration of Independence FROM — from what?
Drafted by Thomas Jefferson between June 11 and June 28, 1776, the Declaration of Independence is at once the nation’s most cherished symbol of liberty and Jefferson’s most enduring monument. Here, in exalted and unforgettable phrases, Jefferson expressed the convictions in the minds and hearts of the American people. The political philosophy of the Declaration was not new; its ideals of individual liberty had already been expressed by John Locke and the Continental philosophers. What Jefferson did was to summarize this philosophy in “self-evident truths” and set forth a list of grievances against the King in order to justify before the world the breaking of ties between the colonies and the mother country. We invite you to read a transcription of the complete text of the Declaration.
Drafted by Thomas Jefferson between June 11 and June 28, 1776, the Declaration of Independence is at once the nation’s most cherished symbol of liberty and Jefferson’s most enduring monument. Here, in exalted and unforgettable phrases, Jefferson expressed the convictions in the minds and hearts of the American people. The political philosophy of the Declaration was not new; its ideals of individual liberty had already been expressed by John Locke and the Continental philosophers. What Jefferson did was to summarize this philosophy in “self-evident truths” and set forth a list of grievances against the King in order to justify before the world the breaking of ties between the colonies and the mother country. We invite you to read a transcription of the complete text of the Declaration.
SO DO I:
IN CONGRESS, July 4, 1776.
The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America,
When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature’s God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.–That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, –That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.–Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.
He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.
He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.
He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.
He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.
He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.
He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected; whereby the Legislative powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.
He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.
He has obstructed the Administration of Justice, by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary powers.
He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.
He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harrass our people, and eat out their substance.
He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.
He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil power.
He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:
For Quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:
For protecting them, by a mock Trial, from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:
For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:
For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent:
For depriving us in many cases, of the benefits of Trial by Jury:
For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences
For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies:
For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws, and altering fundamentally the Forms of our Governments:
For suspending our own Legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.
He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.
He has plundered our seas, ravaged our Coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.
He is at this time transporting large Armies of foreign Mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty & perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy the Head of a civilized nation.
He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.
He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages, whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.
In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.
Nor have We been wanting in attentions to our Brittish brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which, would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.
We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these United Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States; that they are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the State of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.
The 56 signatures on the Declaration appear in the positions indicated:
IF these facts had shown up in, say, “Family Court,” the response would be, “you are blaming us! Stop blaming us! You are stuck in the past,” (etc.). Yet, if a people within a nation can peaceably assemble to seek redress of grievances — and other countries have followed this example (Republic of Philippines, 2004), why cannot an individually, peaceably do so in a courtroom?
And how is it possible to seek redress, when the act of listing the grievances is then itself new sort of speech-crime, called, remembering them and speaking up? (Parental Alienation, etc.) We do not all live in the “eternal now of the spotless mind,” but are affected by a chain of events (see above), particular when said events cause suffering.
It has to be acknowledged that the phrase referring to the merciless Indian savages later led to intentional genocide, a reversal. In an irony to the HHS structure (which you may read on their FY2008 self-description) there is an IHS which has more discretion over how to use its funds than the other agencies. That is a separate post.
It has to be acknowledged that the signers of this declaration (and authors) did not, most likely, envision either Indians or African Americans (to them, slaves) voting. It has to ALSO be acknowledged, and should be publically, that WOMEN having this power to vote also was not on the horizon at this time. However, the words stand and express a declaration of independence against tyranny.
I could make a good case for the family law system falling under “inciting domestic insurrections,” and the conflict between the standards in the compulsory education system (LGBT sensitivity, no prayer, political correctness, not to mention the many fads and phases which simply teaching: reading, writing, and math have been subjected to) with the standards held by many conservatives who then go, with their connections, through Congress to “promote fatherhood” on the basis that is has somehow disappeared is another one.
Anyone who intentionally wastes my time and goes about to slow down, dumb down, indoctrinate, and/or traumatize MY and their father’s) OFFSPRING (children, in our case, daughters), is pretending to act, not acting, in their best interests. This IS being done, on a national basis, and I am tired of it. However, I have done nothing here, but report, and in the spirit of the above Declaration of Independence.
When I took a stand against the above, I became instant enemies with some forces I didn’t know existed (to this day). When I went to law for help, innocently, I then found a hornet’s nests of personalities I would never have, knowing this, freely associated with. Preventing anyone from exiting dangerous and oppressive situation when alternatives to that situation exists, IS a form of tyranny (a.k.a. “abuse.”)
Do YOU have time to take out (from life) to watch the people training the trainers to protect your children? (OR, educate them?) I don’t. I’d rather do it myself. I believe that quite possibly if the economic structure were not so dependent on dismantled families, we might have “healthier marriages” and more funds with which to feed, clothe, educate, and set our children on a healthy passage in life.
We cannot do this by chasing myths and accepting every foollish fallacy handed down from on high!
I hope in future posts to compare some of the language behind this one, and the multiple FACTUAL allegations presented in this declaration with the simple-minded assertions that jump start some of the proclamations put out by the United States Congress to solve problems IT declares existed, and starting SWEEPING reforms and policy changes, at our expense and to our detriment many times.
