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Archive for September 6th, 2011

The Samaans, Marcia Fay, et al. (Sacramento murder-suicide after “bitter custody dispute”)

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This post segues immediately upon the end of the last one, and I hope you’ll go there before reading this one.


Topic: http://familylawchannel.com/, briefly




Again, a father has apparently shot (murdered) his toddler, and himself, and California Protective Parents Association wants O’Brien (the judge out), Center for Judicial Excellence wants the Nabil Samaan brother of the suicide “victim” of bad family courts disbarred for an outrageous comment he made (and since retracted) (doubt it’s going to happen -but if it does, there are more like him, who might in the future be less outspoken, but based on what I’ve seen in a prominent (probably) SF attorney, “Prometheus,” I doubt it).





In looking for a minor detail (their ages!) of the mother and father, I ran across another article in the Capitol Weekly, noting that the “kneejerk reaction is to blame a family court official” in the “Capitol Weekly.”  They’re right about this, although quite often it IS a family court official — doing business as usual in the family court system — that this time, made the last in a string of bad decisions resulting in a newspaper headline.

I kept looking, and this post contains further information, though I do not pretend it’s “investigative reporting” on the Fay/Samaan situation — but a little family background, as it were, while the same family is loudly complaining about the courts and of course the mother, in the press.



The Capitol in “Capitol Weekly” referring to state capital, Sacramento, of course — where this case was.  The article doesn’t tell me too much, but the comments had a lead:


Thursday, September 1, 2011

Re: Capitol Weekly: In family courts, one tactic is to slam the judicial employees

This is so sick and scary. I have 2 step children that I would otherwise adopt but I am so disgusted with and scared of the CA Family Court system that I dont even consider it. How many families have they ruined so far, how many innocent and loving people’s lives ruined?  more…
Thursday, September 1, 2011

Re: Capitol Weekly: In family courts, one tactic is to slam the judicial employees

Ha!  Sheain’t the only bad apple in the greater Sacramento region. Dr. Makram Samaan,grandfather of Madeline Layla Samaan-Fay, who was murdered by her father, Dr. Samaan’sson, is a psychologist employed by the Sacramento Family Court as a mediator.  He along with his son, Nabil, the attorney,…  more…You should check out the good doctor on the Sacramento Superior Court website, it appears that he has been sued by numerous clients for professional malpractice…another bad apple?


That article, some smart commenter said, look up where the grandpa has been doing business (with the courts).  I was going to, thanks for the tip.

Entity Number Date Filed Status Entity Name Agent for Service of Process

Entity Number Date Filed Status Entity Name Agent for Service of Process

(not necessarily all related, I just looked up the last name AFTER writing most of this post and because of what it unearthed).

Barzin Barry Sabahat, Business and Family law attorney in Campbell, CA?

there are also Sabahat Corporations (Revoked) and Samaan (revoked) in NEvada also — see below)

The street address of this partnership appears to be (another) corporation service? and the registered agent, yes, is Mr. Sabahat, Esq.’s address:

(iroozipages.com) I DNK if this is any relationship to the Samaan family that just lost a granddaughter and a son through a murder/suicide around custody issues.


This post has very little about Marcia Fay because I found less about her (apart from negative comments from neighbors or friends of the father’s side).  She is a public official.  I am so sorry for her loss!  Perhaps later she will say  more!





1983 — CAL STATE OUSTS Dr. Makram Samaan; this is the appeal:


I’ll highlight.  This is a speed post.


Samann v. Trustees of Cal. State University & Colleges (1983) 150 Cal.App.3d 646 [197 Cal.Rptr. 856]  {{note:  last name mis-spelled here,….}}

Samann v. Trustees of Cal. State University & Colleges (1983) 150 Cal.App.3d 646 , 197 Cal.Rptr. 856[Civ. No. 22411. Court of Appeals of California, Third Appellate District. December 15, 1983.]

MAKRAM K. SAMAAN, Plaintiff and Appellant, v. TRUSTEES OF THE CALIFORNIA STATE UNIVERSITY AND COLLEGES et al., Defendants and Respondents.

(Opinion by Sparks, J., with Regan, Acting, P. J., and Carr, J., concurring.)


Turner & Sullivan, Richard K. Turner and Mary A. O’Gara for Plaintiff and Appellant.

John K. Van de Kamp, Attorney General, N. Eugene Hill, Assistant Attorney General, and Talmadge R. Jones, Deputy Attorney General, for Defendants and Respondents.



Appellant Makram K. Samaan appeals from a judgment of the Superior Court of Sacramento County which upheld his dismissal as a [150 Cal.App.3d 650] tenured professor at California State University at Sacramento. Appellant contends: (1) the trial court erred in determining that his proper remedy was a petition to set aside an arbitrator’s award under Code of Civil Procedure section 1285 et seq., rather than a petition for a writ of administrative mandate under Code of Civil Procedure section 1094.5; (2) he was denied procedural and substantive due process; (3) the arbitration did not cure the due process violations; and (4) his dismissal from employment was an abuse of discretion. We reject these contentions and shall affirm the judgment.

{{HOWEVER now the shoe is on the other foot; this is routine for participants ordered into mediation from the courts!}}



Appellant studied psychology and educational psychology at the University of Minnesota and earned a doctorate degree from that institution. He has been employed as a professor at California State University at Sacramento (CSUS) since 1970, and is a tenured employee. He also engages in the private practice of psychology and counseling. He holds licenses as a psychologist and as a marriage and family counselor. Appellant’s wife, Mary Samaan, is licensed as a marriage and family counselor.

Appellant’s difficulties arose out of activities with regard to billing for services under the Medi-Cal program.

(paragraphing from here forwards is mine….)

An investigation into appellant’s practice developed evidence of three questionable activities.

First, appellant had submitted billing to Medi-Cal for 119 services which his wife rather than he had performed. Appellant’s wife does not hold a license which qualifies her to render services compensable under the Medi-Cal program and she is not licensed as a Medi-Cal provider. Appellant signed billing forms for these services in which he attested that he had personally performed the services, although he had not done so.

Medi-Cal Fraud — 119 cases!   Lying.  Farming out to unlicensed provider, probably knew this was illegal so signed the forms himself.

Second, an auditor came to the conclusion that appellant had submitted bills to Medi-Cal for work performed at Serene Homes in excess of the number of hours he had been there.

Again, this is fraud and lying — inflating bills.  An “honorable tradition,” followed also by Maximus, Inc., and others, it seems.

Third, on two different occasions appellant had performed services for Medi-Cal mothers and had submitted billing forms for the mothers and their children, although he had never seen the children.

On these occasions appellant had submitted separate billing forms for each of the children involved. He had attested that he personally performed psychotherapeutic services for them, and listed his diagnosis of their problems, although he had not seen the children.

Again, I would categorizing this as LYING.  This eminently qualifies him for work in family court services in several jurisdictions, which will maximize billings until and unless caught. I wonder what percent % (if any) the state gets from Federal Medi-Cal reimbursements.  I don’t know, but we know when it comes to the child support angle, which is related.  It’s 34% to the state.  If the services never happened, just the billing, that’s a clean sweep on both parts (not counting, of course, the kids who might’ve actually needed those services).

In May 1979 the Attorney General’s office filed a 17-count criminal information against appellant and his wife. Ultimately, pursuant to a plea bargain, appellant entered a plea of guilty to one count of grand theft in violation of Penal Code section 487, subdivision 1, in return for dismissal [150 Cal.App.3d 651] of the charges against his wife and dismissal of all other charges against himself. Appellant was placed on probation for three years with conditions including the reimbursement of the Medi-Cal program of $5,431.50, payment of a fine of $1,000 plus penalty assessment, and that he perform 120 hours of community service. fn. 1

Am I wrong or does that look like a slap in the wrist.  Did anybody audit whether the 120 hours were actually performed by him, farmed out to his wife, or just never occurred?  (Note — only 3 weeks of service).


When CSUS President Lloyd Johns learned of the conviction of appellant he invoked Executive Order 245, the interim disciplinary procedure for academic personnel for California State Universities and Colleges. Pursuant to Executive Order 245, Austin Gerber, Dean of the School of Business and Public Administration, was appointed as administrative officer with the duty of conducting a factfinding investigation and making a recommendation of further action to the president. Appellant responded to the investigation in writing through his attorney. After receiving Gerber’s report, President Johns determined to proceed with a disciplinary action.

Education Code section 89535 provides that immoral conduct, unprofessional conduct, dishonesty, and conviction of a felony or of a misdemeanor involving moral turpitude are grounds for dismissal, demotion or suspension.

Does this go for attorneys also? I’d like to know.  Glad it does for tenured professors, though.  of course it’s not going to be possible to entirely clean house and maintain business as usual in some circles….


Education Code section 89538 provides in relevant part: “Notice of dismissal, demotion, or suspension for cause of an employee shall be in writing, signed by the chancellor or his designee and be served on the employee, setting forth a statement of causes, the events or transactions upon which the causes are based, the nature of the penalty and the effective date, and a statement of the employee’s right to answer within 20 days and request a hearing before the State Personnel Board.” Education Code section 89539 provides that in the event the employee shall request a hearing before the State Personnel Board the hearing shall be conducted in the same manner as state civil service proceedings and the party taking the disciplinary action shall have the burden of proof.


There is text that the faculty committee excused all of the above behavior, but an arbitrator later found no cause to do so, and he was dismissed, which is here being appealed.  You have the link and can follow up…  I personally sometimes have billed in advance, but never bill in advance having said I already performed the work.  And I can’t quite conceive of having claimed to perform work, when it was a relative that did instead, and one not qualified to do so.  Good grief — is that what a doctorate in psychology and a background in educational psychology leads one to do?


Still practicing:

Samaan and Samaan, Dr. Makram & Mary, BA,MA.Egypt+MA,PhD,Minnesota
10411 Fair Oaks Boulevard
Fair Oaks, CA 95628


Here’s an Arizona site that, after telling the story (carefully putting “father shot daughter” into third person (im)passive, i.e., “the child is dead and so is her father,”

and “father and daughter suffered gunshot wounds”) simply plugs his own services.  Disgusting!  Of course it was the custody battle that killed the little girl, and the father.

Sorrow and Frustration from Moni’s Father and Brother.

When asked about the death of his son and granddaughter, Dr. Makram Samaan — a psychologist and mediator who helps couples through divorce issues and whose thesis was on suicide — lamented that his son Moni had suffered greatly and feared losing his daughter. Furthermore, Makram stated that Moni telephoned him the same day that he drove off one last time in his SUV with Madeline. Makram believed his son and granddaughter died of carbon monoxide poisoning from the vehicle’s exhaust pipe at Grizzly Flat. But a later report from Lt. Brian Golmitz from the El Dorado County Sheriff’s Department stated that the father and daughter had suffered gunshot wounds — Moni’s death was caused by a self-inflicted gun-shot wound. Madeline had been shot twice.

aka Moni shot Madeline twice, (in what part of the body), killing her, and then himself  inside? a car with the exhaust pipe running into it (or whatever the details).  By all means, remove any indicators of intentional murder (active verbs involving lethal weapons, whether gas or bullets) from the narrative and then advertise your services, which I’m not going to dignify with naming here, although because I quoted, I’m linking.


More post-mortem quotes from the father of the father that killed himself and his kid:

Mercury News, 8/16/11, Stephen Magnanini & Peter Hecht, Sacbee.com

Dr. Samaan said his son Moni graduated from American River College and UC Davis and had a long career with Hewlett-Packard.

He loved windsurfing, fishing and kayaking and sailed solo from Hawaii to California, said Samaan, himself an avid sailor. “He saved me from drowning in the Red Sea.”

About four years ago, “he said he met a beautiful woman on the Internet, she’s good, she’s an attorney,” Samaan said. “They got married in March 2006.”

The couple separated before Madeleine was born December 2008. He said Moni learned of his child’s birth from his brother and sister-in-law.

Samaan said perhaps his son died for him to start a movement to take marriage disputes out of the courts. “The mother and father are mother and father forever,” he said. “We need to save America by saving the family.”


