
I am sorry I cannot do justice to this topic, only acknowledge it, and continue to speak in its light, to the things I will continue speaking about until I see changes, changed systems and a different and BETTER day.
I am already in constant grief and mourning (or, at least daily) of a different sort, and have very mixed feelings on the theme of “reconciliation” as you may see by this blog. I do not value “reconciliation for survival” at all times, and hope that this warning, may speak without dishonour to this man, who earned his position, who I respect more than many of the leaders you can see he has been posing and meeting with (including several from my own country) while stating where mine differs.
It may not be apartheid here, but policies have been enacted that are indeed coming from the same source.
Normally, I might not even pause to acknowledge major holidays, major events, world-shaking events, or the passing of a major leader. Sometimes, it’s so ordinary to be “marginalized” and dealing with it, that I don’t notice how I no longer respond to major national, or even global events.
Obviously, this is not one of those times. So I’m going to ask this question twice more– here, below and on a follow-up post.
I am talking about changes we need to United States of America, so proud of its (eventual) welcoming of Mandela on his release from 27 years in prison, of its protest of apartheid ON ANOTHER CONTINENT, to recognize what’s going on at home, and how the colonialism is set up, and works. For one, it doesn’t ever give up, or get dumber and clumsier with time. Nor must we, unless that’s simply acceptable.
Isn’t it past time to understand our times — to see the signs of our times, the leaders of our times, to HONESTLY understand the traditions and leaders we now endorse, and sponsor — of which genealogy were they: Peacemakers with justice, or hypocrites with myths about justice? Because if they are leading, and we have followed, blind to the signs of those times, that becomes OUR past, our missed moments.
Suggested Citation:
African Union Panel of the Wise, “Peace, Justice, and Reconciliation in Africa: Opportunities and Challenges in the Fight Against Impunity,” The African Union Series, New York: International Peace Institute, February 2013. ISBN: 0-93722-86-3 ISBN-13: 978-0-93772286-2 © by The International Peace Institute, 2013
(interesting document, sponsored by governments of Germany and Finland, copyrighted by the International Peace Institute, dates Feb. 2013. The document represents the efforts of TWO experts!!! I learned (just now) that the AU “Panel of the Wise” is only 5 people from regions of Africa, launched 2007 and that the African Union itself (consisting of 54 states, all countries participating but Morocco) was launched in 2001, 2001. I find purpose 3, interesting: “To accelerate the political and socio-economic integration of the continent. ” Sounds like what our over-entitled federal government has been pushing, and doing, in the United States, through ITS entities also, as in when you see “National Models.” While Purpose 2 is “to defend the sovereignty, territorial integrity and independence of its Member States,o I think a more honest look at history (whether of Africa, or America) will show, that’s not going to happen and is probably not on the map. See my page on how this began in America at the latest, in 1939: “Abolishing the Rule of Law through Presidential Executive Orders: How 50 States became 10 Federal Regions

The “African Union” (AU) predecessor was the OAU (Organisation of African Unity), of 1963. Here’s a Nov. 14, 2013 speech on Africa: Dynamics of Conflict, Promises of Renaissance by H.E. Thabo Mbeki (that’s Wiki), Mandela’s Successor, second post-apartheid President of South Africa from 1999-2008 (the Wiki contains a neutrality warning. There is one single sentence about his marriage and family, stating who he married when (and in the UK, where he was exiled). H.E. Thabo Mbeki was born to activist communist parents, and his youth was affected by this, he seems a creature of the ANC, taking orders from them. University training (Masters in Economics) in Great Britain and military training in the Soviet Union (1970) at the direction of the ANC. Was Mandela’s pick for second president. He resigned under some controversy in 2008.
(I see I will have to discuss this separately…I am not the expert, but still, it relates to the core issues here).
Encyclopedia Brittanica (short) summary, by Archbishop Desmond Tutu of the
Truth and Reconciliation Commission, South Africa (TRC),courtlike body established by the newSouth African government in 1995 to help heal the country and bring about a reconciliation of its people by uncovering the truth about human rights violations that had occurred during the period of apartheid. Its emphasis was on gathering evidence and uncovering information—from both victims and perpetrators—and not on prosecuting individuals for past crimes, which is how the commission mainly differed from the Nürnberg trials that prosecuted Nazis after World War II. The commission released the first five volumes of its final report on Oct. 29, 1998, and the remaining two volumes of the report on March 21, 2003.