The rhetoric — and format — of these proclamations is not even in the same league with the one above, yet have effected a sea-change in the basic judicial processes, balance of powers, in transgression of several passages in the Bill of Rights. These have not been announced openly nationwide. They have been conferenced, but not voted on in general elections properly. And they produce strange fruit.
“Congressional Task Force on Father Promotion” (Google result)
Today’s post, however is long enough.
I am going to post it next.
In 1998, the House of Representatives, and in 1999, the Congress, resolved as you are about to see.
For a reference point, the “Violence Against Women Act” had only passed in 1994.
One wonders why the unanimity on fatherlessness so soon after this one, which gave women a way out of violence, and primarily in the home.
Written by Let's Get Honest|She Looks It Up
May 23, 2009 at 5:20 PM
Posted in After She Speaks Up - Reporting Child Sexual Abuse, Cast, Script, Characters, Scenery, Stage Directions, History of Family Court, Organizations, Foundations, Associations NGO Hybrids, Vocabulary Lessons
Tagged with "We had no idea!", Child Molestation, Due process, obfuscation, PAS, retaliation for reporting, social commentary, U.S. Govt $$ hard @ work..
If Obama had been born after Promoting Responsible Fatherhood…
(TYPICAL of what Promoting Responsible Fatherhood can do to already Responsible Mothers. . . . )
(after switching custody, without due process, in order to achieve this out-come based, presidentially-desired population profile:)
MOST responsible mothers will test and attempt to find justice in the family law system, not always knowing that the case was decided from a Top-Down federal initiative, and that while they may NOT get competent free legal help in family courts (as they did in obtaining, perhaps an initial restraining order), many fathers, deserving and undeserving // incarcerated or free // low-income OR high-income too — may have been receiving referrals, coaching, and pro bono legal advice, or forms preparation, to oppose them before they hit the courtroom. If this doesn’t work, then mediation will be forced, as it’s far easier to persuade a single mediator than actually compile the facts and evidence actually required, by law, to switch custody)….
Where I was last week:
For approximately a week I’ve been struggling with Internet down, and negotiating with service providers, etc. Living hand to mouth, I received an unexpected gift of $60 which would repair a simple power cord. My used laptop, which itself was charity and took me 11 months (after my last employment) to get to (another adventure) has a power cord that, thankfully, was sold in a city a short commute away only. The round trip commute “only” cost $10 (which I didn’t have).
Coming to my local haunt to figure things out (brought by someone who is familiar with me by side of road and gave a lift again, saving $2.00 bus fare), there was another local Mom I know in similar situation (though her details varied) who gave me $20 and some paper goods (knowing that Food Stamps don’t buy these, FYI). There is indeed a host of information not possible to personally understand unless you spend a long time marginalized. I did not grow up marginalized, there was help getting me to this state (again).
For example, the importance of cash flow, and split-second timing sometimes.) A little compassion — not to be often found in the larger institutions, where children are commodities, as is our prolonged distress, in fact it’s a business — goes so far, is so fantastic! I do not think people who haven’t been through a little hell (if there be such folk) can appreciate this.
Also today, inexplicably, $XX.cc of the $XXX.cc (of multiple $XX,XXX.cc’s total child support arrears) due each month appeared without warning on a little debit card connected to the great child support enforcement system that has (I have come ot learn) bargained away justice for MOms in support of Promoting Responsible Fatherhood. FYI, grants show clearly that where our government LOOKS for some of these responsible fathers is in prisons and by communicating with parole officers, etc.
Now I have to decided whether that $xx.cc goes to (a) keeping home phone/internet on (b) a bus pass or (c) keeping, for safety reasons, a cell phone on. SIt will pay ONLY one of the above. This is the type of situation, I suppose, all those multiplce choice questions in elementary school (if you went public) prepared us for. What do you think? To me, safety seems paramount, which means cell phone. But I’m hungry. Thus, it’s most likely, however, that I will go have something to eat, and put a bit on the phone (paying twice as much per minute), which goes off at 3:30pm today, I’m told. that $xx.cc amount WOULD pay for an entire month of unlimited cell use (one relief for sure!), however stomach counts, and so does the ability not to have to hitchhike, at my age, and with the amount of STUFF I bring along daily, including papers, laptop, and sometimes a change of clothes. Can we say, “Infrastructure of the Individual?”
This is another thing that forays through one or, worse, more, of a federally-mandated, top-down, and guns-toting officers enforced policy with a few layers of administrative personnel as gatekeepers (between you and who’s funding it and why) is likely to dismantle: INdividual Infrastructures. If it’s stable, it’s a threat to the system, and something must be shifted around — take from Peter to prop up Paul, by way of Phillip, whose idea this was (actually SOME of the prime movers, not just enablers, in these systems, originating them, are women).
While I do that, here’s another self-report of a trip through the “Family” “Law” system, and how what appears to be a competent mother gets dumped on in order to satisfy the state-endorsed religion that “a kid without a father involved — ANY quality father” is like a fish out of water, not “a fish without a bicycle.”
I also had a close call, this week, with Fathers’ Rights in the Making (generation 3?) by getting thrown out of a church I’d fled to, for some company, for — yes, you heard this — speaking up. The problem was, my plumbing. I was almost physically ejected after the 2nd minute. Unbelievable, and this was in a home, not even a large formal setting. I am entirely too curious about reporting from the front lines about groups of people who seem angry that women got the vote, laws were passed to restrict PUBLICALLY beating us, and so compensate by as much as possible publically humiliating intelligent ones who actually speak.