And by exploiting Medi-Cal mothers by claiming to have seen their kids when you haven’t, see above…

Obviously, I am blogging the Dr’s name here, and this comment (from the same one?) shows in response to a Dr. Amen article called “Why Didn’t Dr. Hasan seek help?” Again, not everyone commenting under a certain name on-line necessarily owns the name:

Posted November 6, 2009 at 1:19 pm | Permalink

DR Amen
NO, You are mistaken your Identity.
If your ancestors neverr been frpom Arabia, and only planted and grew-up an d Multiplied and breaded in LEBANON since BC hyears, then: Dr Daniel Amen is a PHYNICIAN.. and We the Ancient Egyptian, especially ThotmosesIII, hav e fought and made peace and traded for long time. Thanks to your Cedar of Lebanon helped us in many construction projects
Dr Amen, You are NOT an ARAB, You only speak ARABIC because it was imposed in place of your original local langiuage; Phynician…because a mentally derained Khalif imposed on your ancestors, as on my ancestors a Capital Punishment if we spoke our original s[ponanious Language, whether its your Phynician or our Coptic language.
Speaking Arabic does not make us Arabs. No Negative reflection on Arabs, they have their history and culture, BUT it is asserrtion of our History, the Civilization we create and our culture too. Deniel of our national origins is a Humanity Felonhy

Dr Makram Samaan
Professor Emeritus, CSU
Positive Psycologist / Coach

(especially with this spelling!) interesting, “professor emeritus” given, why…)


Coaching for Optimal Living Consultant:

Company Description
Dr. Samaan is a psychologist with expertise in communication skills, body language, body demeanor, voice inflection, vocal tone, and eye contact. He is also a consultant in negotiations and motivation, and coach with professionals, for healthier, happier and prosperous living. Dr. Samaan, has been a researcher, consultant, and professor at Universities and Professional Centers here and abroad. He was born and grew up in Egypt (Ancient Egypt, as he prefers). He was born in a Christian Family, but became an expert in all Eastern and Western Religions, as each has its own tenant to compliment the others, to produce the human kindness and evolutionary progress. Communications: Speech and body demeanors, Comprehensive indicator signals as authentic presentation of personal strengths, belief and value systems: Excellent for jury selection, sales and customer service. Coaching: discovering, developing and application of Authentic Strengths and virtues in Personal living, Work, Family and Relationships, to action highest satisfaction in work (FLOW), Happy Family, Parenting, Healthy Longevity, and Effective Community and Prosperous Life. Visual Perception and Diamentional Listening. Psychological Treatment, for Liberation from obstacles towards Goal Achievement of a happier life style and PI cases. Mediation/Negotiations; The best approach for a Non Zero Sum gain (every one is a winner): in business, Marriage and Family conflicts, Psychological Evaluations.





Makram Samaan, Ph.D.(PPN1/ATM) Professor Emeritus, CSU, Positive Psychologist drmsamaan@sbcglobal.com Integrating PP in Medicine, schools

For some reason, the grandfather made a LizLibrary (california) list of Children need .  . . THIS?

Please note that the inclusion of any individual on the below list does not necessarily indicate the existence of any licensing or other violation, but only that we obtained or have been made aware of information of interest relevant to the subject matter of child custody evaluations or other issues bearing upon mental health practitioners and the functioning of the family court system.California Licensing Information

William Hamilton Ayres (N) * Breffni Barrett, Ph.D. * Sidney Brown, Ph.D.* Janelle L. Burrill, Ph.D., J.D., LCSW(more) * Stephen Doyne, Ph.D. (more) (more) (more) (more) * Michael Dufficy * Warren Farrell, Ph.D. (N) *Judith B. Henderson, Ph.D.Michael Jones, Ph.D. * Joseph Kenan, M.D. * Larry Leatham, Ph.D. * Elizabeth Loftus, Ph.D. * Jayne A. Major, Ph.D. * Andrew McGarity, Ph.D.Richard Ofshe, Ph.D. (N) * Randy Rand, Ed.D. * Makram Samaan, Ph.D. (more)Donald K. Smith, Ph.D (more) * Philip M. Stahl, Ph.D. * John Spencer Stone, Ph.D. * Matthew Sullivan, Ph.D. * Richard J. Swank, Ph.D. *

(I should send in my “Philip M. Stahl” info, most of which can simply be filed under AFCC/PAS….)

If this image doesn’t show, be sure to read the information.  It is a complaint asking to prevent the (2010) renewal of Dr. Samaan’s license, and at first glance, it’s going to talk about business incorporation and financial misdeeds, moreso than psychological misdeeds:


This complaint was not, it appears, brought by an irate mother or father, but from the Board of Psychology.

10. “Respondent is the Manager/President of Innovative Enterprises International, LLC an investment business.   ON October 22, 2004, (IEI) filed with the Nevada Secretary of state listing 3 managers, including REspondent.  Respondent is a self-claimed Positive Psychologist/Consultant/Transformational Success Coach.

11.  Respondent practices psychology but also engages in financail services oncentraining on reverse pension plans.  According to him, it works like a derivative, small amounts of money paid become large amounts and it is sold.  Respondent maintains he will put the initial fees in his patients’ names, $40, and then it becomes $75,000 in a year unless the time is extended.  {{mental note:  Respondent deals with very gullible, or vulnerable, patients!}}  When individuals, including patients, discuss financial dificulties, Respondent will tell them of the reverse pension plans or other investments.

(sounds like he is “farming” the patient contacts  for other business…)  There it is:

Entity Name  NV Business ID  Status  Type
INNOVATIVE ENTERPRISES INTERNATIONAL, LLC NV20041251989 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company





Business Entity Information
Status:  Revoked File Date:  10/22/2004
Type:  Domestic Limited-Liability Company Entity Number:  LLC24941-2004
Qualifying State:  NV List of Officers Due:  10/31/2009
Managed By:  Managing Members Expiration Date:  10/22/2504
NV Business ID:  NV20041251989 Business License Exp:

 Registered Agent Information
Address 2: City:  RENO
State:  NV Zip Code:  89502
Phone: Fax:
Mailing Address 1: Mailing Address 2:
Mailing City: Mailing State:
Mailing Zip Code:
Agent Type:  Noncommercial Registered Agent
View all business entities under this registered agent

 Financial Information
No Par Share Count:  0 Capital Amount:  $ 0
No stock records found for this company

 Officers Include Inactive Officers
 Manager – MARY SAMAAN
Address 1:  3155 E PATRICK LANE STE 1 Address 2:
City:  LAS VEGAS State:  NV
Zip Code:  891203481 Country:
Status:  Active Email:
Address 1:  3155 E PATRICK LANE STE 1 Address 2:
City:  LAS VEGAS State:  NV
Zip Code:  891203481 Country:
Status:  Active Email:
Address 1:  3155 E PATRICK LANE STE 1 Address 2:
City:  LAS VEGAS State:  NV
Zip Code:  891203481 Country:
Status:  Active Email:


See why I told us to pay attention to Recorded Deeds (which includes trusts, real estate, etc.) in the family law arena?

Frequent registered agent process, and one of the changes (in 2008) is for some reason 222 pages long document:

Action Type:  Registered Agent Change
Document Number:  20090291472-56 # of Pages:  1
File Date:  3/23/2009 Effective Date:
(No notes for this action)
Action Type:  Registered Agent Change
Document Number:  20060677123-54 # of Pages:  1
File Date:  10/23/2006 Effective Date:
(No notes for this action)
Action Type:  Registered Agent Address Change
Document Number:  20080296150-43 # of Pages:  222
File Date:  4/29/2008 Effective Date:
(No notes for this action)
Action Type:

Also, when I complained (yesterday) about how California lacks a means to sort incorporations by “registered agent” — look what happens in Nevada when I click on who registered INNOVATIVE ENTERPRISES INTERNATIONAL:

Business entities under registered agent “AMERICAN BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT, LLC”

1 – 50 of 71 companies

 Entity Name  NV Business ID  Status  Type
A. RICH, LLC. NV20061377546 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
AAHSOME AUTO SALES, LLC NV20071003996 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
AMERICAN KARMA CLOTHING, LLC NV20061784490 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
AQUASITION CAPITAL, INC. NV20061649761 Revoked Domestic Corporation
BALANCE MANAGEMENT ENTERPRISES, LTD. NV20061782745 Revoked Domestic Corporation
BATTLE BORN HOLDINGS, LLC NV20071317878 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
BELAIR BROTHERS & ASSOCIATES, LLC NV20071317850 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
BLACK SAND DEVELOPMENT INCORPORATED NV20071598477 Revoked Domestic Corporation
CAPITAL LIFE GROUP, LLC NV20071519571 Default Domestic Limited-Liability Company
CLEVERLEY TECHNOLOGY, INC. NV20061123037 Revoked Domestic Corporation
CO-OP DESIGN, INC. NV20061044136 Revoked Domestic Corporation
CROWEPAULO, LLC NV20041293900 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
DBD ENTERPRISES, INC. NV20061051788 Revoked Domestic Corporation
DESIGN WORKS & IMAGING, LLC NV20061783047 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
DHI 10, INC. NV20041601241 Default Domestic Corporation
DNC INVESTMENTS, LLC NV20061509803 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
EAGLE TIRE FACTORY, LLC NV20071317845 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
FEEL YOUNG AGAIN, LLC NV20051401052 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
FOOKEY INVESTMENT CORPORATION NV20061098298 Revoked Domestic Corporation
FOUR BROTHERS DEVELOPMENT INCORPORATED NV20071317866 Revoked Domestic Corporation
FOUR WINDS RANCH, LLC NV20071592151 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
GOLDEN VISION PROPERTY INVESTMENTS L.L.C. NV20091180229 Default Domestic Limited-Liability Company
GRANITE BAY CARRIAGE COMPANY, LTD. NV20071592146 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
HEYOKA HOLDINGS, LTD. NV20071592421 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
ILICANO GROUP, LLC NV20071591712 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
INNOVATIVE ENTERPRISES INTERNATIONAL, LLC NV20041251989 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
JLG TRANSPORTATION, LTD. NV20071592133 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
K & K TRANSPORT, INC. NV20081429625 Revoked Domestic Corporation
K&L FINANCIAL GROUP, LLC NV20041269309 Active Domestic Limited-Liability Company
KAMINA & ASSOCIATES, LLC NV20071591731 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
LAST MINUTE TICKETS, INC. NV20081094605 Revoked Domestic Corporation
LIFE MOBILE SOLUTIONS, LLC NV20071504731 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
LIMARC, LTD. NV20041444573 Revoked Domestic Corporation
LINKLITE, LLC NV20041246348 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
MARCELLA QUEZADA, PC NV20041679787 Revoked Domestic Professional Corporation
MARISKAS, INC. NV20061116541 Revoked Domestic Corporation
MATLEY PLAZA, LIMITED PARTNERSHIP NV19931015837 Cancelled Domestic Limited Partnership
MD TRANSPORTATION & CHARTER INC. NV20061633937 Revoked Domestic Corporation
MICHAEL’S TRANSPORT, INC. NV20061054417 Revoked Domestic Corporation
MICROTEK COMPUTER SOLUTIONS, LLC NV20071598483 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
MIXMASALA LLC NV20061418943 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
NATIONAL ACCOUNTING PAYROLL & TAX SERVICES, INC. NV20071512569 Revoked Domestic Corporation
NORTH WESTERN MANAGEMENT GROUP, LTD. NV20071003983 Revoked Domestic Corporation
O.T., LLC NV20041156827 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
ONE WAY CAPITAL, INC. NV20081216525 Revoked Domestic Corporation
ORIS GROUP CORPORATION NV20091341755 Active Domestic Corporation
PARTNERS & PADS, INC. NV20041453168 Revoked Domestic Corporation
PENALTY SHOT INCORPORATED NV20061269290 Revoked Domestic Corporation
PONDEROSA EQUESTRIAN ESTATES, LLC NV20071611728 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company

and page 2:

Entity Name  NV Business ID  Status  Type
PURE BAMBOO, LLC NV20061337710 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
RMEG, LLC NV20061649742 Active Domestic Limited-Liability Company
ROBERT MCMANUS, INC. NV20061225768 Default Domestic Corporation
SEAMLESS TECHNOLOGY, INC. NV19981294486 Active Domestic Corporation
SENMONT, INC. NV20061370390 Revoked Domestic Corporation
SIERRA SANDPOINT CONSULTING & ASSOCIATES, LTD. NV20061783236 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
SOCCER NATION, LLC NV20061338229 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
STAGE RIGHT LAS VEGAS , LLC NV20071664506 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
STATUS ENTERTAINMENT GROUP INC. NV20101630585 Active Domestic Corporation
STELLAR CREATIONS, LLC NV20061155230 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
STORM TRADING GROUP NV20041518884 Revoked Domestic Corporation
STRATEGIC GAMING ADVISORS, LLC NV20101122895 Dissolved Domestic Limited-Liability Company
TANGIN INC NV20051108649 Revoked Domestic Close Corporation
TEAM DYNAMIC, LLC NV20051368208 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
THE GLOBAL TRADING HOUSE, INC. NV20071375117 Revoked Domestic Corporation
THE ROE CORP NV20101673199 Active Domestic Corporation
TSALAGI MANAGEMENT INCORPORATED NV20071582313 Revoked Domestic Corporation
TUNDRA GHOST INCORPORATED NV20071584687 Revoked Domestic Corporation
U. S. MARKET DEVELOPMENT CORPORATION NV19971097576 Revoked Domestic Corporation
UNIQUE DOLLAR, INC. NV20071119596 Revoked Domestic Corporation
WBA ENTERPRISES, LLC NV20051155574 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
1 2

6 out of 71 are still standing.  At a minimum, this certainly reflects on the judgment of this court-connected positive psychologist and his licensed marriage therapist wife.

