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The Family Court Franchise System

Blog author in need of redecoration, has set up shop elsewhere.  This doesn’t mean NO more posts over here, but perhaps better organization over there.  I tangled one too many times with the gigantic “quotes” function & disappearing paragraphs here; I like the more flexible fonts available on the other platform.  You probably will too.

Besides which, anyone who hasn’t figured out yet that the family court system IS a franchise system, I feel sincerely sorry for them.  Last attempt to convince you of this? (just a sample)

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  • Intake Form
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  • Co-Parent Assessment
  • Conflict Assessment
  • Relationship Assessment
  • Child Assessment.     

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Parenting Coordination Forms: DISK A

  • Sample Order Appointing a Parent Coordinator
  • Agreement Expectation Contract
  •  Standards of Care
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    Electronic files (in Word or WordPerfect) of the parenting coordination basic parenting coordination forms. These forms may be duplicated and modified for individual use. Disk A includes: 

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Disk B includes electronic files in word and word perfect formats include supplemental forms for the parent coordinator.  These forms include

  • step-parent assessment
  • abuse assessment
  • child forms
  • marketing forms
  • standards vs licensing code
  • agreement forms
  • feedback forms
  • communication agreement
  • impasse assessment
  • court contracts, and much more. 
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Cooperative Parenting and Divorce: A Parent Guide to Effective Co-Parenting  

 

 An easy-to-read parent workbook that provides vital information and gives real-life examples and worksheets so parent may practice new skills that shield their child from parental conflict.

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These comprehensive assessments help the professionals determine the appropriateness of each family for the collaborative process and which members of the team will be neces-sary for success.  They are also invaluable for use with divorce coaches and child specialists.

  • Self Assessment
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  • Conflict Assessment
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This simple flip book provides 29 pages of activity sheets that may be reproduced by play therapists working with young children ages 3-10 years. In addition each section provides information regarding different ways in which each sheet may be used with young children

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64 page text 

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This four hour divorce seminar is intended for use as part of the mandated divorce seminar requirements.  It may also be provided separately or done as a six hour seminar for divorcing or divorced parents.   

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Cooperative Parenting and Divorce is a 8-week, 16 – 20 hour program that is part video and part group discussion recommended for groups of 10-16 parents. The group kit consists of video/DVD, leader’s guide, parent guide and marketing disk.  It is designed for use by therapists, parent educators, churches and schools.

 

NEW SPANISH EDITION

Cooperative Parenting and Divorce: A Parent Guide to Effective Co-Parenting  

 

 An easy-to-read parent workbook that provides vital information and gives real-life examples and worksheets so parent may practice new skills that shield their child from parental  


 

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Here’s a brief trying to push the hybrid model, more:

In Search of Statutory Authority for Parenting Coordinator Orders in California: Using a Grass- roots, Hybrid Model Without an Enabling Statute, 5 Journal of Child Custody 88 (2008)


Ms. Termini (of Pennsylvania) coordinates the GAL program at Lackawanna County, and Mr. Joe Pilchesky, as part of his public service, this WAS a public service; more people should do it!) posted her receipts to the Scranton Political Times on or about Oct. 3, 2011 as follows (a few months before he was himself thrown off the site by Joanne, who apparently got tired of certain behaviors, including cheating on him, dissing her (with a few threats implied) on the forum, and continuing to operate out of  a home she owned, literally.   No child victims for the local courts in that situation, but they are going to duke it out anyhow).   BUT — here it is, Ms. Termini’s SS# redacted….

Attachments

The hotel stay image, here, 8/22/09 — coincides with a presentation Termini, Harhut & Ross were doing at the National Association of Counsel for Children (“NACC”), only $215.43 for one night.   It’s Danielle Ross (not Termini) who is the NACC member (per their lists, at least).  

And some more:

Attachments

__________________

and some more, for 2011:

For the year 2011

Attachments

__________________

(I sure hope those links continue to function….)

And he summarizes what he did, which doesn’t sound to me like rocket science.  Posted 10/3/2011. Maybe it was rocket science, but somehow, I don’t think so:

All these were, and as of today (2/24/2012) are at Scranton Political Times under the co-parenting thread, which is under the topic “Doherty Deceit”

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 I sent a right-to-know letter to Lackawanna County asking for documents regarding Family Court’s Co-Parenting Coordinator, Ann Marie Termini.  I received a response a few days ago, so I’m able to share some information with you.  The RTK letter and the response thereto are posted below.

* I asked for copies of contracts between Termini and the County.  Response: None exist. That’s question 6 in the RTK letter.