Silly folks, don’t they realize this is where feminists came from to start with? They got pissed off, that’s all. I’m beginning to think this at least. The only people who actually think second class citizenship, or for that matter, abject poverty and slavery, are good ideas, are those profiting from it. And for THAT, you will have to research who is getting the grant money to generate study after study justifying the kind of results you read about below here:
What I’m trying to say here is, my uneven reporting and prose is a direct factor of having to deal with the situation, while also attempting to report on it. As a general principle, I’d say, if you probe deeply to any website which is EXTREMELY polished and professional, they probably haven’t gone through it themselves, only dealt with families who have. The situation never seems to end, so we have to publish on the fly, kind of like some of the men who had the audacity to translate the Bible into the common language (whether German, English, or Spanish). Going up against the Spanish Inquisition takes courage, for sure. The capacity of man to crucify man (and women, and children) never seems to end, and generally, it has to do with exposing some nonsense.
NEVER show up smarter than someone else who has control over your kids.
NOTE: taking hostages is a characteristic of war. Why is the US Government waging war on mothers? (sorry folks, the statistics do NOT support it as a war on fathers, based on $$ allocated at Federal level). Then again, there

Her story is here. The link above has a few more links also:
If what happened to my kids had happened to young Barry Obama, he would have been stripped from the primary care of his mother and turned over to the father who left him, likely changing the course of his life.
Like the President’s mother, I was blinded by youthful idealism to the extreme dangers of entering a mixed marriage. While I knew the judicial system historically opposed mixed marriages, I was naïve to the fact that U.S courts have historically treated non-black women who marry outside their race worse than black men and women themselves. Until 1931, such women would be stripped of citizenship. Such marriages continued to be illegal until the late 1960s.
MOTHERS SOMETIMES LOSE
Since then, such women often lose custody of their “black” looking children. Such was the case for me when Judge Thomas Koehler of Iowa City, IA ordered that “physical characteristics can be a determiner in awarding custody.”
Although I was the primary caregiver of my two young children, and the sole breadwinner when I filed for custody from my estranged ex, the Court awarded physically custody to my children’s father. He is black African. I am Colombian-American.
The court did not question that my ex had no known employer (and hasn’t for over six years) or that “money works differently” for him. Nor was the court interested in my ex’s arrest at the nation’s Capitol for appearing dressed as a suicide bomber (in the name of ‘art’) or other threats and assaults made towards various individuals throughout the country.
In this era, people wrongly assume mothers only lose custody of their children if they have a drug problem or police record of some sort. However, in contested cases, the man gets custody an overwhelming 70% of the time – and often these men are the most violent.
WEDDED THEN LEFT
In March of 1997, I married Nigerian artist Olabayo Olaniyi in Santa Fe. Our son, Oba, was born in December of that year. The following year, we moved to Iowa where our marriage disintegrated. When our second child, Aluna, was a month old, we officially separated.My ex left Iowa (green card in hand) and traveled to be an artist-in-residence at the University of Michigan. I remained in Iowa, moved into my own home, and continued to run my bilingual home daycare.
HONEY, I FORGOT THE KIDS
Aside from my ex’s philandering and financial irresponsibility toward our children, my life remained relatively peaceful and joyous for a full year-and-a-half…until I filed for divorce.
“YOU WILL FLY NO MORE…I AM WARNIG YOU, CHRISTINE!”
At first, my ex played the game of hide-and-seek. When found, and served with divorce papers, death threats rolled in and my ex filed for sole custody of our children.
Despite recorded threats, 50/50 custody was ordered. Devastated, I moved to Michigan to facilitate the temporary order. Twice over the next few years, I tried to move the case to Michigan where we all lived. Iowa refused to give up this case.
In the meantime, the family member who kept us from living on the streets had her home shot at. My daughter returned from a visit with a visible mark. My son confirmed that their dad got mad when she wouldn’t stop crying and asking for me. Photographs of this incident went ignored.
Fortunately I was offered a full-time job after one day of work and moved into my own home six months later. Bones and moldy gourds were left on my doorstep (courtesy of my ex.) In addition, my ex and his former student were arrested in D.C.
The Iowa court could care less. As far as Judge Koehler was concerned, my concerns over the aforementioned actions were all proof that I “hated” my ex.
After a bizarre seven day trial, where my ex was allowed to sing in Yoruba and admitted to asking me for two abortions, the court awarded him primary custody and a substantial amount of child support (more than his reported income).
POLICING THE INSANITY
A blue book will tell you about any vehicle, but nothing exists to warn you about our lemon-of-a-court system. Now, that I’ve learned of the systemic problems within our judiciary, I would say you’d be insane to trust the court to determine custody.
No accountability exists for family courts. A former prosecuting attorney admitted to me that “Judge Koehler had his mind up” and the present prosecuting attorney made clear that she won’t prosecute the provable perjury in my case because it’s a “civil matter.” The media is no better-–refusing to expose corruption unless it happens to involve a movie star or morph into a criminal case.