The incorporation mill is itself, apparently still standing, though, along with QUITE a few others at the same street address:

American Business Development

Well, sort of, according to nevada Secretary of State:

Entity Name  NV Business ID  Status  Type
AMERICAN BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT, LLC NV20031099367 Revoked Domestic Limited-Liability Company
AMERICAN BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT CORPORATION NV19971122392 Permanently Revoked Domestic Corporation
NORTH AMERICAN BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT, INC. NV19981205167 Permanently Revoked Domestic Corporation


Based on my California search of Samaan — which showed a single LLP shared with Barzin Barry Sabahak (shown above in brown tone chart) — I decided to just look up the same last name — Sabahak — in Nevada. With different first names, it pulls up there corporations, all of which are “revoked” status and some which show a California address:

Officer Name  Officer Type  Entity Name


One address of which was ERAN ENGINEERING in Tustin (not far from Los Angeles)







ANYHOW, back to LizNotes:


Good Grief — the “patrick lane” address for the Samaan Living Trust (see above) shows up under “Web of Deception” with Dionne Warwick as president (of . . . .


Type: Domestic Corporation

Status: Default

Status Date: 12/1/2007

Filing Date: 11/10/1983

I gather this is talking about looking up IRS tax liens:  Among the many addresses is the same one:

Dionne Warwick: Examine the history of federal
and state tax liens into the millions including a
$6,879,065 Internal Revenue tax lien filed on 
New Years Eve, 2009

Officers, Directors:


And corporation wiki also lists this (from what my layperson self can tell) as another incorporation mill, i.e., “Corporations at this address” (will take a while to count)

By the way, this may be an appropriate time to mention that, along with sometimes falsifying billings for Medi-Cal and Child Support, some of us have also found fraudulent registration of (family court litigants) names — without their knowledge — on real estate transactions.  Or, for example, continued use of an SS# once it’s in the system, a form of identity theft; and this may be in or out of one’s own jurisdiction (case in point).

By the way, here’s another example of why I want the psychologists OUT of the family law business (psychodiagnostics.com — found at this address also)


BACK TO the LIZ LIBRARY’s posting of a hearing on Dr. Makram Samaan’s APA license renewal.

12.  Respondent provided counseling to C.M., the adult son of (I’ll omit the periods from here on) SF.  In therapy Respondent learned that CM’s father in law PF had received a settlement from the Veteran’s Administration….used this knowledge to provide therapy to CM’s mother (SF) and father (PF).  (I hate almost to transcribe parts for this).

SF (the mother in her 50s) had a workers’ compensation claim from an injury by a heavy shelf.

PF, the father in law of the original contact (patient CM) was a Viet Nam vet, dealing with PTSD, and legally blind…..

“During his counseling sessions (with these two) while ostensibly providing psychotherapy, respondent would talk about himself during most of the session, take phone calls from his broker, and buy and sell homes.  Respondent disclosed a lot of personal information about himself, (e.g. about his life in Egypt, travels, how he saved people, his job at the university, how his students loved him, how he stood up to the administration (see above!), that he knew important people, that he owned two yachts.)”

“Paragraph 16.   SF had a workers’ compensation case, which REspondent took over, had her sign a lien, and referred her to several doctors, including his son who is an attorney.” . . . signing promissory notes, advising them to put their money in offshore bank accounts as US bank accounts are unstable (true, they are, but still . . .. )


(Would that be the famous “Nabil Samaan” whose quote it’s hoped will get him disbarred, but which won’t?)

Do you have a sick feeling in your gut about this yet?    Next, he gets PF off his meds without consulting his medical history, and then involved in the reverse pension plan pay-out schemes.  In other words the man can smell money and knows how to get his hands on it, regardless of which vulnerabilities are in the people who are the gateway to this money.

There are SEVEN causes of complaint, and the executive officer of the Board of Psychology, signing this (per LizLibrary, which image shows the signature) on March 24, 2010, asks that Dr Samaan’s license be revoked.

During the timeframe of the investigation, one of his sons got married and divorced, and into a custody battle.  To tell the truth, I wouldn’t believe anything this grandfather says about his son, either one, the courts, or in fact, anything.  Let’s wait and see what the mother’s side has to say.  Meanwhile, he was taking family law cases in Sacramento still?    Complaints about the improper billing process date back to the 1980s, for pete’s sake!

In the “more” section (on the same Dr. / psychologist / grandfather), Liz Library — and just to note, Liz Kates if a family  law attorney in Florida, that does this site) is going to talk about the Marcia Fay / Moni Samaan case and this murder/suicide.  Thank you Liz Kates, for your work in posting so much of this information (but a strong thank you also to the other Liz Richards, in Virginia, who exposed the financial dealings between certain court-associated nonprofits, and tied them into the HHS fathers’ rights grants system.  Moreover, we are now also beginning to see the involvement (significant) of property transfer, and the importance of checking the county recorder of deeds for names of court professionals and/or litigants.  Who knows yours may be on there…without your knowledge..



Completely misleading media

Video: California Attorney says murder is okay

(apparently this post is from Bonnie Russell, in San Diego — dated to August 16)

The murder of Madeline Samaan-Fay by her father

Bonnie Russell's photo

, San Diego Public Policy Examiner

August 16, 201

Continue reading on Examiner.com The murder of Madeline Samaan-Fay by her father – San Diego Public Policy | Examiner.com http://www.examiner.com/public-policy-in-san-diego/the-murder-of-madeline-samaan-fay-by-her-father#ixzz1XDlvF1rP

Two hours ago Frank Doughtery of Divorcespecialists who represents Marcia Fay in her child custody battle turned murder-suicide, returned our call.  Doughtery informed us media initially got reports of Madeline Samaa-Fay’s murder completely wrong…in part because it was the weekend which prohibited court records from being checked.

However, it was clear media was deliberately misled by California attorney Nabil Samaan.

Brother of the killer.

Doughtery reported on August 6, 2011 the now dead Mourad “Moni” Samaan was served by mail with a Contempt order after earlier taking Madeline to Oregon on her mother’s time.  Sacramento County Family Court Judge James Mize had denied Marcia Fay’s request for supervised visitation. The confusion was due in part because Doughtery filed additional requests when the child was not returned on Friday.  However by that time both Madeline and the father who killed her were both dead.


This was Marcia Fay’s custody attorney:  note the primary interest of psychology:

Frank E. Dougherty, J.D., Ph.D., A.B.P.P. (diplomate in forensic psychology) is a certified family law specialist with a 30+ year background as a psychologist, before switching to a law practice in 1995. He presently practices law in the Sacramento Valley region in the areas of family law, juvenile dependency law, guardianships and writs & appeals. Previously, he has worked as a custody evaluator, clinical researcher, a Chief Psychologist in Upstate New York, a practicing neuropsychologist, a professor of Psychology at several universities, a Local Director of Mental Health in El Dorado County, a CEO of a corporation conducting psychological evaluations for California Department of Mental Health, a law clerk to Justice Levinson in the Hawaii Supreme Court, and a lecturer on law and mental health issues to various legal and professional groups. 

How did Ms. Fay choose this attorney?  Because he was in Sacramento?   

Judge Mize (also track the link above, to LizLibrary and/or Bonnie Russell site) had a major interest in psychology, and social welfare, then later (1974) got his law degree, intending to be of most help to society by social welfare policy change.  Women’s Lawyer Service awarded him, California Judges Association awarded him, and I note involvement in Volunteer Legal Services of Northern California.


Here is Mary Samaan’s blog.  I am sorry to be so harsh in these comments, but I feel it’s time to be a little harsh when it comes to tolerating, for example, continued fraud.  ALSO, I do not know for sure that this is the same, i.d., Dr. Makram’s wife, but it would seem so:





Marriage, Family and Child Therapy

Submitted by msamaan on Fri, 07/31/2009 – 14:00

Some time ago, I wrote an open letter to pastors in the Sacramento area.   I want to share that letter with you because I think it best describes my services and my methods.

Dear Pastor,

I am a Marriage, Family and Child Therapist, licensed by the State of California (MFT License 6381), with a Master of Science degree in Counseling.  I have provided counseling to individuals and families since 1974.  I have been a part-time instructor of Psychology at American River College for 30 years.

I strongly believe in the importance of affirming Christian marriage and family values.  As a wife and mother of three adult children and grandmother of two, I have deep empathy and understanding of the many challenges that families face today.

Thanks to your son — make that grandmother of  ONE less.– 

I believe that a Christian family that shares love, intimacy and positive communication, is an important foundation for both church and community.  As a Christian, family-oriented therapist, I am commited to helping families in crisis.  I have extensive experience and skills in group therapy, stress management, pre-marital and couples therapy.

In addition to working with couples and families, I provide pre-marital counseling to couples utilizingInventories for Premarital Counseling (Couple and Family Map, [Prepare/Enrich], by David Olson of the University of Minnesota).

What is “Christian Counseling”?

Submitted by msamaan on Fri, 05/29/2009 – 14:50

In California, a licensed counseling professional is prohibited by California law to claim to be a Christian counselor.   While there is no question that psychologists ascribe to some form of personal belief system including a belief in a greater being or power or God, that belief system is supposed to remain separate from the professional practice.

There have been volumes of books written on the subject of “Christian counseling”.   The distinction can be made, however, that while a psychologist may be a Christian in their own personal belief, the State doesn’t recognize any religion or theology to be part of the licensing requirement.

It can, therefore, be somewhat of a frustration for the seeker of counseling services to find a family or marriage counselor practicing their faith in their professional practice.  Many times, it becomes a matter of calling several phone numbers and awaiting return phone calls before a determination can be made as to whether or not a pschologist offers counseling from a Christian perspective.


This among other reasons is why I am no longer a churchgoer.

About Mary

For nearly 30 years, Mary Samaan has been in private practice as aLicensed Marriage and Family Therapist.  After earning her Bachelor of Arts in Social Work from theUniversity of Cairo, Mary came to the United States where she continued her graduate work at the University of Minnesota and earning her Master of Science in Counseling atCalifornia State University Sacramento.  Mary is licensed by the California State Board of Behavioral Sciences.

Mary also recieved multiple certifications including Certified Sex Therapist from UCSF Medical School and Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist from the San Francisco Academy of Hypnosis.

Reader Alert:  “Faith comment”

I’m at a loss, although this is a theological point, not a family law one, how a confessing Christian could also validate and practice hypnosis.  The name even comes from the word to put GNOSIS “under” — i.e., put someone out.  There are times in the Bible where it’s spoken of a prophet, or, for example, the apostle Peter, falling into a trance (during mediation).  At ZERO point in the Bible is it recommended to have someone other than God put you under, or to show up for the process.  This comes under consulting familiar spirits, and the classic example usually given is King Saul, after the spirit of the Lord had left him, and he went consulting to the witch of Endor, who brought up a vision of the (deceased) prophet Samuel from the dead.  A little (very little) while later, and Saul committed suicide, and come to think of it, his son Jonathan (a good son) died with him, too.

While there’s been all kinds of schisms and doctrines around “Gnostics,” the fact is in the Greek Bible the word “gnosis” and “epignosis” — of God and the Lord Jesus Christ — are valued as very good.  Since I’m off topic in that one, anyone can check things on-line there are plenty of interlinears on line these days, or word studies.    But I suppose if the minds are turned off in church, (pariticularly around issues of DV and child molestation) it’s no big deal if they are also officially put under by a pastor-endorsed Christian therapist schooled in hypnosis.  

It’s a matter of WHO is put in control, spiritually, psychologically or otherwise.  I point to an account of the Susan Polk murder trial (Northern California); it’s commonly known that she married her therapists and had 3 children by him.  She also described him, as her husband, as being excessively controlling, BUT also as having been solicited for a psychiatric experiment (Berkeley) along with other students, and then eventually (later) claimed that part of how the sex -during-therapy — as a minor — was induced with her husband includes hypnosis and/or possible drugging.   

The Bible holds men (and women) accountable for what they do with their minds:  Romans 12:  “Be ye transformed by the renewing of your minds.”  There is no indication to go to a professional and have these minds re-set while unconscious for the purposes of deliverance from excessive addictions and other things that control one against one’s own will.  Scripturally, those are called devil spirits, and the command (for followers) is to throw ’em out in the name of Jesus Christ.

“End of Reader Alert Faith Comment:”

But of course that wouldn’t be good for business, Christian or otherwise.

Mary specializes in treating individuals, couples and families concerning issues with addictive behaviors such as drug, alchohol and smoking dependencies, eating disorders, sexual and emotional abuse, anxiety disorders, stress and depression.

Since 1976, Mary has been teaching psychology atAmerican River Collegein Sacramento.

Several Sacramento area churches recommend and refer to Mary for marriage and pre-marital counseling. 

I use her for all my premarital counseling and regularly recommend people to her.  She not only offers very qualified counsel, but does it with compassion”, says Pastor Ted Smith of First Covenant Church of Sacramento.

You are forewarned.

And a good Christian woman will never “out” her husband because it would break up the family?


And her husband’s practice falsely billed, saying he performed services when she did them (unlicensed).  Their Nevada Corporation, “Innovative Enterprises International, LLC” held in three officer’s names:  his, hers, and a living trust, with the registered agent being an incorporation mill, which MOST of its (71 Nevada) corporations had business status revoked, terminated, cancelled, etc. (that’s even a high % for this field of family law, which as we’ve been seeing has lots of nonprofits lose their business status, only to replaced by newer ones with different names).   The address of the incorporation mill shows countless incorporations.