* I asked for documents to support what the scope of her duties are as a contractor. Response: None exist.  That’s question 2.

* I asked for documents to support that a lease agreement exists relating to the space she occupies on county property.  Response: None exist.  That’s question 3

* I asked for agreements relating to Termini using utilities, office equipment and furnishings. Response: None exist. That’s question 5

* I asked for copies of any complaints about Termini. Response: None exist. That’s question 8.

* I asked for copies of any court orders directing that Termini is appointed as the Co-Parenting Coordinator.  Response: None exist.  That’s question 9

* I asked for any documents to support the creation of the Co-Parenting Program. Response: None exist. That’s question 10.

* I asked for a copy of any advertising relating to seeking persons to fill the position of Co-Parenting Coordinator. Response: None exist.  That’s question 12

NACC seems like another networking opp for the same sorts of AFCC personnel, only focused around child support and abuse:

32nd National Juvenile and Family Law Conference – Marriott at the Brooklyn Bridge, NY

8/19/2009

When: August 19-22, 2009
Where: Marriott at the Brooklyn Bridge
333 Adams Street
Brooklyn, New York  11201
United States
Contact: Daniel Trujillo (trujillo.daniel@tchden.org)

>>>Title of Conference is typically modest of these professionals, modeled after the parent organization, AFCC:

STANDING AT THE FOREFRONT:  EFFECTIVE ADVOCACY  IN TODAY’S WORLD

This was the “32nd National Juvenile and Family Law Conference of the National Association of Counsel for Children”

These organizations (at least one who is an affiliate of NACC) sponsored:

Co-SpoNSorS

  • Barry University School of Law

  • Ciccolella Family Law, P.C.

  • Colorado Office of the Child’s Representative

  • Georgia Association of Counsel for Children  (NONprofit group started 8/26/2003, admin. dissolved involuntarily 5/2008 for ‘failure to file,” paid up and reinstated about a year later (4/2009) and now is back and running, though a little late on their 2011 filing also, it says)….would be nice to find an EIN# but the search site re-routes users to a licensure site instead.  Hmm.

  • Legal Aid Society, Juvenile Rights Practice

  • Legal Aid Society, New York City

  • NACC Megan Louise Furth Youth Empowerment Fund

  • Northern California Association of Counsel for Children

(this Co-sponsor of NACC  conference 2009, and NACC affiliate, is actually run out of the Administrative Office of the Courts (AOC), i.e., from the California Judicial Counsel.  Site shows:

CALIFORNIA *Northern California Association of Counsel for Children (NCACC)

Christopher Wu Phone: 415/865-7721 AOC/ Center for Children, Families and the Courts 455 Golden Gate Avenue San Francisco, CA 94102

Christopher.Wu@jud.ca.gov (this links shows you the OTHER members on that blue-ribbon commission)

Mr. Christopher Wu

Executive Director
California Blue Ribbon Commission on Children in Foster Care

 Mr. Wu is ALSO “Supervising Attorney” for the CFCC (which to my understanding helps distribute the access/visitation funding that comes to the Judicial Council).  Is this a conflict of interest?
(This CFCC itself is part of a larger partnership — see bottom of page**)

One member (notice affiliations) incl.

CA
Staff Counsel, California Dept. of Social Services, 1975-1977
Deputy Attorney General, State of California, Health, Education, and Welfare Div. 1977-1988
Training Director, Advokids, 2005-present

These “cooperated”:

  • ABA Center on Children and the Law

  • ABA Section of Litigation, Children’s Rights Litigation Committee

  • Association of Family and Conciliation Courts

  • Connecticut Commission on Child Protection

  • First Star

  • National Center for State Courts

  • National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges

  • National Court Appointed Special Advocate Association

  • National Institute for Trial Advocacy

  • Judicial Council of California Center for Families, Children, and the Courts 

**

California Child Welfare Co-Investment Partnership (Mr. Wu of CFCC and of the Northern California Association of Counsel for Children, which is an affiliate of NACC, and of the Blue Ribbon Commission on Children in Foster Care (and who knows what else, probably ALL run out of the same address) also is linked to here:

(SPEAKING OF ‘INTERLOCKING DIRECTORATES” — WHICH MY “FOR FURTHER INFO” BLOG ALSO DOES — ):

The California Child Welfare Co-Investment Partnership . . 