HUMAN RIGHTS ABUSES IN THE CIVIL COURTS
Attorney Diane Post is the leading attorney for this case against the U.S government for its human rights abuses in the Civil Courts of America. My case will represent the state of Iowa in her action which is supported by several organizations, including the ACLU. Like men in the main cases cited, my ex has a record of violence that went ignored. Unlike people in those cases, my and I children remain alive and manage to thrive in our work, education and allotted time together. My children have never wavered in wanting to come home and I will spend the summer in court fighting for their return.
Unlike before, now I know such action holds danger. Yet, like my hometown hero – Sojourner Truth – I intend to fight for the just return of my children. Like Sojourner’s son Peter, my children never would have been stripped from me if it weren’t for the color of their skin
Written by Let's Get Honest|She Looks It Up
May 21, 2009 at 10:15 AM
Fatherhood Woes, So Woefully Underfunded, these many years…

Hopes rise for progress on fatherhood woes
Obama seen as key figure in campaign to promote responsible dads
By DAVID CRARY
The timing of this article — the week before Mother’s Day — was not lost on us mothers who lost our kids to the “promoting responsible fatherhood” initiative. Please see article — I don’t want to infringe on AP, I”m already taking on the court system and a father who stalks, plus a two government-endorsed professionals in my own family in several matters….
NEW YORK – With a centennial celebration of Father’s Day coming next month, and a new president committed to supporting better parenting, liberals and conservatives alike say the political stars may be aligned for major progress in promoting responsible fatherhood.
{{GEE! I wonder where the author got THAT term from? (see below)}}
It’s an issue that’s been divisive in the past, even as research made clear that the estimated 24 million children growing up with absent fathers — a disproportionate number of them African-American — are at higher risk in regard to poverty, crime and other social problems.
If we read on, we will note that:
Fatherhood bill
Obama already has demonstrated his interest in fatherhood issues in multiple ways.
He is a past co-sponsor of an ambitious fatherhood bill that Democrats Sen. Evan Bayh of Indiana and Rep. Danny Davis of Illinois plan to reintroduce in conjunction with Father’s Day. Many of its provisions are aimed at removing barriers that deter noncustodial fathers from providing financial support to their children.(##)
Obama also has designated responsible fatherhood as one of the four priorities of his new faith-based advisory council, a politically diverse group of religious and civic leaders.
“This could be the real signature issue of this council,” said Jim Wallis, founder of the liberal Christian social-justice network Sojourners. “If we’re going to pursue this — and we must — you need to break up the left-right culture-wars polarities.”
Among the conservative council members sensing new opportunities on fatherhood is the Rev. Frank Page, a former president of the Southern Baptist Convention
EVEN in the token comments (a few lines each) from Gay Rights and NOW, the word “fatherhood” or “responsible fatherhood” is being drilled in. Gee, I wonder why:
REPETITION SURE IS TO INDOCTRINATION, EH?
I’ve been wanting to post this for a long time, about how “recent” the miserable inattention to the issue of fatherhood has really been (only about 10 years of federal initiatives, minimum).
Number of rows returned: 107 (NOTE. I searched “FATHERHOOD, as I recall.
Rows 1 through 107 displayed.
Records Searched: 125798
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| 90FR0079 | PROMOTING RESPONSIBLE FATHERHOOD | ACF | OFA | $ 249,552 |
| 90FR0104 | PROMOTING RESPONSIBLE FATHERHOOD | ACF | ACF | $ 474,640 |
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| 90FR0004 | HEALTHY MARRIAGE AND RESPONSIBLE FATHERHOOD PROJECT | ACF | ACF | $ 956,109 |
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| 90FR0101 | IDOC APPLICATION FOR THE PROMOTING RESPONSIBLE FATHERHOOD GRANT FOR THE PREP PROGRAM | ACF | ACF | $ 798,740 |
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| 90FR0095 | PROMOTING RESPONSIBLE FATHERHOOD | ACF | ACF | $ 950,000 |
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| 90FR0021 | STRENGTHENING RESPONSIBLE FATHERHOOD PROGRAMS FOR LOW-INCOME, NON-CUSTODIAL FATHERS -LEVEL 2 | ACF | ACF | $ 998,912 |
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| 90FR0031 | PROMOTING RESPONSIBLE FATHERHOOD | ACF | OFA | $ 1,000,000 |