Moreover her husband Dr. Makram (if he’s still one) is apparently a liar, a crook, and exploits vulnerable, injured patients financially, by Psychological Board standards, which aren’t exactly the highest in the neighborhood!



I am wondering if the marriage prep tools being used here are courtesy some 93.086 type grants, i.e. marriage/fatherhood:



Do you use

the Best Tools

for relationship assessment?

PREPARE/ENRICH is the leading relationship inventory and couples assessment tool. Scientifically validated as a foundational program for premarital counseling, marriage enrichment, couples therapy, marriage mentoring and marriage education. PREPARE/ENRICH automatically tailors the content of the relationship assessment to fit each couple’s unique relationship stage and family structure. Learn more or get trained!


Does this sound familiar, if you’ve been around my blog much?

PREPARE/ENRICH began in 1980 as a result of several research projects at the University of Minnesota in which Dr. David Olson developed a set of inventories for couples; known as PREPARE/ENRICH. Because of the demand for inventories David and Karen Olson formed PREPARE/ENRICH (Life Innovations, Inc.) to provide these helpful tools for counselors, clergy members, mentors and other marriage educators.


About the Founders

David H. Olson  Ph.D., Founder and CEO of Life Innovations, Inc. Professor Emeritus, Family Social Science, University of Minnesota where he taught for over 25 years.

Karen Olson,  CFO and manager for over 25 years, as well as Director of Marketing and Outreach for Life Innovations, Inc.






David and Karen Olson


(obviously layout on their page is going to be in the right sequence; mine isn’t).

Notice — she has 25 years of experience, but doesn’t merit a “vita” on the site:

Mr. Olson is past president of the National Council on Family Relations (NCFR). He is a Fellow in the American Association of Marital and Family Therapy (AAMFT), American Psychological Association (APA) and NCFR.


You know I’m going to look it up.  Seems MN has only one search field” entity name” (if there’s another source, let me know, please!) and they show:

Filing Number: 5I-719 Entity Type: Domestic Corporation
Original Date of Filing: 9/17/1986 Entity Status: Active
Chapter: 302A Good Standing:
(date of last annual filing)
Duration: Perpetual
Registered Office Address: 2660 Arthur Str
Roseville, MN, 55113
Agent Name: No Agent Filed



Churches / Christians are so eager to get into the counseling and marriage promotion field, where they are already.  Internet organization plus faith-based grants sure must help, here’s a Center for Relationship Education recommending the same Marriage Prep tools it’s too bad if the Samaan’s daughter in law and son didn’t use (having met each other over the internet and decided to marry in their 40s).  Or did they take it?


(Dr. Olson is on the board of this “CRE” (Center for Relationship Education) which happens to be located on John Brown University in ARkansas).

Their “Church Initiatives” page says:

The vision of CRE is to help people be conformed to the image of the Lord. In other words, the end in mind is Christ-centered relationships. Romans 8:29 states, “ For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son.”

If our vision is Christ-centered relationships, CRE’s mission then is to educate, enrich, and equip “equippers” to live this out and to influence the relationships of others. This is based on the instruction given in 2 Timothy 2:2, “the things which you have heard from me…entrust to faithful men and women who will be able to teach others also.” We call this rippling effect “multiplication.” It is the essence of the great commission: “Go and make disciples of all nations…teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you” (Matt. 18-20).


That’s a misquote of 2 Timothy 2:2 which absolutely does not say “men and women,” in fact quite a point is often made in Christian circles that women should NOT be teaching, certainly not in public and if then, not to men.  They’ll quote Paul up and Timothy back to make this point.   I don’t happen to agree, but the point is that the religious ones here aren’t even quoting their own scripture right.

The other point being that evangelism and multi-level marketing (and marriage promotion with federal grants helping) go hand in hand just fine.

This link  http://liferelationships.com/resources/links.asp includes all time “egalitarian” sites such as:

Focus on the Family

National Center for Fathering

Promise Keepers

Family First (which leads to:

amily First Programs and Projects

All Pro Dad

All Pro Dad is Family First’s innovative program helping men to be better fathers. All Pro Dad’s 50 NFL spokesmen, multiple NFL seminars, 850 All Pro Dad’s Days, and Play of the Day daily emails that reach almost 40,000 fathers each day, all inspire and equip fathers to be actively involved in their children’s lives. And every month, over 100,000 fathers log onto AllProDad.com to benefit from insightful fatherhood resources.


Dr. Olson (who wrote the tools Dr. Mary Samaan recommends in her practice in California) cites NCFR __ National Council on Family Relations in his bio.

Just for a little perspective of “speed of nonprofit duplication” — check out this list from NCCSDataweb.org, including the fact that only TWO show any 990s filed!

Are these all religious, and hence don’t have to file, or what?


Most Recent Tax Period EIN Name State Rule Date IRS Sub- section Total Revenue Total Assets 990 Image
2009  410762436 National Council on Family Relations MN 1974 03 1,739,652 2,582,298 990
2010  043625577 National Council on Family Relations Louisiana Tech University LA 1974 03 0 0
2010  050553534 National Council on Family Relations Messiah College PA 1974 03 0 0
2010  061741075 National Council on Family Relations Stout Council on Family Relations WI 1974 03 0 0
2009  232089650 National Council on Family Relations Mid-Atlantic Council on Family Real PA 1904 03 0 0
2010  237355125 National Council on Family Relations Ohio Council on Family Relations OH 1974 03 0 0
2010  260066214 National Council on Family Relations Mid-Atlantic Council on Family Rela PA 1974 03 0 0
2009  260104400 National Council on Family Relations Samford University AL 1974 03 0 0
2010  320055568 National Council on Family Relations University of Illinois Student Cfr IL 1974 03 0 0
2009  352217165 National Council on Family Relations Family Relations Council at Central MI 1974 03 0 0
2010  363873610 National Council on Family Relations Northwest Council on Family Relatio WA 1974 03 0 0
2009  392054370 National Council on Family Relations Tech Council on Family Relations TX 1974 03 0 0
2010  410977220 National Council on Family Relations Minnesota Council on Family Relatio MN 1974 03 0 0 990
2008  412081426 National Council on Family Relations Minnesota University Student Cfr MN 1974 03 0 0
2009  421572588 National Council on Family Relations North Texas University TX 1974 03 0 0
2010  460473514 National Council on Family Relations University of MO Student Cncl MO 1974 03 0 0
2010  510221166 National Council on Family Relations Texas Council on Family Relations TX 1974 03 0 0
2010  510233795 National Council on Family Relations California Council on Family Relati CA 1904 03 0 0
2010  562317344 National Council on Family Relations University of Maryland MD 1974 03 0 0
2010  593767954 National Council of Family Relations Towson University MD 1974 03 0 0
2010  870391978 National Council on Family Relations Utah Council on Family Relations UT 1904 03 0 0
2007  880458835 National Council on Family Relations Louisiana Tech University Student C LA 1974 03 0 0
2010  930753502 National Council on Family Relations Illinois Council on Family Relation IL 1974 03 0 0
2010  930825864 National Council on Family Relations Oklahoma Council on Family Relation OK 1904 03 0 0
 300644557 National Council on Family Relations Weber State Univ Student Council UT 1974 03 0 0
 900722656 National Council on Family Relations Jacks Council on Family Relations MN 1974 03 0 0
 900730521 National Council on Family Relations Bowling Green State University Stud MN 1974 03 0 0
 900730621 National Council on Family Relations Southern Council MN 1974 03 0 0
 900730625 National Council on Family Relations University of Central Oklahoma Stud MN 1974 03 0 0
 900730631 National Council on Family Relations University of Wisconsin Stevens MN 1974 03 0 0
 900730635 National Council on Family Relations Utah Valley University Student MN 1974 03 0 0
 900730638 National Council on Family Relations Wisconsin Council on Family Relatio MN 1974 03 0 0

A service of the National Center for Charitable Statistics at the Urban Institute
IRS Form 990 images provided by The Foundation Center


Notice the University Proclivity…

As I keep saying, the highest- profit-margin field to be in, EVER, is information dissemination.  You’re in it:



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September 6, 2011 at 7:42 pm

Joint Custody, Supervised Visitation, Little Girl & Dad shot — it’s not just about the Judge

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A few days ago I was railing on “Supervised Visitation Network” (again) pointing out — I believe correctly — that it was a creation, basically of the Association for Family & Conciliation Courts (basically) personnel. WE also know that the supervised visitation centers (see last post for how often they go under, or lose their business licenses) often get funding in the form of federal grants to states for “Access Visitation.”

Access Visitation is itself a term coined and promoted by the Children’s Rights Council, which they also assert on their pages.

So, I receive an email alert from a well-known California group that has been protesting a certain judge for years, and trying to get him off the bench.

However no judge functions in a vacuum; it is the web of infrastructure enabling bad (or child-endangering/lethal) decisions to be made, year after year in the courts. So am going to take a brief look at this news article and the court the case came from, which was forwarded me yesterday.


The alert, from California Protective Parents, complaining about the judge, reads:

Sacramento Judge Peter McBrien once again refused a mother’s plea for supervised visits with a father who was a danger to his daughter and himself. Tragically, the father then shot the toddler twice, then turned the gun on himself in a murder suicide.
This preventable tragedy is just one of the many times Judge McBrien has endangered children. He has placed countless children with their identified sexual molesters and violent, alcoholic fathers.
Judges are getting pleas from both mothers and fathers, and there are other reasons for their decisions than someone’s pleas, this lesson we should have learned ages ago.  And it’s not just about this judge, not that I agree with the decision, obviously:
Here’s the account from Sacramento Bee, about a couple who was married for 14 months, and separated before the baby was born:

Bitter custody fight foreshadowed abduction, father-daughter deaths 

Published: Wednesday, Aug. 17, 2011 – 12:00 am | Page 1A, Last Modified: Sunday, Aug. 21, 2011 – 2:37 pm
photo:  Madeline Samaan-Fay was found dead with her father late Saturday near Grizzly Flat.

After Mourad “Moni” Samaan failed to bring back their 2-year-old daughter, Madeline, the girl’s mother filed urgent legal pleadings, saying her ex-husband “is out of control and our daughter is in immediate danger.”

Just like Jessica Gonzales had done in Colorado, years earlier, and countless other mothers in various states.  One thing that seems a little different in this case:  the mother.   As I have discussed before (and personally know), law enforcement has no real duty to enforce, and cannot be really held responsible if they don’t.  Family law judges are allowed discretion, and typically exercise it.

Marcia Fay’s declaration demanding the little girl’s return came after Samaan missed the scheduled drop-off Aug. 7, a day after he learned Fay had been awarded full custody.

We need some procedure for NOT announcing custody awards while the child is with the parent challenging custody. . . .

The toddler, Madeline Layla Samaan-Fay, was found dead along with her father in a sport-utility vehicle on a wooded, desolate property co-owned by Samaan and his brother in El Dorado County.

Authorities say they believe Samaan murdered the little girl and killed himself. Autopsy results are pending and the official cause of death remains under investigation.
Read more: http://www.sacbee.com/2011/08/17/3842824/bitter-custody-fight-foreshadowed.html#ixzz1XBYlMEvQ

First of all (Mr. Hecht/Sacramento Bee), with all due respect, you need to take that phrase “bitter custody fight” and put it where the sun don’t shine.   Show a little creativity in headlines, this one is faded beyond belief.   Two years is not long for a custody fight, although for a short marriage it sure seems so.    It would seem a much more appropriate headline in this case (particularly with the brother of the father involved) to a family court-enabled honor killing, as we read on, and I stand by that even though no indication the family is Muslim (Grandfather, below, is from Egypt, Coptic Christian).  Caucasian religious Christian men have done the same thing, including one I can think of off-hand that involved a gun — and a machete, in Tennessee.  At its root, it’s an honor killing.  If I can’t have my kid, she sure won’t, or anyone else.

A two-year stack of Sacramento County family court documents reveals a bitter custody battle between Fay and her ex-husband, including a 2009 order for Samaan to complete 26 weeks of anger counseling before getting approval for overnight visits with his daughter. The papers allege outbursts by Samaan, including his storming into a hospital post-surgical room after Madeline was born Dec. 22, 2008, six months after the couple’s marriage broke up.

Wait a minute — they were married long enough to conceive a baby, about 3 months of one, before breaking up?   Am I allowed how did a deputy assistant attorney (that’s the mother) not have a better choice of spouse — was she charmed, did she not know?  How come he did not make a better choice of wife; if a traditional one was wanted — but both seem middle-class, well-educated, employed, etc.   How much court and police time has been involved to date, not to mention two deaths?
So far at least one court-connected group got its take — anger management.  I see they’ve been shortened from the 52-week that (last I checked) batterers were to get.
I’d like to see with whom.  The assumption that anger counseling will solve the problem sufficient for a grown man  who can’t respect hospital rules to handle an overnight with his daughter is interesting, to say the least, plus narcissistic.  It’s also part of the culture of therapy instead of accountability.
What was he angry about? Possibly about being used to create a baby then ousted from its birth?  Possibly about a female (his wife) saying No?    Here’s what a related link say the paternal grandfather, has to say;  note, he is a marriage counselor/psychologist mediator!