is a collaborative group of state agencies, foundations and other nonprofit organizations whose purpose is improving the lives of children and families who are in or are at risk of entering the state’s child welfare system.   Founded in 2006. . . .
“Our public-private
partnership includes
eight partners that
collectively invest
more than $2 billion
in the state’s child
welfare system.”
SOUNDS LIKE IT’S A PAY-TO-PLAY OPERATION…..
Partner organizations and representatives include:
[top]

Advisory CommitteeThe Partnership’s Advisory Committee is made up of nearly 40 diverse organizations that inform and advise the Partnership about its work and priorities.

sometimes I wonder where they are getting all these abused children FROM — and if the money were put into supporting the parents, PERIOD, there wouldn’t be such a need for CPS, welfare, and foster care to start with.  in other words, MOST parents, just ordinary people, are paying these organizations to craft policies that drive their lives, and MOST ordinary wage-earners are NOT forming nonprofits to avoid paying excess taxes — because they can’t, or don’t know how to.
This is how wealth is centralized, and this is who is driving our government.  I suppose I should give the run-of-the-mill crooks a break, after all, they are just following the examples of the wealthy philanthropic elites of the country, which they hope to (obviously) join the ranks of — or possibly have, by now.   (by comparison AFCC is starting to look like Kid Stuff, not that I forgive them their agenda (I’m female….)  . . . .
All they want to do get their piece of the coming utopia, which will likely eliminate the “useless eaters” once their purposes have been served.
Do NOT kid yourself this agenda has changed, whether or not the rank-and-file have picked up on it yet.   Another use of the term occurs HERE:  The question is, what are you going to do about it?

The Drug Story By Morris A. Bealle

“To teach the Rockefeller drug ideology, it is necessary to teach that Nature didn’t know what she was doing when she made the human body. But statistics issued by the Children’s Bureau of the Federal Security Agency show that since the all-out drive of the Drug Trust for drugging, vaccinating and serumizing the human system, the health of the American nation has sharply declined, especially among children. Children are now given ‘shots’ for this and ‘shots’ for that, when the only safeguard known to science is a pure bloodstream, which can be obtained only with clean air and wholesome food. Meaning by natural and inexpensive means. Just what the Drug Trust most objects to.“

This book was written in the late 1940s and is valuable reading in these perilous times. Read about this important book at http://educate-yourself.org/drugstory.html.

I take the drugging issue up a little more in the blog mentioned at the top.  When a woman protecting her child from home invasion is handled with swat team and HELIcopters, over the issue of adverse responses to vaccinations + refusal to continue “Risperdal” after its dangers to her child became obvious (and an M.D. apparently verified), then we are simply in the situation of sitting ducks.
UNFREEZE – CHANGE — REFREEZE” has already happened.  now, we need to apply the same theory and change things — not back — but to a different setup than this ‘partners in change” that see abused children deserving of foster care where they do NOT exist, and fail to see them where they DO exist.  Perhaps if they weren’t spending half their time preparing for conferences, presenting at them, poring over each other’s research (and billing hotel costs to their local counties), this information might have surfaced earlier.  Who knows….
ANYHOW, apparently Ms. Termini DID show up (per brochure) in 2009, Brooklyn — with cohorts a judge and a GAL — and you can search the name in the brochure.

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  1. Unbelievable! As for the question, “where do all the abused kids come from?”…well, if they are anything like Maximus, they will simply “create” false claims to get the Federal money. As for Ms. Termini, I am not at all surprised that documentation”does not exist” for any of your requests. Sounds to me like Ms. Termini doesn`t even exist, which is a good possibility. The corruption and greed has grown to such epic proportions, that sometimes I believe there is no hope in even fighting this battle. But, I will continue to speak out, and I know you will, too. Great post! Let`s battle on! 🙂

    Mother C

    Motherclucker

    February 24, 2012 at 10:31 pm

  2. Here’s the segment taught by Termini, Harhut & Ross (Co-parenting Coordinator, Judge & GAL in Lackawanna County, PA):

    “2 FamIly
    Guardians ad Litem: Bridging the Gap Between High-Conflict Divorce and Domestic Violence
    Hon. Chester Harhut Danielle Ross, JD Ann Marie Termini, Ed.S., MS, LPC”

    Does that noun phrase (“Briding the Gap…”) make ANY sense? What it does, linguistically, is credit the term “high-conflict divorce” with a separate reality, which minimizes the meaning of domestic violence. High-conflict divorce is an AFCC construction. Divorce per se is going to involve some conflict — and whether it’s “high” or not is an entirely subjective decision — when it comes to judges and court personnel.