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| 90FR0102 | PEOPLE OF PRINCIPLES “PARENTING OPPORTUNITIES FROM PRISON” PROGRAM | ACF | ACF | $ 850,000 |
| 90FR0100 | AVANCE-EL PASO STRENGTHENING MARRIAGES PROGRAM | ACF | ACF | $ 500,000 |
| 90FR0099 | PROMOTING ADVANCES IN PATERNAL ACCOUNTABILITY AND SUCCESS (PAPAS) PROGRAM | ACF | ACF | $ 500,000 |
| 90FR0096 | RESPONSIBLE FATHERWOOD WORKS- PRIORITY AREA 3 | ACF | ACF | $ 486,938 |
| 90FR0090 | IDENTITY, INC. | ACF | ACF | $ 500,000 |
| 90FR0089 | PROMOTING RESPONSIBLE FATHERHHHO | ACF | ACF | $ 900,000 |
| 90FR0087 | DISTRICT OF COLUMBIA FATHERHOOD INITIATIVE | ACF | ACF | $ 4,000,000 |
| 90FR0071 | PROMOTING REOPONSIBLE FATHERHOOD | ACF | ACF | $ 424,034 |
| 90FR0046 | COLLABORATIVE FATHERHOOD PROGRAM OF WILMINGTON, DE | ACF | ACF | $ 500,000 |
| 90FR0039 | PROMOTING RESPONSIBLE FATHERWOOD | ACF | ACF | $ 500,000 |
| 90FR0028 | FAMILY STRENGTHENING PROJECT | ACF | ACF | $ 750,000 |
| 90FR0027 | FULL TIME FATHERS WILL PROVIDE EMPLOYMENT ASSISTANCE AND JOB PLACEMENT, CHILD SUPPORT CONNECTIONS, PEER SUPPORT GROUPS A | ACF | ACF | $ 497,696 |
| 90FR0026 | ENGAGING THE FAMILY IN THE RECOVERY PROCESS – AN INNOVATIVE APPROACH FOR THE MAX-OUT OFFENDER | ACF | ACF | $ 583,527 |
| 90FR0026 | ENGAGING THE FAMILY IN THE RECOVERY PROCESS – AN INNOVATIVE APPROACH FOR THE MAX-OUT OFFENDER | ACF | OFA | $ 334,366 |
| 90FR0024 | VCC CLUB DE PADRES | ACF | ACF | $ 500,000 |
| 90FR0023 | COOS-CURRY INITIATIVE “STRONG DADS SHOW KIDS YOU CARE” STABALIZE FAMILIES THROUGH A COMPREHENSIVE ASSESSMENT, TRAINING A | ACF | ACF | $ 650,000 |
| 90FR0017 | ECONOMIC STABILIZATION OF FORMERLY INCARCERATED FATHERS | ACF | ACF | $ 492,000 |
| 90FR0015 | JEFFERSON COUNTY FATHERHOOD INITIATIVE PRIORITY 4 | ACF | ACF | $ 870,419 |
| 90FR0012 | KISRA FATHERHOOD PROGRAM | ACF | ACF | $ 946,048 |
| 90FB0001 | NATIONAL FATERHOOD CAPACITY BUILDING INITIATIVE | ACF | ACF | $ 1,999,068 |
| 90FR0020 | CHILD FIND OF AMERICA’S PARENT HELP – TELEPHONE BASED INTERVENTIONS TO HELP DISPUTING, PARTED PARENTS IMPROVE THEIR EMO | ACF | ACF | $ 490,414 |
| 90FR0018 | FATHERS TO DADS: A PROJECT TO TRANSITION COPPER COUNTRY FATHERS INTO RESPONSIBLE PARENTS PROMOTING RESPONSIBLE FATHERHOO | ACF | ACF | $ 500,000 |
| 90OJ2021 | USING MARRIAGE EDUCATION TO FOSTER INVESTMENT IN FATHERHOOD: A LONG-TERM COMPARISON OF INDIVIDUAL VS. COUPLES LEVEL INTE | ACF | OPRE | $ 1,168,166 |
| 90NI0014 | MARRIAGE MATTERS | ACF | ANA | $ 250,000 |
| 90AM3152 | NATIONAL TECHNICAL ASSISTANCE CENTER FOR MULTI-GENERATIONAL AND CIVIC ENGAGEMENT PROJECTS | AOA | AOA/OSCP | $ 1,932,885 |
Click on any grant for description of the grant, primary recipient, and you can then click on the primary recipient for a look at what else they do.
Your time would be better spent here, than reading almost any blog. Hunt and gather a little data, so the wool is not pulled over YOUR eyes, at least!
Evolution, my eye! It was promoted, by PRESIDENTIAL DIRECTIVE.
Barriers to access to children have included, historically, such things as restraining orders, incarceration (including for crimes that may or may not have included sexual abuse, or assault on others) and so forth.
These may have been promoted as targeting low income (and they did), but middle and high-end guys got in there too, including free legal help.
One abstract includes how prisoners were given free legal help to modify their child support arrears down to approximately $19 a month. This is simply child-trafficking, at public expense, done without mothers informed consent, and in an absolutely unethical manner.
Not from the Administration of Children and Families, but from the National Center for INJURY PREVENTION and CDC (DISEASE CONTROL), I give you (and dare you to translate the meaning of)
http://www.cdc.gov/od/pgo/funding/CE09-002.htm#SectionIII
Title:
Adaptations of Evidence-Based Parenting Programs to Engage Fathers in Child Maltreatment Prevention
Background
Parent Training programs are the most promising approach to date to prevent the two most common forms of child maltreatment (neglect and physical abuse). Specific parenting programs have shown efficacy for reducing re-occurrence of maltreatment (Chaffin, Silovsky, Funderburk, Valle, Brestan, Balachova, Jackson, Lensgraf, & Bonner, 2004; Lutzker & Rice, 1987), and for preventing abuse in families where it has not occurred (Bugental, Ellerson, Lin, Rainey, Kokotovic, & O’Hara, 2002; Daro & Harding, 1999; Olds, Kitzman, Cole, & Robinson, 1997).
If you quote the right experts, you can say anything. Personally, I thought that VAWA and CPS (Child Protective Services) existed to preven violence and protect children. The beauty of parenting programs is, they never stop the cash flow.
Batterers treatment programs do NOT have a resounding success.