. . . (Challenges/Assessments, problems with this):
The TRC was confronted by a number of challenges, as it was not accepted by all parties to the conflict. The top echelons of the military did not cooperate with the commission. It was mainly the foot soldiers in the security forces and those who were already imprisoned or were facing charges who applied for amnesty. Senior politicians in the former government and senior leaders in the security forces did not apply. In the case of the liberation movements, the members argued that as they had conducted a “just war,” they were not required to apply for amnesty because their actions did not constitute gross violations of human rights. It took considerable effort to persuade them to participate in the amnesty process.
Listen, still more, please:
A key weakness of the commission was that it did not focus sufficiently on the policies or political economy of apartheid. The failure to examine the effect and impact of apartheid’s policies resulted in the need for the perpetrators, or the “trigger-pullers,” to bear the collective shame of the nation and let those who benefitted from apartheid to escape responsibility. The link between racialized power and racialized privilege became obscured.The legacy of the commission was also compromised as the post-Mandela government was slow to implement the TRC’s recommendations, including the reparations program. By the end of the first decade of the 21st century, few of the commission’s recommendations had been implemented, and there had been few prosecutions of individuals who failed to apply for amnesty or who were refused amnesty by the TRC. Furthermore, a number of high-ranking officials from the security forces, including former minister of law and order Adriaan Vlok, were given suspended sentences through a plea-bargain process under new prosecutorial guidelines ostensibly meant to facilitate prosecutions. The failure to prosecute disillusioned many victims and encouraged the view that the government had strengthened impunity and that the beneficiaries of apartheid had escaped accountability for their actions.
Strengthened the view? It seems that the government DID strengthen the impunity by inaction, and that the beneficiaries of apartheid did indeed escape accountability for their actions.
Assessment
Despite these challenges and limitations, the TRC was internationally regarded as successful and showed the importance of public participation in such processes, including the initial decision-making process leading up to the establishment of a truth commission. The hearings of the TRC attracted global attention, as it was the first commission to hold public hearings in which both victims and perpetrators were heard. While amnesties are generally considered inconsistent with international law, the South African TRC provided some basis for considering conditional amnesties as a useful compromise, particularly if they help to secure perpetrator confessions.
“INTERNATIONALLY” doesn’t mean “UNIVERSALLY” and isn’t a determination of Truth. It’s a statement of subjective opinion. There are plenty who protest the process of pretending to “reconcile” because a meeting has taken place, followed by continued injustice, lack of accountability — particularly economic — in situations of extreme harm, and trauma.
Hardly simple topics, the promoter of Peace and Reconciliation of South Africa speaks DEEPLY to my resistance to the forced, universal decriminalization of severe violence against women and children (and society, human rights violations, civil rights violations) we are seeing in the subject matter I blog,
This system, these instituions and practices, these POLICIES, have harmed, permanently altered, and retarded my exit, with children, from a marriage which almost cost us our lives, for no legitimate reason other than that the father (my husband) had developed an over-entitled, and religiously-rationalized, AND socially-accepted method of maintaining control, including physical assaults, property damage, terroristic threats, symbolic destruction of personal belongings, interference with my ability to freely GO places (restriction of access to transportation), . . . .
. . . . .WORK (sabotage of employment opportunities, which represented contact with social spheres the father could not control), MAIL (I had mail intercepted) and FORCED WITNESS TO ANIMAL CRUELTY (we had animal abuse, domestic pets — several of them — died through beatings, neglect, and in at least two cases regarding my cats, murder), and THEFT OF MY CREDIT, in other words, first I was forced to shut mine down (early in the marriage) and year later when it probably became clear I was going to leave (because of this abuse), I was forced into working a night job (which became the mainstay of the family) long enough for him to obtain MY credit under duress (I had no access to it) after which that job was eventually shut down through harassment, obstruction, at times neglect of our children (i.e., refusal to provide child care while I worked), and so on. This was a decent and sustainable job, I left without unemployment because I had to quit. Then it was back to begging and doing without basics, plus living with this man who was very angry as I’d just had recently significant income. It took almost two more years (during which welfare time got up and running, learned in hindsight) to get out, in the end, no “plan” was going to work, I just had to act….
This was not the end of the gauntlet by a long (very long) shot, measured in challenges, or in years. IF there had been a space of peace, or a place of safety, it would be different, but there has not been. The entire message is, exonerate us, pretend with us, take the blame for (someone else’s violence), and above all, shut the door on your own past. Accept revisionist history, which is to say, accept a lie.