    ((If you see the word, “High-Conflict” it’s like seeing an apple tree. Someone, somewhere, somehow passed through and planted a seed, or left a non-GMO apple to disintegrate in the area. )) So this workshop evidently is going to credit, as it were, two telephone poles (High-conflict vs. DV) and string a linguistic bridge between them.

    That’s very interesting, because AFCC (basically the same crowd, give or take some personnel) ran some projects and put some real energy in slimming down the definition of “DV,” projects such as “Differential response” or “Explicating” the differences between just plain old high-conflict and actually potentially lethal DV.

    They also get it wrong time after time after time (Seal Beach, CA — 8 person massacre (by the father), case characterized by the initial divorce attorney as “fairly typical.” On closer examination of the record (what’s available on-line) at the time this AFCC attorney made said comment (and was presenting at a local conference), the father had a restraining order on for assaulting his step?father in front of his four-year old son,, i.e., beating the older man up. If that’s “fairly typical” than I think we have a working definition of the bread and butter of the divorce courts after a few decades of AFCC guidance and restructuring.

    RE: that NACC conference (feeling chatty today):

    I notice two things: That this group was incorporated in Colorado, which state (several in Denver) several other key organizations to the family law apparatus houses.

    And that they began in 1977, right around the time AFCC finally got its state of corporation nailed down, after skipping in and out of california & Illinois, being chased down by the State of California Franchise Tax Board (see “Beware AFCC” page @ stopcourtorderedchildabuse.org. Note; My directing readers there to see AFCC incorporation history is NOT an endorsement of that site or the various individuals who put it up).

    Which is als midstream was it 2nd wave feminism and no-fault divorce in some states (if I’m right).

    Lawyers to protect children from abuse are definitely needed — but they are also definitely over-used, and they also often worsen situations by minimizing criminal activity. What’s needed is to remove complete judicial immunity for exceptionally callous indifference to the children, the law, the rules of court, and their own conflicts of interest in particular cases. Basic formula? If a judge belongs to the AFCC (find out who does) — head for the hills. Avoid the courthouse. After all,l you might get rounded up and yelled at, like some of the individuals who happened to cross the Lackawanna County PA Courthouse (or was it court annex), we heard, a few Fridays ago.

    Let's Get Honest

    February 26, 2012 at 11:11 am

  3. I encourage readers curious about this topic to look to the more visually organized blog mentioned here: The Family Court Franchise System (it’s a “blogspot” not a wordpress one, i.e., Google supported). For those ALSO interested in the Pennsylvania situation specifically, there’s a similar — but more focused on PA — one (also easier to read) at http://lackawannafamilycourtfederal.blogspot.com

    Yours truly has put up 7 more posts past the “Enough for Now — on this site!” post (above). The readership on this blog has increased since then (not astonishing, but consistently high by comparison to other months). You may get more for your “money’ elsewhere (despite more actual data here) because these blogs were started when I had a better concept of the field, overall.

    I hate looking at this ugly yellow/white page and the less than striking print; spending a good part of a day on a post, and then publishing it to find half the quotes (in any given quote0 and/or more than half the paragraph separations gone. It is simply not worth my time (still activist, still learning) to clean this one up and reformat it, including adding more twitter, etc. function.

    Plesae come to my other blog(s) and there are Disqus-monitored comments on at least one of them, you can also pose questions on the “community forum” gadget, plus I might even write less. per post.

    If I wrote NO more, and someone took the time to go through the set of links, in approximate order, and think about their contents (talking someone who has an experiential familiarity with the family law custody experience, or friends going through it), it’s a GOOD resource.

    We are going through seriously disruptive and chaotic times in the US here, and those who lack a sound philosophical basis and logical underpinning in how to make decisions, and when to reject when to accept information — are going to end up confused, and disabled through indecision. This can render you useless — or likely to get hurt, along with your family — when the next set of “courthouse roundups” occur, and they will.

    I feel particularly sorry for someone who is believing the myth that the courts are filled of basically ethical judges and attorneys, marred by a few good apples, but the system has the means to purify itself. that is simply not how things worked. Go back and read the US Constitution, and enough of the documents surrounding it — then go look around, and ask “what happened?” Answer that question, then say “what’s it to me?” answer THAT, and perhaps you have a plan of action. Which has to be flexible enough to accommodate additional, RELEVANT information.

    Incidentally, one question I find helpful to answer is, to what degree is THIS true in your life?

    “Eat, Drink, and Be Merry for Tomorrow We Die.” (Phrase quoted in I Corinthians 15, attributed to “Paul.”)

    Let's Get Honest

    April 3, 2012 at 9:16 am


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Journalist specialising in the Horn of Africa and Southern Africa

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