Grandfather of slain girl blames court system

(8/16/2011 by Stephen Magagnini & Peter Hecht, Sacramento Bee)


“Makram Samaan, a psychologist who counsels married couples, laments that he wasn’t able to help his late son Mourad.”

Makram Samaan – a psychologist who helps couples mediate disputes and divorces – held his hands to the heavens and cried: “I’ve helped thousands of people and saved a lot of families, but I failed my son – I did not see it. I did not see it! Why should it not be me?”

Can I have their phone numbers?  Because if they were court-connected, I’d debate that saving and helping …

Samaan, who wrote his master’s thesis on suicide, said he knew his son Moni was in distress, but had no inkling how much.

He blamed the courts for driving his son over the edge.

(cause of death not determined at publication, innocent til proven guilty) . . . .    There are many mothers the courts is driving “over the edge” but they are not killing their children on weekend visits after being denied custody which, believe me, does happen.

“We need to take marriage and divorce out of the courts,” said a sobbing Samaan at his Fair Oaks home overlooking Lake Natoma.

Well, see “Collaborative Law.”  But I’m suspecting perhaps he’s thinking they belong back in the churches, mosques, synagogues, temples?

The courts turn love into hate, Samaan said. “One has to win and one has to be defeated. That isn’t marriage, that isn’t family – it doesn’t matter what the dispute is.”

I believe the capacity to love, or to hate, is a spiritual and innate quality and part of the mark of a human being is which one he or she chooses, regardless of circumstances.  To think too far otherwise (such as “anger management courses” will produce an attitude change that will stick) is to believe and accept human beings as basically “animals” (no offense meant to animals….)

Samaan – a Coptic Christian from Egypt – described his son Moni, a 49-year-old engineer for Hewlett-Packard, as a devoted, loving father. “He potty-trained his daughter,” he said. “He taught her how to swim and kayak and bought her a small guitar and they’d play and sing together.”

Notice in the interview, the mother taught the child nothing, did nothing for her…..(did she nurse her?  Did she give birth?)

Perhaps if and when the distraught mother decides to speak, we might hear another opinion on that.  What mother wouldn’t help teach a child to use the potty?  And it does appear they had joint custody part of this time, so he’d either have to, get another person to help this at his home, or be changing a lot of diapers.

“He taught her how to speak three languages,” Samaan said, gazing tearfully at a photo of his joyful, curly-haired granddaughter riding her magenta bicycle. “Only in America can a little girl say, ‘I love you, Grandpa’ in English, Arabic and Spanish.”

What a loss!

On Saturday, Aug. 6, Moni Samaan was spending the day with his daughter when he learned that a Sacramento County judge had awarded her mother full custody. He and Madeleine had been visiting friends on a court-approved visit in Oregon.
Read more: http://www.sacbee.com/2011/08/16/3840481/grandfather-of-slain-girl-blames.html#ixzz1XBdPVRJ9

What’s really interesting to me about this case, apart from its tragedy, is the mother’s work:

Fay, who works as a state deputy attorney general, said in the documents that her ex-husband’s “behavior in violating custody orders is becoming more brazen.  “His behavior has escalated out of control,” she said. “He realizes that if he maintains our daughter against court orders, law enforcement will not intercede if he is not at home or if I do not know her location.

Most mothers figure this out very quickly in the court process when dealing with people who do not respect the court order.  I would think someone also in her job description might be even more aware of this.  Still, it could not help her child, and she could not demand enforcement.
That is a horrible thing, to realize that there is no law enforcement going to intercede in a custody matter.  Yet increasing violation of them is indeed a risk.

On Aug. 2, Fay requested an order from the child abduction unit of the Sacramento County District Attorney’s Office to stop Samaan from taking unauthorized trips with Madeline, including to Egypt where he had family and Mexico where he owned property.

How long were these trips lasting (see visitation schedule)?   Why not an arrest with the FIRST one?

Why did this not AUTOMATICALLY obtain a supervised visitation situation?  After all, this is what the state wants, and is being paid to endorse.  Because he hadn’t actually assaulted the mother and there was no DV order in place to prompt one? (note, I don’t know the case).

Perhaps they were busy figuring out if they, too, could get in on the Family Justice Center ONE-STOP Get your Grants theme park set-up, already in place in 5 other California Counties and pending to become law as we speak, unless someone else starts speaking about this.  After all Sacramento County is right near Alameda County, where it was a District Attorney that got it started.

She said her ex-husband had taken the girl to Oregon, “will not disclose his location” and “has blocked his telephone number.” A hearing was pending for Aug. 30 on contempt allegations of repeated violations of child custody orders.

She said Samaan had threatened suicide in 2008 and “his behavior is now more unstable than ever before.”

In 2010, Samaan was granted permission to have the child in his custody on Wednesday evenings through Thursday mornings and on Saturday mornings to Sunday mornings.

What an unbelievably chopped up schedule for a young child!  And for the mother.  Where did the exchanges take place?

(Looking for more articles):   I said, this was an honor killing.  Here’s comment from the father’s brother, also an attorney:

I think he did the right thing. I’m proud of my brother and now he’s in a better place. He’s at peace. His daughter’s at peace. She’ll have one name now, and we can move on. And hopefully the court will learn a little thing about justice.

— Nabil Samaan, a California attorney, commenting on the apparent murder-suicide of niece Madeline Layla Samaan-Fay and brother Mourad “Moni” Samaan. Moni had been in an epic custody battle with ex-wife Marcia Fay, a California deputy attorney general.

This is, currently, a California Attorney stating openly that a little girl’s murder (and the father’s) is going to teach the court a lesson — about giving custody of young children to mothers?     From the same site “http://www.abovethelaw.com

— Jerome Fishkin, an ethics attorney, noting that attorney Nabil Samaan’s supportive commentsrelating to the apparent murder-suicide of niece Madeline Layla Samaan-Fay and brother Mourad “Moni” Samaan may be detrimental to Samaan’s law practice.


Geez.  Even Fathers and Families was quick to distance themselves from this statement (and take opportunity to further the cause, and diss CJE in the process:

F & F Condemns Despicable Comments Defending Father Who Killed Child in Family Court Dispute

Thursday, August 18th, 2011 by Glenn Sacks, MA, Executive Director

At the risk of free FAF publicity (the last thing it needs), here’s the article, and apparently a video of Nabil Samaan on the site as well.   Again, they seem to think CJE a worthy opponent; the fact is, both groups profit when the go toe to toe in public (as the long series of SFWeekly articles, early 2011, on California Courts granting custody to pedophiles.  As with this case, the article shone practically zero light (see CJE motto on its site, they “shine the light”) on how or why this happens.  The Glenn Sacks told his followers to show up and protest any anti-PAS talk, the article series was apparently fed (in good part) to the author, and neither of them reallya ddressed the money trail in the court, and dropped several balls in handling the topics.  The uncritical character of the cult-followers of both groups became clear in the 1700+ comments on one article and over 800 on the other. )

Fathers and Families condemns both Moni Samaan’s horrendous murder of his child and also Nabil Samaan’s despicable defense of his brother’s actions.

Nabil Samaan says his brother was mistreated in family court and child custody matters. However:

1) Nothing ever could come close to justifying what Moni Samaan did to his daughter.

2) It is questionable whether Moni Samaan was, in fact, mistreated in family court.

It is absolutely true that many California fathers are manhandled in family court, often cut off from their children, punished without evidence on spurious abuse claims, and bankrupted by confiscatory financial orders and demands. However, Moni Samaan had a decent child custody arrangement, apparently over 30% physical time.

In the end he was stripped of all parenting time with his child for a perfectly good reason–he repeatedly disappeared with the girl when it was time to bring her back, violating the court order and causing the girl’s mother much stress and worry. Tragically, the mother had every reason to worry.

The Center for Judicial Excellence is now involved in the case–see the Capitol Weekly piecehere. The CJE works to drive recognition of Parental Alienation out of the family court system and encourage courts to uncritically accept mothers’ abuse allegations. We laid out the problems with the CJE and its allies position in our Capitol Weekly column Preventing courts from considering parental alienation will harm kids (2/25/10). The CJE is one of our main political opponents, and we were instrumental in blocking two of their bills last year–to learn more, click here.

The CJE also stereotypes fathers as abusers and killers, ignoring the well-documented fact that the vast majority of parental murders of children and child abuse are committed by mothers, not fathers. However, in this case it must be said that the CJE is correct in condemning and making an issue of Nabil Samaan’s despicable comments.

The case is also being discussed in the American Bar Association Journal here.

[Late Note: Nabil Samaan has now issued a statement retracting his previous comments.]


 I’d like to say, may Mr. Samaan bereft of customers, but I have a feeling more will flock to him because of the statement.

After blogging a bit about CJE I will have more to say on an example of just how many may feel the same way as Mr. Samaan– the US has asked for this because the family law courts are too feminist-favorable


(CJE & I go back a ways (although my function is closer to that of a critical gnat than actual obstacle to business as usall with this nonprofit), and have seldom agreed on many matters, particularly their singular DIS-interest, til belatedly, in the blood-soaked money trail of grants to the courts which affect custody outcomes….   Or matters such as using networks of distressed noncustodial (or barely custodial) mothers to send out press releases and sell products for related groups (i.e., NCADV, or the Mo Hannah/Barry Goldstein basic book tour), while some of those mothers were poverty-stricken from the role of the child support services (also under-reported if at all by CJE) in the custody battles they were in.  Rather than getting up to speed on this (the nonprofit was formed 10 years after welfare reform of 1996), CJE has chosen a different route, which is to sell its film Breaking the Silence, personally endorse certain legislation (the “Mark Leno” connection) and go for more grants.

Moreover, CJE is structurally it seems (in origin) not much different than Kathleen Russell COnsulting.  Each one claims the other as a client; and the main consulting expense to CJE is KRC.  Go figure…..  If you detect a personal note, it is personal.  The actions and direction of this group has affected close friends of mine, at least one of whose devout followers was homeless through garnished wages, while CJE did not cover the child support /OCSE angle, at all.



However, earlier (looking up parent coordination matters) I ran across a SF Bay ARea attorney, which reminds me of this one’s comment.  The attorney at this SF firm. apparently a socially progressive, but fathers rights, equal parenting with the best of them.

Of MOST interest to me was an article on his blog characterizing the Constitution as “Antiquated” and in need of being re-written.  This is a practicing attorney and member of the California State Bar, I’m sure.  Does that membership require any oath?  (anyhow, several paragraphs below, I will quote):


(The Center for Judicial Excellence has announced it will file a complaint with the State Bar of California demanding Nabil Samaan’s disbarment.)

Ah yes, Center for Judicial Excellence, our SHINING LIGHT in the area, particularly when its name can be attached to something high-profile:

Since it’s founding in 2006, CJE has filled a critical void, shining a light on a vital branch of government that wields tremendous power over the lives of average people. CJE has empowered citizen leadership, inspired government action, and become a major catalyst in building a national movement for family court reform.

Beginning in 2008, CJE made a special commitment to protecting the rights of children and vulnerable populations in the courts. This year, CJE will continue our successful campaign to promote the safety of children in California’s family courts… and in courts across the nation.

. . .
And to the whitehouse from a mere nonprofit started in 2006, unbelievable:

 – –

Our ED {Executive Director} Kathleen Russell was a distinguished guest at the first-ever White House event on Domestic Violence where the collective work of assembled advocates was repeatedly lauded by the President and other Administration officials. Vice President Biden spoke specifically about family law and the need for increased resources and better access to justice for DV victims. Administration officials Valerie Jarrett and Lynn Rosenthal were joined by baseball great Joe Torre, who spoke about his experience as child growing up in a violent household. Watch this video from the event, or click here to read a transcript.


Excerpt from Transcript:

I want to thank Judge Susan Carbon, the Director of the Office on Violence Against Women at the Department of Justice.  (Applause.)  We’re proud of what we’re doing here.

I want to thank my Secretary for Health and Human Services, Secretary Sebelius, who is helping to coordinate our efforts.

And finally, I want to thank everybody who is here today for the work that you’re doing to stop domestic violence and to help its survivors.  You’ve got champions like Senator Frank Lautenberg and Congresswoman Donna Edwards who have done extraordinary work in Congress.  You’ve got leaders like Mayor Mitch Landrieu . . .. (etc., etc.)

(Fatherhood Policymaker — link below leads to it — includes in LA, Senator Mary Landrieu.  Related?)


While I’m here, Mayor Mitch Landrieu, from Wikipedia (may not be most current, but for what it’s worth):

Mitchell Joseph “Mitch” Landrieu[1] (pronounced /ˈlændruː/lan-drew;[2] born August 16, 1960) is the Mayor of New Orleans, former Lieutenant Governor of Louisiana, and a member of theLandrieu family. Landrieu is a member of the Democratic Party and a Roman Catholic. He is the son of former New Orleans mayor and Secretary of the United States Department of Housing and Urban DevelopmentMoon Landrieu and the brother of the senior U.S. Senator from Louisiana, Mary Landrieu. In 2007 he won a second term as lieutenant governor in the October 20, 2007 jungle primaryby defeating two RepublicansState RepresentativeGary J. Beardand Sammy Kershaw. He was elected Mayor of New Orleans on February 6, 2010, garnering 66 per cent of the city-wide vote and claiming victory in 365 of the city’s 366 voting precincts.