So the question comes up: WHY SO HOSTILE towards this species of post-divorce, or post-restraining order mothers? While the marriage was experienced as a POW situation (and was one), there was hope of escape. But now, I do not see that hope. While isolated in abuse, and aware of the compliance of others, once out, one realizes the institutions which set it up, and the sad passivity remains. We have become a society which wants someone else to do its dirty, dangerous work — and those people, whose proper job titles are actually police and, above them, district attorneys and their prosecutors — are not particularly inclined to do it. In fact, in my area, we are now seeing more and more police are actually shooting and killing on sight, including recently a teenager with a play (not even real) gun; he was 13 — and it SEEMS like, several times, older women. Of color. They didn’t taser — they shot, and killed.
Thanks to the family courts, which I am coming to understand as the outpost (bastions) of religion in our time, they can case-dump, and go back to the main business at hand: raising funds and starting Family Justice Centers which can draw grants and positive PR.
I am NOT alone in this. In my area, state, and across the country, still, women who seek to protect themselves or their children and retain SEPARATE and INDEPENDENT status at the human rights level, have been murdered, or had their children kidnapped and/or murdered, and sometimes get thrown in jail for their dissent (more, in another post under this title). Judicial deafness, and law enforcement deafness (to court orders) have cost such people their lives, or their children’s lives, causing them to exist in a state of defense, alarm, and trauma year after year. This is NOT conducive to a peaceful or prosperous life, or engagement in society. The population of the marginalized/traumatized seems to be on the rise. I am among them. So the topic of forcible “RECONCILIATION” being internationally promoted, through conciliation courts, conciliation process, and “mediation” when the sociopathic, out of control greed of one party laughs at the process, knowing where the balance of power remains.
In urban AND suburban prosperous America, some of these murders have been multiple-homicides, involving bystanders and with property destruction as well (i.e., father blows up the house during a “supervised visitation” with his two sons inside. He is a suspect in the missing wife whose body, I do not think, has been found yet (Josh Powell, Washington State, 2009). Or, someone has joint custody already, but somehow shows up at a beauty salon where his wife works, and blows away her — and seven others (mostly female), including a man sitting in a truck outside (Scott DeKrai, California, fall 2011). Or, as I continue to reference; it made a deep impression on me, this past August, a father who’d threatened to kill himself and his son, resulting in an order for supervised visitation, apparently does so — the agency which knew this mysteriously having forgotten to scan him for weapons on the way in. Or so we are told (Muni Savyon). Others simply appear to kill their wives during a court-ordered supervised visitation, some prefer to target their children, leaving her to suffer — and these are typically but not always, middle-aged white men, often with reasonably middle-class incomes.
My case:
My children were kidnapped (the word applies) on a court-ordered exchange for visitation purposes many years ago.
Several years later, without any of the involved parties telling me, I discovered — initially through the website “NAFCJ.net” by Liz Richards, especially (Step 2 link, which finally exposed me to some USEFUL basic vocabulary and concepts) — the federal incentives to the states and the state payments to groups contracting with the family courts, and as you can see on this blog, how millions of dollars collected child support end up mysteriously missing, or ‘Undistributable” and how an attorney who reported on merely $14 million of this ended up being handcuffed, disbarred, tossed in solitary coercive confinement for one and a half YEARS in Los Angeles Men’s jail in an attempt to break his spirit. His name is Richard Fine. A state law was quickly passed granting retroactive immunity to judges who may have previously taken (another issue he was addressing) county-paid bribes affecting their rulings on lawsuits against the county.
(In my case, and others). Jealousy of other women competing to be “the mother” and control of family finances were an issue. I know women who have been kidnapped, women who have been stalked, women who have been put temporarily — or in one case, long-time, working HOMELESS through arbitrary court orders and fiscal federal policy towards women. In America. The climate is increasingly hostile.
So yes, I have very deep feelings about the topic and principles of FORCED RECONCILIATION, even as I do mourn the passing of this person who has earned more respect that most United States Presidents have ever earned mine. I respect the office, and apparently the Constitution, which has been essentially sidelined in favor of the economic administrative policies.
The Los Angeles Times
By Robyn DixonDecember 7, 2013, 10:15 a.m.