This is problematic because research has shown that the role of fathers in child maltreatment perpetration is substantial; studies have reported that as many as 48% of maltreatment cases involve fathers as perpetrators. Furthermore, almost two-thirds of male perpetrators were reported as being the only perpetrators, indicating that prevention efforts involving mothers in these cases would not address the areas of need in these families (US Dept of Health and Human Services, 2005).
Apparently that nugget hasn’t trickled down to the judges who continue to order BOTH parents into parenting programs. Or punishing the Moms alone by simply custody-switching to Dad when she protests, er, maltreatment. Hmm…
I note how grant applicants specify by year, WHICH US DHHS document is being quoted. I’d LOVE to get my hands on that one… My primary evidence (other than personal, anecdotal, and “mainstream medial” accounts of the latest family annihilation (or, for that matter, school shooting, I have not heard of ONE perpetrated by a female) has been the USDOJ homicide statistics.
Well, I leave you to the rest.
I THINK I’LL GET SOME PRESS COVERAGE ON MOTHERS, TIMED TO FATHERHOOD DAYS, WHAT DO YOU THINK?
(SEE MY LINK TO THE SIDE: THE END OF MANHOOD) (on the topic of these mythologies).
Written by Let's Get Honest|She Looks It Up
May 21, 2009 at 10:11 AM



Can we call it a day on these “Days” ?? What are they worth, to you?
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Hey, people – – can we talk?
You can see from the gadgets to the right (Feedjit, Statcounter, etc.)
some people are at least zipping through the site. Let’s talk, or load page-views and just snatch data from each other
June 21st was Father’s Day. In May was Mothers’ day. In April, it was the next two holidays, and the other ones below
are of older origins.
If it saved even TWO lives, would you give up the “Days”?
Even if you worked at Hallmark cards, a flower shop, or a newspaper?
Now, I realize that all religions require sacrifice, sometimes (often?) entailing blood, sometimes human, often children.
But perhaps we could simplify, and get it down, nationally at least (or internationally?) to the long-standing world religions, and for good measure, “Bill of Rights” Day in the U.S., with particular emphasis on Amendments I and II, which entails that the Government shall protect our right not to believe in any god, or as a nation worship one, or have our money — our offspring– poured out at its altar.
Bill of Rights
I am beginning to think that part of every young person’s education should be memorization, by rote, of these amendments, and training in self-defense, by arms, not just karate. A karate kick doesn’t stop a bullet.
(RECOMMENDED: Intercollegiate Studies Institute //American Civic Literacy Program)
Discussion continued, AFTER you take a good look at two children murdered by their father (along with himself, a.k.a. suicide) last year for this reason: His (younger) wife dared to leave him, in May, and he wasn’t going to have them on Father’s Day, in June:
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/top-stories/2009/02/09/wife-tells-of-ex-husban-s-sick-plan-to-murder-kids-then-blow-her-up-after-father-s-day-115875-21109000/
Gassed children unlawfully killed
Those are the children above. I’m a little unclear on when it might be “lawful” to kill children — on what grounds, self-defense?
The 52-year-old karate expert had separated from his wife in May 2008 after eight years of marriage.
The children’s mother, Lyn McAuliffe, 38, from Runcorn, Cheshire, wept as details of the deaths were read.
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A typical court order, at least over here (US), will say: Children to be with their Father on Father’s Day, Mother on Mother’s Day, and then will specify the usual holidays — geared typically to the school year, which itself is generally arranged around (oddly enough) major Christian holidays, although Christianity, if not talk of “God” (as if real) is out of favor in many educational systems these days.
In my case, zero of these were enforced for the past almost 3 full years. The last time I attempted to stick up for this, there was retaliation. NONE of the “Shared Parenting” advocates seem too bothered when mothers, as opposed to fathers, are not seeing their children — sometimes removed on grounds of “Parental Alienation” (a.k.a., reporting child sexual abuse, or some other criminal behavior. In my case the criminal offence, I gather, was expecting, and saying openly, to everyone involved (including agencies) that I expected my ex- to be held accountable to obey all court orders, like I was. And to work, like I was…..”
WHY I DIDN”T POST ON FATHER’S DAY:
For one, grief. This news article came across my inbox, and others.
I am a mother. I was unable to see my own daughters on Mother’s Day in: 2005, 2006, and 2007. I did not make plans to blow anyone up or get vengeance. I had a hard time, I’ll admit this Father’s Day — especially that now I’ve done some research on the state of “Der Vaterland” religion in my country here — and did not post. It was a hard day for many noncustodial mothers worldwide, which I know because we talk with each other sometimes.
I also received another no-answer call, from a cell phone, from the same geographic vicinity as my ex, who has recently (though having won in court and happily ensconced with a new woman, and who would think in need of yet another “victory” or some sort) been both texting, calling, and at least once, showing up at my doorstep unannounced and unwanted. This, in this context, is called Stalking. If it was not him, still, the fact that I should have to do a reverse phone lookup, because it was so disturbing and part of an unbroken pattern is significant.
Here’s what the holidays meant for our family — and I know many others who have divorced, not amicably — occasions for incidents.
The national religion is, we are supposed to be happy, rejoicing, and ensconced in a family or extended family setting at these times. Or in a soup line for the homeless, being charitable (or, eating).