Landrieu was born the fifth of nine children to Moon and Verna Landrieu. He grew up in the Broadmoor neighborhood of New Orleans. After graduating from Jesuit High School in 1978, he enrolled at The Catholic University of America in Washington, D.C.where he majored in political science and theatre. In 1985 he earned a Juris Doctor (J.D.) degree from Loyola University Law School in New Orleans.

Landrieu is married to Cheryl P. Landrieu, also an attorney, and resides in New Orleans. They have five children: Grace, Emily, Matthew, Benjamin, and William.

Landrieu has been a practicing attorney for fifteen years and is president of International Mediation & Arbitration, Ltd. He is a member of the Supreme Court Task Force on Alternative Dispute Resolution which was responsible for developing the pilot mediation program in Orleans Parish. Landrieu is trained in mediation and negotiation by the Harvard Law School Negotiation Project, the American Arbitration Association, and the Attorney Mediator’s Institute. Landrieu has also taught alternative dispute resolution as an adjunct professor at Loyola University Law School.

WOW. He has “everything” in his profile to indicate he’d understand the need for some father-absence and some strict criminal accountability when it comes to domestic violence right?  Not to mention the religious background straight through (obviously great academics) — his sister is on the Fatherhood Legislative Task Force.  But I guess it wouldn’t be polite for CJE or anyone else to ask an impertinent question about this hypocrisy — “we care about DV but we really believe in fatherhood as program solution to social ills — while being honored by the OVW.”


Far be it from Ms. Russell, CJE, or anyone else getting OVW kudos to mention — and certainly not critically — how President Obama, as with many politicians — speaks with forked tongue when addressing domestic violence advocates.  This is acceptable, because they know the grants will still come, even if social services are cut for aging or other individuals who need them, to support some theory about stopping violence.
For example, the REAL way to stop violence is to stop father absence, right?   According to NFI, it’s right:

Why should policymakers care about responsible fatherhood?

  • The federal government spends $100 billion every year to support father-absent homes. In June 2008, National Fatherhood Initiative released The One Hundred Billion Dollar Man, a ground-breaking study that showed that the federal government spends $100 billion each year supporting father-absent homes. And that’s a conservative estimate – the study did not measure impact for related costs such as the criminal justice system, which is overwhelmed by men who grew up in father-absent homes.
  • The most challenging social problems of our time are connected to father absence. If you want to address poverty, child abuse, crime/recidivism, drug abuse, teen pregnancy, or education, then restoring fatherhood is an integral part of the solution. Father absence is not a single issue, and its social and economic consequences are felt across society.
  • Father absence has a direct impact on the well-being of millions of children. 24 million children, 1 out of 3, grow up in homes in which their biological fathers do not live. In the African-American community, the rate is 2 out of 3. These children are significantly more likely to live in poverty, drop out of school, engage in risky behaviors…all issues the government grapples with every day.

20410 Observation Drive
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© 2010 National Fatherhood Initiative. All Rights Reserved
National Fatherhood Initiative is a registered 501(c)(3) …

NOTE — NFI got its start with an HHS grant, Wade Horn — right? — helped steer it?

SF “PROMETHEUS” law firm Point of View (one of the attorneys):


Mr. Aly Ebrahimzadeh, Esq.

Mr. Aly Ebrahimzadeh, Esq.Mr. Aly Ebrahimzadeh, Esq., a Distinguished Attorney with Prometheus: A Social Justice Law Firm, speaks fluent Spanish, French, Italian, Farsi, as well as basic German. Mr. Ebrahimzadeh is licensed to practice law in the various state and federal courts of California, including the Federal District Court for the Northern District of California, the US Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit, the California Supreme Court, all the California Appellate Courts, and all the California Superior Courts, including in Redwood City, Palo Alto, San Francisco, San Rafael, Martinez, Oakland, Hayward, San Jose, Monterey, and Santa Cruz. A former successful Governor’s Teaching Fellow public school teacher, college teacher and organic farm-worker, Mr. Aly Ebrahimzadeh, Esq. is a dynamic and cutting-edge public interest attorney possessing very successful years of experience working with Plaintiff-side and Non-Profit law firms in the San Francisco Bay Area, including Communities for a Better Environment, Earthjustice, and Education Not Incarceration. In both state and federal courts, Mr. Ebrahimzadeh has worked successfully with colleagues on multi-million dollar cases representing both Plaintiffs and Defendants, high stakes criminal actions, class action lawsuits, complex multiparty actions, very high-conflict divorces, and social impact litigation.

Highly educated, highly competent.  And he has quite a bit to say about custody, father’s rights, Japan (for not signing the Hague treaty), the US, shared parenting, child abductions and mediation as practiced in the courts.  A lot of what he says I can definitely agree with — such as that the mediation as practiced around the divorce courts consists of kangaroo courts.  And he wants more evidence.
Here’s the “the Family Law Court is biased against (men)” theme:

Child Abductions, California Child Custody Law, and International Human Rights

February 28, 2011 By Mr. Aly Ebrahimzadeh, Esq.

Child abductions are clearly a very serious problem, locally and globally. Anybody driving up and down any of California’s major highways has likely seen the digital signs hanging over the road announcing specific child abductions in progress and providing identifying information about the car the alleged kidnapper is likely driving. Yet the number of such announcements is miniscule compared to how many child abductions the California Family Law Court system sees every day in child custody cases, where custodial or non-custodial parents run away with the children out of vengeance or fear of the other parent. Where the kidnapping parent provides allegations, be they evidenced or not, of domestic violence by the other parent, the child custody court will often allow the abducting parent to preserve the majority or the entirety of custody over the children. Allegations go a long way in Family Court, and any seasoned California Divorce Attorney knows that one parent will often make unevidenced allegations of abuse to justify taking the children away from the other parent, like so much property

I guess truly seasoned California Divorce Attorneys have come to understand that abuse just doesn’t happen, really, although there are still people getting killed after years of it.
(I’ve actually had posts on this, but for reference:  when there is a decision to prosecute kidnapping, this is one definition from the California Penal Code.  Actually, this one is for child-stealing, as opposed to abduction/kidnapping which seems to have a slightly different flavor:
(a) Every person who takes, entices away, keeps, withholds, or conceals a child and maliciously deprives a lawful custodian of a right to custody, or a person of a right to visitation, shall be punished by imprisonment in a county jail not exceeding one year, a fine not exceeding one thousand dollars ($1,000), or both that fine and imprisonment, or by imprisonment in the state prison for 16 months, or two or three years, a fine not exceeding ten thousand dollars ($10,000), or both that fine and imprisonment.
   (b) Nothing contained in this section limits the court's contempt
   (c) A custody order obtained after the taking, enticing away,
keeping, withholding, or concealing of a child does not constitute a
defense to a crime charged under this section.
Interference with custody is indeed serious, and is a crime.  The question is, what is this crime doing being handled in family courts?
The other reality which sinks in — California prisons are already overcrowded.  The chances of this law being consistently enforced as a
deterrent to parental abduction is just about nil.
278.6 then reads:
(a) At the sentencing hearing following a conviction for a
violation of Section 278 or 278.5, or both, the court shall consider
any relevant factors and circumstances in aggravation, including, but
not limited to, all of the following: . . . .

   (1) The child was exposed to a substantial risk of physical injury
or illness.
   (2) The defendant inflicted or threatened to inflict physical harm
on a parent or lawful custodian of the child or on the child at the time of or during the abduction.
   (3) The defendant harmed or abandoned the child during the
   (4) The child was taken, enticed away, kept, withheld, or
concealed outside the United States.
   (5) The child has not been returned to the lawful custodian.
   (6) The defendant previously abducted or threatened to abduct the
   (7) The defendant substantially altered the appearance or the name
of the child.
   (8) The defendant denied the child appropriate education during
the abduction.
   (9) The length of the abduction.
   (10) The age of the child.
(c) In addition to any other penalties provided for a violation of Section 278 or 278.5, a court 
shall order the defendant to pay restitution to the district attorney for any costs incurred in
locating and returning the child as provided in Section 3134 of the
Family Code, and to the victim for those expenses and costs reasonably incurred by, or on behalf of, 
the victim in locating and recovering the child. An award made pursuant to this section 
shall constitute a final judgment and shall be enforceable as such.
The offenses enumerated in Sections 278 and 278.5 are
continuous in nature, and continue for as long as the minor child is
concealed or detained.
(I never noticed the part in green before particularly).  It says, at the SENTENCING hearing.  This is not family court;  Sentences come from criminal sector!  But they will not be handled in that sector unless and until police get involved, and a D.A. decides to prosecute.  As we see in Marcia Fay’s plea, they have the right not to, and exercise that right.  For more on that see http://www.Justicewomen.org, talking about the importance of the D.A. to women’s safety.  This law tells me that the intention of the legislature in passing it was to acknowledge child-napping as CRIMINAL — not just a family matter.
I was however, much misled (as were others) in who was going to take this seriously, and underestimated the progress of AFCC and family law in undermining the purpose and intent of criminal law and its language.  In fact at that time, I didn’t know about AFCC at all — because people were not talking about it, by and large.
278.5 then talks about the domestic violence aspect, and says that in certain situations (i.e., domestic violence has been perpetrated on the abducting parent, or the child was in imminent danger) — then this criminal law does NOT apply to them (as to the punishments), but in either case the person shall take certain actions (showing good faith, and involving the district attorney):
(a) Section 278.5 does not apply to a person with a right to custody of a child who, with a good faith and reasonable belief that the child, if left with the other person, will suffer immediate bodily injury or emotional harm, takes, entices away, keeps, withholds, or conceals that child.
Marcia Fay would've had such good faith and reasonable belief, but probably was smart enough 
to know this wouldn't be taken into consideration in her case, and/or she was not willing or able -- or didn't wish
to relocate, which is a huge, traumatic, and risky step for any parent to take.

   (b) Section 278.5 does not apply to a person with a right to custody of a child who has been a victim of domestic violence who, with a good faith and reasonable belief that the child, if left with the other person, will suffer immediate bodily injury or emotional harm, takes, entices away, keeps, withholds, or conceals that child. "Emotional harm" includes having a parent who has committed domestic violence against the parent who is taking, enticing away, keeping, withholding, or concealing the child.
   (c) The person who takes, entices away, keeps, withholds, or
conceals a child shall do all of the following:
   (1) Within a reasonable time from the taking, enticing away,
keeping, withholding, or concealing, make a report to the office of
the district attorney of the county where the child resided before
the action. The report shall include the name of the person, the
current address and telephone number of the child and the person, and
the reasons the child was taken, enticed away, kept, withheld, or
   (2) Within a reasonable time from the taking, enticing away,
keeping, withholding, or concealing, commence a custody proceeding in
a court of competent jurisdiction consistent with the federal
Parental Kidnapping Prevention Act
This law specifically enables parents that really have a good faith and reasonable belief that failure to remove the child will result in serious
injury (this could include death) or harm to do what parents are charged with doing to kids they bring into this world — keep the children ALIVE, not kill them,
as the father in the Sacramento news article did.
The law distinguishes abducting parents on the point of whether one has committed violence against the other.  This is how it should be.
This attorney here, in saying, as above:
Where the kidnapping parent provides allegations, be they evidenced or not, of domestic violence by the other parent, the child custody court will often allow the abducting parent to preserve the majority or the entirety of custody over the children
He knows as well as I do exactly what court form “provides allegations, be they evidenced or not” these are filed under, and chose not to dignify it with the name of that form, i.e., for “provides allegations” (minimizing language, making it sound informal, conversational almost),  – a partial list from SF Superior Court.  Note these are also available in Korean, Vietnamese and Spanish.   Any form filed out has to be served upon the other party and there is a hearing usually before a temporary order is made permanent, perhaps unless there is a criminal order also resulting in arrest for more major assault & battery/injury, etc. situations.
It’s probable that this attorney or someone at his firm has at least heard of the husband and wife, both Juilliard graduates, then living in NJ, where they’d moved to Korea, the father came back (while child abuse allegations were under way in S. Korea, as I recall) and the Dad simply went to a family law court in NJ, who awarded him full custody because she kidnapped.  On the way back to NJ (obediently) for the hearing, the wife was arrested and thrown in jail.  Parents indeed do jail time for custody interference and kidnapping in the context of family law.
If he is up on his family law (among all the other practices) he is also probably aware that later on, there are custody-switches back to the custodial. This is simply not the angle of approach in discussing the matter, though.
 Nor do all filings of domestic violence (not simply spoken allegations but going through the process) result in no contact with the other parent, nor “kidnapping.”  This is a partial list of forms under “prevention of Domestic Violence.”
It seems to me that this attorney has a problem with the existence of these options for mothers (although the word “parent” is used at places in the dialogue).  As such, he has a problem with existing law, not just practice.
Form  Date Revised Description
DV-100* Jul 1, 2009 Request for Order
DV-101 Jul 1, 2010 Description of Abuse (Domestic Violence Prevention)
DV-105* Jan 1, 2004 Child Custody, Visitation, and Support Request (Domestic Violence Prevention)
DV-108* Jul 1, 2003 Request for Order: No Travel with Children (Domestic Violence Prevention)
DV-109* Jan 1, 2010 Notice of Court Hearing (Domestic Violence)
DV-110* Jan 1, 2010 Temporary Restraining Order (CLETS-TRO) (Domestic Violence)
DV-112 Jan 1, 2010 Waiver of Hearing on Denied Request for Temporary Restraining Order
DV-120 Jul 1, 2009 Answer to Temporary Restraining Order
DV-125* Jan 1, 2010 Reissue Notice of Court Hearing and Temporary Restraining Order (Domestic Violence Prevention)
DV-126-INFO Jan 1, 2010 How to Reissue a Temporary Restraining Order (Domestic Violence Prevention)
DV-130* Jan 1, 2010 Restraining Order After Hearing (CLETS-OAH) (Order of Protection)
DV-140* Jul 1, 2003 Child Custody and Visitation Order (Domestic Violence Prevention)
DV-145* Jul 1, 2003 Order: No Travel with Children (Domestic Violence Prevention)
DV-150* Jul 1, 2003 Supervised Visitation Order (Domestic Violence Prevention)
That’s a lot of forms.  Too bad that it’s considered, dismissed, as “provides allegations,”  when reality says, there is domestic violence, people are killed by their partners, and sometimes others, bystanders — that speaks loudly to me.
Here is a 2009 discussion / memo to the California Judicial COuncil from the Family and Juvenile Law Advisory Court members, the Hons. Jerilyn L. Borack and Susan D. Hugenor (co-chairs) and Tamara Abrams, Senior Attorney — and what they are discussing is the need to require a judge to state his/her reasons for DENYING a restraining order.  In other words, there have been problems (most likely deaths) involved with denial of the restraining orders (text in maroon font):