JOHANNESBURG, South Africa — Members of Nelson Mandela‘s family spoke for the first time Saturday of their grief at losing a “great man, a pillar of the family,” who was always humble, despite his global fame.
Mandela’s family, deeply sensitive about the intense global media interest in his upcoming funeral, is walking a difficult line between a need for privacy to grieve, and the sense that Mandela belonged to to the world.
The family is deeply concerned about the possibility of photographs circulating of Mandela lying in state, according to a spokeswoman for the Government Communication and Information System. Cellphones and cameras will be banned for those who wish to view him lying in state.
There are 55 (wonderful) photos in this LA Times article (Published yesterday morning) by Scott Kraft, a correspondent who moved to South Africa, from 1988-1992, to record “The end of Apartheid and the release of Nelson Mandela from prison.” He’d said, “I stand before you here not as a prophet, but a humble servant of you the people…I therefore place the remaining years of my life in your hands.”
PLEASE SEE PHOTO #5, posing with President George H.W. Bush, meaning, in 1990, on his release from prison. The timing of dismantling apartheid in one country appears to correspond to setting up another one in THIS country, I am referring to the 1970s, 1980s, and 1990s, and legislative changes here, where blacks and whites CAN both vote, but some seem to continue to need a marginalized, disenfranchised population to meet their needs and greeds. The TIMING is significant.
Here are yet more from another source.
“The pillar of the family is gone, just as he was away during that 27 painful years of imprisonment,” said family spokesman Gen. Templeton Matanzima on Saturday. He read a statement to journalists but took no questions.
“His presence was like a baobab tree that provided a comforting shade that served as protection and security for us,” he said. He said the two days since Mandela’s death had been difficult, “and it won’t be pleasant in the days to come.”
FULL COVERAGE: Anti-apartheid icon Nelson Mandela dies
“We have lost a great man, a son of the soil, whose greatness in our family was in the simplicity of his nature,” he said on behalf of the family.
Mantanzima thanked South Africans and the world for their messages of support.
http://www.latimes.com/world/worldnow/la-fg-wn-nelson-mandela-family-20131207,0,5086619.story#ixzz2mq26D265
Here is a man who saw, knew, and acted appropriately in his times and for his country. Such men will often go to jail, and others may be killed. What a statement of hope, of possibility, that he ended life in peace, and at home, 95 years old.
the BBC announcement
“Although we knew that this day would come, nothing can diminish our sense of a profound and enduring loss.”
Mr Zuma said Mr Mandela – who is known affectionately by his clan name, Madiba – had died shortly before 21:00 local time (19:00 GMT). He said he would receive a full state funeral, and flags would be flown at half-mast.
Crowds have gathered outside the house where Mr Mandela died, some flying South African flags and wearing the shirts of the governing African National Congress, which Mr Mandela once led.
The Nobel Peace Prize laureate was one of the world’s most revered statesmen after preaching reconciliation despite being imprisoned for 27 years.
Mr Zuma said in his statement that “what made Nelson Mandela great was precisely what made him human. We saw in him what we seek in ourselves.
Tributes have come in from around the world. UN Secretary General Ban Ki-moon said he was “a giant for justice and a down-to-earth human inspiration”.
US President Barack Obama said Mr Mandela achieved more than could be expected of any man.
“He no longer belongs to us – he belongs to the ages,” he said, adding that Mr Mandela “took history in his hands and bent the arc of the moral universe towards justice”.
Mr Obama, the first black president of the United States, said he was one of the millions who drew inspiration from Mr Mandela’s life. He has ordered that the White House flag be flown at half-mast.
FW de Klerk, who as South Africa’s last white president ordered Mr Mandela’s release, called him a “unifier” and said he had “a remarkable lack of bitterness”.
The Elders – a group of global leaders set up by Mr Mandela to pursue peace and human rights – said they “join millions of people around the world who were inspired by his courage and touched by his compassion”. The group’s chair, Kofi Annan, said the world had lost “a clear moral compass”.
I have a post in draft since November 14th, 2013, remembering how (four decades after certain others figured this out), former US President Jimmy Carter renounced the Southern Baptist Convention’s Declaration on the Responsibilities and Inferior Position of Women, especially in marriage (but also in life, and in church leadership) and announced he was now joining “The Elders” a photo of some of them crowding around their model and sponsor, Nelson Mandela, is seen in one of the photo collections linked above.) It is still going to be published under probably this title:
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