Add to this, I’m a musician, and major music events occurred around them, they were also financial fiascos. What should then, have been a joyful occasion became for me, a cause for anxiety and trigger to post-traumatic stress. With good cause, too. This was true BEFORE we separated, as well. We had to perform as a family. My ex apparently had performance stress, and one of my most major, earliest (though not THE earliest) memories of an outrageous physical (assault & battery, now that I know the proper term) of me, while pregnant, happened seconds after a nice family dinner event around Christmas, with my relatives. He had been embarrassed, somehow, and I was going to pay. One kid was dashed into the bedroom and dumped into a crib so two hands would be free to punish me properly. The other one had no choice, not having been born yet.
Let’s reduce the occasions for violent incidents!
Let’s move away from nationalized, attention-deficit-friendly, polytheism and ADD closer to either monotheism, or atheism?
It might give us more time to breathe, reflect, THINK, and memorize our national constitutions.
Here — this is only >>one<< instance of incidents planned for Father’s Day. There were others for Mother’s Day, for example, major political leaders in the US gearing up for the 10th Anniversary of Father’s Day (right around Mother’s Day), and (lying) to the public about how neglected and underfunded the concept of fatherhood was, and how we need to pass more laws, and send more money, of course, hire more experts, to protect the concept.
Included in such proclamations are the usual (gag….) statistics on how female-headed (formerly called “single-mother” only we are now carefully avoiding the use of this word “mother” in public arenas, except YOUNG ones that might generate home nurse visitation programs, also part of the agenda under Health and Human Services, USA). It’s no longer MOTHERS, it’s Children and Families. And, of course Fathers.
Absent from those statistics would be, for example, children such as Amy & Owen above. They are no longer “at risk” for anything at all, except, depending on your version of reality and the universe, possible resurrection, or is it fossilization. Their long-term futures are not going to be part of any Head Start, Healthy Families, or Low-Income Maternal/Parental bonding studies. So if you are reading any of these studies, generally footnoted by a number of Ph.D.’s, LCSW’s, MFTs, etc. (as are some of the contrary studies), just remember — the statistics are skewed. SOME kids never make it this far, and THAT is one reason why “FEMALE-HEADED HOUSEHOLDS” can — yes indeed — be dangerous to children.
Especially as mediated by a court system that doesn’t take this possibility into account.
Incidents like this arouse emotions in the rest of us — of course. When people’s emotions are at high pitch is not always a great time to make major decisions, and it is DEFINITELY not a great time to analyze government spending. SOMEONE’s money is going to transfer hands, on the basis of these things. Some grants are going to get funded, adn for sure a few print newspapers were sold on the backs of those two kids, as well as the on-line search ratings.
Since I began this blog, I noticed that by the time I had one incident up, or narrated/commented on, another one had hit the news. It was impossible to intelligently keep up commentary with all of them, let alone analysis:
Search Results
Brian Philcox Inquest: Killed Children Amy And Owen In Llanryst …
news.sky.com/…/Brian–Philcox…Lyn–McAuliffe/…/200902315226750 – Similar –
Man who killed himself and his two children left ‘Bitch’ note …
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/…/Man-killed-children-left-Bitch-note-rigged- homemade-bomb-wife.html – Similar –
Lyn McAuliffe: Birthday visit for tragic mum – Liverpool Echo.co.uk
http://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/…/lyn–mcauliffe-birthday-visit-for-tragic-mum- 100252-22893336/ –Similar –
Daily Post North Wales – News – North Wales News – Mum of children …
http://www.dailypost.co.uk/…/mum-of-children-killed-in-north-wales-will-not- forgive-dad-55578-22975841/ – Cached – Similar –
Brian Philcox: Philox killed kids and planned to kill 2 more …
celebgalz.com/brian–philcox-philox-killed-kids-and-planned-to-kill-2-more- photos/ –Cached – Similar –
Mama Liberty
rights4mothers.blogspot.com/ – Cached – Similar –
26 February 2009 – Local Runcorn & Widnes news …
http://www.runcornandwidnesweeklynews.co.uk/runcorn…/26/
Now, the United States, and I believe other countries, are in the grip of a nationalized religion, but one that still hasn’t — other major world ones, stood the test of time — I mean, thousands, or at least hundreds, of years.
We have a nationalized public educational system, and it has to get organized around SOMETHING, as far as schedule. Ironically –according to at least one of my readings on the history of this system — it was pushed and promoted in part as a RE-action by Protestant Christians against an influx of Catholic immigrants from Southern Europe, and/or Ireland. I don’t think Jews or Muslims made honorable mention in this, let alone Hindu, Buddhist, or anything else. There were also the Harvard Unitarians versus the mainline Trinitarians. It was basically fear-mongering about the incoming religions (plus economic and sometimes military, force) backing it up. A land grab was involved of church properties. If you’re really interested, submit a comment, and I’ll submit some bibliography.
So what do we have now, in the school schedules, and reflected in the family court visitation orders (schedules) as well? Ironically, we have some of the most Catholic in origin holiday schedules: Christmas, Easter, Halloween. Google these, and you’ll get somewhere back to the time of Constantine, Rome, and recognize that they, too, had a national religion, and had to sort of, er, do a melting pot. Polytheism was patriotic, monotheism was, well, unnatural.
Jews, and later, Christians, protested, refusing to sacrifice and well, this was entertainment and gladiator fodder. They were made examples of, and you can read history on your own times for a better version of the word “holiday.”