ADMINISTRATIVE OFFICE OF THE COURTS [“AOC”]  455 Golden Gate Avenue San Francisco, California 94102-3688

Members of the Judicial Council

FROM:  Family and Juvenile Law Advisory Committee,  Hon. Jerilyn L. Borack and Hon. Susan D. Huguenor, Cochairs’ Tamara Abrams, Senior Attorney, 415-865-7712, tamara.abrams@jud.ca.gov

October 23, 2009

SUBJECT:   Family Law: Denial of Request for Temporary Restraining Order (revise Judicial Council forms DV-110, DV-125, DV-126-INFO, DV-130, DV- 200, DV-210-INFO, DV-250, DV-510-INFO, and DV-540-INFO; adopt form DV-109; and approve form DV-112) (Action Required)

Issue Statement

Effective January 1, 2009, Assembly Bill 2553 (Solorio; Stats. 2008, ch. 263) added section 6320.5 to the Family Code to require a court to state its reasons when denying a petition for an ex parte restraining order. In addition, under section 6320.5, if a court denies a jurisdictionally adequate petition for an ex parte order, the petitioner has a right to a noticed hearing within a specified number of days. The petitioner, however, has the option of waiving his or her right to the noticed hearing while retaining his or her right to file a new petition, without prejudice, at a later time. Family Code section 6320.5 requires the Judicial Council to develop a form to implement the statute by January 1, 2010.


The Family and Juvenile Law Advisory Committee recommends that the Judicial Council, effective January 1, 2010:

1. Revise Judicial Council forms DV-110, DV-125, DV-126-INFO, DV-130, DV-200, DV-210-INFO, DV-250, DV-510-INFO, and DV-540-INFO;

2. Adopt form DV-109; and

3. Approve form DV-112.

This tells us already that there has been an issue of denying requests for restraining orders, and these entitites hope they will not be denied without explanation.

Attorney Ebrahimzadeh, cont’d:

The California Family Law System is deeply dysfunctional, and it is need of some serious positive changes.
I do believe it’s fulfilling its general assigned functions:  Absorb criminal activity and reframe it as family disputes ,then farm out business to those who are dispute-settlers, including “Alternative Dispute Resolutions” goups.  However, I do agree it is in need of some serious positive changes — like being boycotted.  Almost any process however strident, would be  an improvement upon this system and its years-long torture of families (both sides), sometimes involving what basically amounts to extortion — and affects the growing kids exposed to their parents being extorted, tortured and having their due process eliminated in the courtrooms. ( In case I didn’t say that straight enough….)
Though the problem of child abductions is connected to various international issues which shall be discussed later in this article, on the local level alone, it is often inextricably linked to the discussion of California Child Custody and Divorce laws regarding domestic violence. Thus, the problem of child abductions cannot be resolved in California unless the Family Law Court system increases its demands for evidence when faced with one parent’s allegations of abuse and negligence,
It defies the nature of abuse, which is secretive, to demand that proof, but the fact is there are times where there has been proof (including of child abuse — which he’s not highlighting here so much as DV) and the courts ignore it anyhow.
Is it possible, at any point, to admit (as an attorney) that  the U.S. Congress passed an Act called the Violence Against Women Act, and acknowledged that violence against women is a problem in society and does indeed occur?  Logically speaking some of these women are also parents and hence custody courts.
and nurtures a professional environment that is truly committed in deed, and not just in word, to the welfare of children and the right of a child to have equal time with both parents, rather than jaded by slanted political and gender debates and financial interests.
Which gender is not mentioned, but I’m going to hazard a guess he means feminism.  However, I am still going to assert, that fathers uniformly and culturally are not always the fit caretakers, nor have they in many marriages historically BEEN the caretaker.  How much money should be poured into fixing them til they are (this is allegedly what the fatherhood movement is about, in part)?  Should all citizens pay for that war on father absence, and re-establishing classes on how to be a father, in addition to the public education system (which apparently doesn’t promote good fathering behaviors) which they are already paying for?
More language, and some of it common sense, some, I am going to agree with.  However, until we see that fathers STOP KILLING THEIR KIDS as an imminent, and pervasive threat to anyone who does NOT award them equal (or full) custody, I am going to have to oppose equal parenting time as the standard on the basis that it’s not fair to experiment in raising nurturing fathers with little children, and particularly unfair given the track record.  It is STILL more men killing than women (go to the DOJ stats page if you’re in question on this), and as such, one contraindicator to little kids getting killed around custody disputes is understanding that Moms can handle custody, and stop setting the culture to FIGHT us of this.  We have also been betrayed in court, on many fronts, and frequently.

As a California Family Law Attorney practicing in San Jose, Redwood City, San Francisco, Oakland, Santa Cruz, and the surrounding areas, and having a Divorce Law practice that focuses on Child Custody, [[i.e. representing one parent or another in a child custody proceeding]] Equal Parenting Rights, [[in practice this means fathers’ rights]] and Collaborative Divorce, I join many of my progressive colleagues in urging California legislators to adopt some serious changes to our Family Law Courts, such as:

1. Allow jury trials in Child Custody cases to help avoid the judicial cynicism and fatigue that may creep into judge-controlled Family Law cases in California;

Jury trials over WHAT?  Domestic violence and child abuse?  Those belong in criminal courts as they are crimes.  Family Court is defined (am I right? ) a court of equity; it’s not even a civil court involving torts.  It took me years to figure out what most attorneys already know.  So why is this progressive attorney seeking to try to force the square peg into the round hole, and have “FAMILY” courts — which deal in psychology more than (as an alternative to) fact, currently — and dress them up with a jury trial?

2. Take seriously citizen complaints about child therapists and social workers, and set up a third-party independent review process meant to weed out from the Court’s list of recommended professionals the psychological evaluators, Special Masters, and other therapeutic practitioners who are repeatedly alleged by various clients to act in a biased or unprofessional manner;

San Francisco, by now, is closing courtrooms.  Who would be on this independent review?  Like the Elkins Family Law Task Force, very few actual parents? However, to weed out the bias & unprofessional behavior, I assert that one great way would be an accounting audit.  period.  Because that’s usually the critical area of unprofessional behavior motivating the warping of professional ethics which shows up in other areas.  (i.e., eliminate kickbacks FIRST).

3. Make a concerted effort to educate lawyers, judges, and divorce professionals about the science that supports the essential albeit practically marginalized role of fathers in children’s lives, so that we can start to see divorced fathers being given back their natural human right to spend equal time with their children; and

I get it:  the Science of fatherhood (research paid for by your local fathers’ rights groups, and a foundation or two) justifying equal parenting time for fathers, which is their “natural human right.”

How is this to be separated from who is earning the income in the family?  Does he really expect the child support system to just evaporate because equal parenting time is scientifically proven to be better (if it is)?   This would essentially eliminate child support, almost (not that I’m opposed), however, then we have another problem called, women typically earn less for doing the same jobs men do.  And we have the matter of relocation — and the impossibility of couples ever, really, separating (and/or marrying someone geographically distant).

4. Understand that the current model of extended court-based mediation and post-mediation hearings often subjects parents and their children to kangaroo court injustices where the laws of evidence are held in abeyance and therapists’ and mediators’ knee-jerk evaluations hold ultimate sway for months if not years, at which point then the parties may proceed to the litigation process of discovery and trial, which can take months and years itself.

This is true, although if I were a father-friendly litigator, I”d thank my lucky stars for the therapists and mediators, who have financial incentives to favor Dads, and do so.   This, however, is an accurate description:  knee-jerk evaluations that hold sway for years, after which trial, and more years.


Our California Family Law Courts need to set up more stringent deadlines for this presently unending mediation process, bolster the goal of giving every child his equal time with both parents, and uphold and fortify evidentiary requirements upon both parents who are often found slinging whatever mud they can grab during this current mediation-based process.

Which brings up another point in his phrasing:  false allegations indeed go two ways more easily in family court; and each mud-slinging session means more money FOR the courts, given that mediators are paid by the county; child support professionals (which will be affected by alterations in custody) are also paid for by the county, as are GALs and others — in fact almost everyone but the judge, and evaluators which parents are forced to pay, plus providers of classes they are forced to take, when that occurs.  Did I mention “supervised visitation providers” yet?  So he has his point.
That said, if it’s mediation-based process he’s protesting, then why is he promoting mediation outside the courts?

Read Mr. Ebrahimzadeh on California Prison system (nov. 2010)

I notice that he is covering some of the same material I have been — for example, I also blogged this on “Cutting down on Immigration, Locking up Profits” post (reporting on an investigation under similar name) and on Corrections Corporation of America.  (search on my blog).  How then, and why, is it so emotionally and intellectually hard to conceive of the same types of influence at the family court level?  Good grief — when the word “family” comes in there, suddenly politics evaporates and no money changes hands to prevent reform?

Why not clean up the financial misbehaviors FIRST and then see what’s left — if anything indeed would be left of the family court structures once those are removed!

(kind of like taking the junk out of junk food — would defeat the purpose?).

ANyhow, he writes coherently:

California prison reform movements seeking to overcome serious problems, such as prison overcrowding, prison violence, and insufficient health and education services for prisoners, are particularly challenged by the State’s litigation efforts against prison reform class action lawsuits, the State’s unwillingness to abide by court orders mandating positive changes in the prison system, and questionable political decisions by California’s Governor and underlings that may be influenced by campaign contributions and economic influence by major corporations that build and maintain private prisons for burdened states like California.

The California prison system is the largest in the nation, and it suffers from serious problems of overpopulation, violence, and insufficient health and education services for its juvenile and adult inmates, especially for those with special needs. It is unconstitutional for a State prison system to operate at such dilapidated levels, because “cruel and unusual punishment” is illegal under the State and FederalConstitution.

At best, it is ironic that the California prison system is itself illegal. At worst, the terrible state of affairs in the prison system is the result of very questionable political choices who only seemingly benefit private companies who build and manage new mega-prisons meant to deal with overpopulation, violence, and prison services for states buckling under such problems. The three largest private prison companies in the USA are Wackenhut (newly renamed as G4S Secure Solutions USA), Corrections Corporation of America, and Bechtel.

Their lobby efforts and influence in national and state politics is infamous. In April of 2006, the National Institute of Money in State Politics published a major research paper entitled “Policy Lock Down: Prison Interests Court Political Players,” which noted that between the years of 2001 and 2004, major private prison corporations donated over $150,000 to California politicians’ campaign efforts. In turn, these companies were awarded multi-million dollar governmental contracts by the State of California. This raises the question: Is California’s crumbling prison system merely a pawn in quid-pro-quo (“this for that”) politics, i.e., “you scratch my back, and I’ll scratch yours”? More broadly, the National Institute of Money in State Politics summarized their April 2006 report as follows:

Companies involved in building, financing and operating private prisons gave $3.3 million over two election cycles, channeling nearly two-thirds of the money to candidates and party committees in states with some of the toughest sentencing laws. This report looks at overall giving, as well as contributions by the companies and their lobbyists in 10 states: Arizona, California, Colorado, Florida, Indiana, Mississippi, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Tennessee and Texas.”

The problem in California is shockingly clear to any person who has personally spent any time in the walls of a state prison here, or had a family member who has. There are presently about 160,000 adults in the California prison system, which is about twice as many as are supposed to be kept in such facilities. Such prison overcrowding has caused extremely high levels of violence, emotional difficulties, and psychological disorders among the strained prisoners. Also, there are insufficient resources for providing medical attention and education to the ever expanding number of prisoners, again in direct violation of Federal and State Constitutional laws.