I’m working on this theme, but it seems to me that any national religion pushed down the national throat — is going to produce a reaction, and reactionary elements, and they will kill. There will be war.
What I see right now is Male Supremacists versus “Ms.” and I see LGBT vs. Healthy Marriage enshrined, and I do mean that.
I also see — and if you follow my blog, or others linked to it (see the buttons), or if you simply are motivated enough — how with ONE side of the mouth, our government is taking advice from “faith-based initiatives” on how marriage is ALWAYS just so wonderful, that we should play matchmaker, federally speaking. What do do about cases like the young man in Tennessee, who had 21 children by 5 (or was it 15?) different women is a little unclear. And a moot point — he wasn’t earning much. A
And from another Department (of Education), same Branch (Executive) — there’s a battleground for conttrol of our children in the K-12 school system, i.e., “It’s Elementary” and “Days of Silence,” spawning all kinds of nonprofits justice groups to track this, and defend that. Generally speaking, the ACLU is probably going to come up the other side of, say, Pacific Justice Institute, who tend to defend the conservative Christian groups. WHICH (in case you wondered), I’m not. Primarly because they won’t stick up for women when their own are being beaten, nor was I raised thus anyhow.
So what we have here is:
So you have a built-in war between the EDUCATION system (if you’re rusty, EXECUTIVE Branch) and the COURT system (JUDICIAL BRANCH). One way to also conceptually phrase THAT war could be on the basis of sexuality (LGBT vs. Hetero, plus Dads Rule), OR, it could also be considered, Religion versus no religion.
THIS CREATES BUILT-IN CONFLICT AND POVERT – for some, and professions — for to.
See my (hopefully) upcoming post(s) on Responsible Citizenhood (Parts III, IV and V) and
“Survival of the Fittest: Study and Prosper, or Be Broke and Be Studied” a.k.a.,
“Multiple (Life) Choices in a New Brave World: (1) Etymologist or (2) the Bug on the Plate”
NOW – I have a recommendation (See top of post):
Can we reduce our specialty days, in the courts, and in the educational systems to perhaps FIVE? or SEVEN?
And no two in the same month:
(Kind of like mono and poly unsaturated fats, right?)
Or, extend the school year, and shorten the work week, as Friday, Saturday and Sunday characterize these weekly holy days, right?
(The naming, versus numbering, of the days of the week is itself a pagan concept.)
And teachers, you will have to find some other “themes” (such as skills development?) around which to build the school year, not, respectively, (Sept.-June):
Labor, Halloween (DV awareness), Thanksgiving, Hannukah-Kwanzaa-Christmas, Presidents, Martin Luther King, Jr., St. Patrick, Easter (SA/CA/PAS awareness), Veterans & Mothers ((although the parallel seems appropriate in some contexts…), Fathers, and Hallelujah, summer vacation — or school, depending on how well your children concentrated the above in one piece).
No WONDER pharmaceuticals are needed to keep kids focused.
Independence Day (July 4th, US), is coming up. Now, I know the above is ludicrous — but I hope I showed at least that these federally-sponsored (that’s your tax dollars, USA) institutions:
are all intertwined. These institutions also affect the workforce.
WHAT LEVEL OF ATTRITION (translation: Crime, death, waste) IS ACCEPTABLE? IN ORDER TO JAM A NUMBER OF RELIGIOUS BELIEFS INTO SEVERAL OF THESE INSTITUTIONS, CAUSING “WARS” AMONG THEM, AND WITHIN SOME OF THEM, MEANWHILE PROCLAIMING THAT CONGRESS IS NOT, IN FACT, MAKING A LAW ESTABLISHING A RELIGION?
Let’s talk profession — remember the joke: What is the “oldest profession in the world”? (Put one of two possible answers). Now you just saw the oldest religion too.
Sex, for money. So who is being sold what?
I note that Mr. Philcox, having been booted out of the house (guess that was HIS religion) opted –quickly– to kill his entire family and himself, and partially succeeded. Guess we know what religion THAT was. He picked up a single mother (who had a son at around age 20), about 15 years his junior, and quickly made some babies, was aggressive towards the son NOT of his gene pool, and when those who WERE of his gene pool were not allowed to live with him, apparently, he wiped them out. Possibly Darwinist?
Would you give up at LEAST: Mother’s and Father’s Day to save a few children’s lives?
Note: This might affect which Congressperson you elect next term. There is no “motherhood” initiative, but there sure as hell– and it’s been hell on Moms, and kids — a “Fatherhood” one! And I already posted who voted for it, in both Houses of the Legislature.
Or do you believe that female-headed households are dangerous and should be eliminated, by hook or by crook, or by pipe bomb?
You know, some prophesies are self-fulfilling, and at this rate, unless some major institutions are somewhat re-arranged (NO, I am NOT advocating the overthrow of anything United States — particularly not the Constitution, Bill of Rights, and due process in all 3 branches of government), it looks to be heading towards Armageddon.
PERHAPS — just PERHAPS — if we could dissolve some of the more monolithic aspects here, and allow a bit more fluidity and dynamic response to actual situations (within the scope of, of course, law), there would be fewer reactionary fundamentalist factions proclaiming, pronouncing, warring, and killing — or stealing. Kids, and dollars.
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Written by Let's Get Honest|She Looks It Up
June 24, 2009 at 2:22 PM
Posted in History of Family Court
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