(emphases mine).

But then here we go, when it comes to family law:

Sexism in Divorce Court: A Comparative Understanding of the Case of Sakineh Ashtiani in Iran and Child Custody Statistics in California and the USA

By sexism — against fathers is meant, naturally.  First, a case in Iran is given, and then the USA shown to have gone entirely off the deep end, I guess, in allowing women TOO many rights in court.

November 9, 2010 By Mr. Aly Ebrahimzadeh, Esq.

Discrimination and sexism is rampant in divorce courts and child custody matters in the San Francisco Bay Area, including in San Jose, Oakland, Hayward, and Santa Cruz, California. A comparison with the discrimination and sexism found in Iran’s divorce and family law courts allows us to understand the flip side of the anti-father Californian child custody court system.

In Iran’s sexist and corrupt legal system, when a person is convicted of adultery, the punishment is stoning until death.  To convict a woman of adultery in Iran, a man must make the allegation and bear witness against her.  To convict a man of adultery in Iran, two women must testify against him, because in Iran’s sexist legal system, a woman’s testimony is considered half as trustworthy as a man’s. A man’s word is all that is required, therefore, to charge and convict a woman of adultery – and essentially, to kill her by the legal punishment of stoning.

This is the exact fate of Sakineh Ashtiani, who was charged with adultery and sentenced to death by stoning. She awaits execution in a torturous Iranian prison today. To ensure that she receives no support in her battle for her life, the oppressive Iranian government has deported her criminal defense attorney, and has imprisioned the German journalist and civil rights activists who were covering her case. Several civil rights and humanitarian non-profit organizations, including Avaaz.org, are heading grassroots efforts to stop the stoning of Sakineh. You can sign the petition at their website, and you can call the Iranian embassy in Washington D.C. to voice your opinions on this human rights matter. To call the embassy of Iran in Washington D.C., dial 212-687-2020 and hit “0″. Tell the operator why you’re calling, and he’ll transfer you to a voicemail where you can leave a message. It is likely more safe to not leave your name on the voicemail, but it’d be useful to identify the state from which you are calling.

Beyond the life and policy at stake here, this divorce law matter holds a certain relevance to our American legal system. In Iran, when a couple divorces, the father is automatically awarded sole legal custody of the children. 


What about physical custody?  Does the father then end up raising and potty training youngsters?  I don’t think so ….

In a culture where women are stoned for adultery on the testimony of one man, it would make sense not to have a woman that could be the next moment stoned to death on hearsay raising children!  But notice the contrast and protest here:

(this is the rest, the entirety of that post)….

 In the USA, in contested custody cases, according to statistics published by the federal government and the State of California, mothers are awarded primary custody of the children 80% of the time, fathers get primary custody 5% of the time, and parents split custody 15% of the time in a time-share structure that strongly weighs in favor of mothers. A true 50-50 split in child custody occurs less than 2% of the time in US divorce courts. California, for all its sensitivity to gender issues and progressive politics, matches these same child custody statistics.

FACT:  not all fathers sue for custody, or want to.  Some have already moved on to another women.

FACT:  Some fathers do not get custody — initially — because separation is occasioned by their being in prison for assaulting the mothers, or other causes.

In saying “mothers are awarded” this implies no difference in who is seeking custody; it’s not logically or evidentially honest.  Rather, say, “in CONTESTED” custody cases xx% get custody.

Moreover, to fail to mention a $4 billion child support industry and multi-million (perhaps billion, I”ve lost track) fatherhood industry, entrenched throughout the federal government by executive order from a democratic president dating back to 1995 is simply dishonest.  This attorney needs to acknowledge this.

The problem of sexism in our understanding of parenthood is beyond a simple legal problem. In our culture, to “mother” a child has the connotation of “coddling” or “nurturing” a child; whereas to “father” a child means to “procreate”, “spawn” or “sire” a child. The mainstream cultural vision of the typical breadwinner is male in our culture, and the mainstream cultural vision of a homemaker is female in our culture. We too suffer from a sexist family law system here in the United States – in fact, here in California as well.

Part of our work at Prometheus: is to challenge and subvert these sexist stereotypes, to ensure that gender equity and justice is very much a part of the legal system in divorce court. But what we cannot control at all is people’s perceptions. We maintain this law blog to urge you to do that kind of work – the very real work of analyzing your own way of thinking and acting, especially in times of great conflict.

Prometheus: offers aggressive divorce lawyer and child custody attorney representation in family law matters in the San Francisco Bay Area, including in Berkeley, Oakland, Napa, San Rafael, Palo Alto, Redwood City, San Jose, Hayward, Pleasanton, Santa Cruz, and Monterey, California. We work with fathers and mothers seeking collaborative divorce representation in child custody mediation cases, as well as fair child custody arrangements that are in the child’s best interests in divorce lawsuits.


There is sexism inherent in our culture.  When we have a Congress that is 51% women (as we are about 51% of the population) and when secretaries, domestic workers, elementary school teachers, nurses, and the hotel maids, restaurant wait staff nationwide (for starters) are 49% then we can talk about sexism in the family courts.  I didn’t yet mention topless bars, prostitution, and a whole lot more I could’ve in this matter.  Probably one of the more egalitarian areas of our culture, though I can’t say for sure, is trafficking of minor children through the courts, child protection, and foster care systems, which didn’t seem to get a mention in the blog, either.

I apologize for this being such a quick-search item, but I am looking for at what age the fathers take possession of their children (after divorce) in Iran.  It may not be the most current, but my understanding is that some Iranian mothers come here in order to NOT lose their children automatically during divorce:


Ruled by series of dynasties for 2,500 years. Shi�ism declared official religion of Iran under Safavid rule (1501-1722). Increasing influence of European powers, beginning with capitulations to Russians, in 19th century. 1906 first Constitution promulgated. Series of laws enacted thereafter, relating to criminal, civil, commercial, and family law.

No Constitution until 1906!

By 1936, legislation made secular education requisite for serving judges. Major changes introduced in area of family law under Reza Shah with passage of Family Protection Law 1967 (significantly amended 1975) abolishing extra-judicial divorce and requiring judicial permission for polygamy and only for limited circumstances.

Family protection, 1967; and a swift response back to the religious standard:

1979 Revolution brought end to Pahlavi dynasty (1925-1979). Supreme Judicial Council issued proclamation directing courts that all un-Islamic legislation was suspended. Council given remit to revise all existing laws to Islamise legal system, with Ayatollah Khomeini�s fatawa serving as �transitional laws�. Vilayat al-faqih.

In America, the process of revising the Constitution back closer to the western equivalent of “sharia” has been slower, because it’s been fought, and because it’s contrary to the constitution.   We are not primarily a religious country, however, the financial element has a significant influence, as does electing a President from Texas, and later, his Son.

Current Constitution adopted 2nd-3rd December 1979; significant revisions expanding presidential powers and eliminating prime ministership in 1989. Article 4 provides that all civil, penal, financial, economic, administrative, cultural, military, political, and any other laws must be based on Islamic criteria; Article 12 provides that official religion is Islam and the twelver Ja�fari school; other schools of law to be accorded full respect and freedom of religious practice, including matters of personal status.

Constitution provides that chief of Supreme Court and Prosecutor-General must be mujtahids; Special Civil Courts established in 1979 to adjudicate over matters relating to family law, succession andawqaf.


In the U.S., the Conciliation Code, Family Law System, etc. was designed to defeat divorce and bring in counselors.  That’s established and not hard to defend by simply the history of who passed which laws when.  These laws began 1939; within one generation of women getting the vote, if not in response to this tremendous sea-change in the political landscape.    There was a state (I forget which one) that didn’t ratify women voting even til 1948, although it was by then an Amendment to the Constitution.

In the U.S. we are seeing the creation of multiple problem-solving courts around specific issues; however the original “problem-solving court” appears to have been FAMILY court; the problem was divorce.  There are now fathering courts, child support courts, drug-courts and more….


Marriage Age: Civil Code provides that marriage contracted before puberty is invalid unless authorized by natural guardian with ward�s best interests in mind.� When authorized before puberty, minimum age is nine.

Marriage Guardianship: marriage of virgin girl (even after puberty) requires permission of father or paternal grandfather; Special Civil Court may grant permission if guardian refuses without valid reason.

Marriage Registration: Identity Office must be notified of all temporary or permanent marriages and their dissolution.�Marriages between Muslim women and non-Muslim men are not recognized.� Baha�i marriages are not recognized.

Temporary Marriage: permitted; must be for fixed time period.

Polygamy: wife may obtain divorce if husband marries without her permission or does not treat co-wives equitably in court�s assessment.

Obedience/Maintenance: subject to classical conditions; wife who is not nashiza may take matter to court if husband refuses to pay maintenance and court will fix sum and issue maintenance order � arrears of maintenance to wife have precedence over all other liabilities against husband; in temporary marriage, wife only entitled to maintenance if contract stipulates such; husband may deny his wife right to work in any profession “incompatible with the family interests or with the dignity of himself or of the wife”; wife�s refusing conjugal relations where husband has contracted venereal disease not deemed disobedience.

Talaq: governed by classical Shi�i law requiring specific formula and two male witnesses; conditional divorce is invalid; 1992 reforms make registration of divorce without court certificate illegal; wife may obtain khol� divorce in return for consideration of more or less than nuptial gift (mahr);

. . . .


A reform introduced in 1992 extended the divorced wife�s financial rights from maintenance during �idda and her deferred dower to the right to sue for payment for household services rendered to their husbands during marriage, although the measure is difficult to apply in practice partly because of the difficulty in assessing wages for housework.

The mother�s custody ends at 2 years for boys and 7 for girls; custody reverts to the father if the mother remarries. Mother may be granted custody in certain cases if the father is proven unfit to care for the child.

THIS is the part I was looking for.  In Iran — this father would not have had access to run away with the little girl and kill her.  She would’ve been with her mother til she is seven.  Boys, I guess being more valuable and lest they get too attached to a female role model, like their mother, went with their fathers at age 2, so if it’d been a little boy, then he could’ve.   I’m reminded of the writings (although not from Iran) of Ayaan Hirsi Ali, or the Egyptian-born (as I recall) Nonie Darwish on some of these matters.  Search “Infidel” for the former and “They Call Me Infidel” for the latter.  These women have both fled to America (one from the Netherlands?) and are speaking about their home cultures.

For a San Francisco based attorney to compare Iranian law and say United States has gone overboard against fathers tells me it’s time to better analyze his own point of view and perspective.

Remainder of the page I was quoting, which (to be fair) reads: “THis is a draft:” from Emory Law.edu:

Iran, Islamic Republic of

*Please note this is just a draft and all contents are still under revision.*


Succession is governed by classical law; descendants (how low soever) of predeceased children of the propositus inherit in place of their parents. Children of Baha�i marriages are not recognized as legitimate and, therefore, are denied inheritance rights.


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Law/Case Reporting System:

International Conventions (with Relevant Reservations): Iran signed the ICCPR and ICESCR in 1968 and ratified both Covenants in 1975 without reservations.

Iran signed the CRC in 1991 and ratified it in 1994 with a general declaration and reservation to the effect that the Islamic Republic makes reservation to the articles and provisions which might be contradictory to the Islamic shari�a, reserving the right not to apply any provisions incompatible with Islamic Laws and the international legislation in effect.�’

One major feature of the CRC (the international, not Children’s Rights COuncil “CRC,” which is a U.S. nonprofit with international chapters –including in FRANCE) — is equal access to both parents.

Background and Sources: Amin, Middle East Legal Systems, Glasgow, 1985; Haeri, “Divorce in Contemporary Iran: A Male Prerogative in Self-Will,” in Islamic Family Law, Mallat & Connors, eds., London 1990; Lawyers Committee for Human Rights, Report of, The Justice System of the Islamic Republic of Iran, Washington DC, May 1993; Mahmood, �Iran� in Statutes of Personal Law in Islamic Countries, 2nd ed., New Delhi, 1995; Mir-Hosseini, “Mariage et Divorce: Une Marge de Negociation pour les Femmes,” Les femmes en Iran: Pressions Sociales et Strat�gies Identitaires, Yavari-d’Hellencourt. Paris, 1998; Mir-Hosseini, Marriage on Trial: A Study of Islamic Family Law, Iran and Morocco Compared, London, 1993; Pakzad, “The Legal Status of Women in the Family in Iran,” in In the Eye of the Storm: Women in Post-Revolutionary Iran, Afkhami & Friedl, eds., London, 1994; Ramaz, “”Women in Iran: The Revolutionary Ebb and Flow,” Middle East Journal, vol. 47, no. 3 (1993): 409-428; Redden, �Iran� in Modern Legal Systems Cyclopedia, vol. 5, Buffalo, NY, 1990; Taleghani, ed. & trans. Civil Code of Iran, Littleton, Colorado, 1995.



In 2003

It also seems appropriate here to quote (also, just found by quick internet search, I admit) part of a transcript from a Muslim woman and Iranian attorney who in 2003 won the Nobel Peace Prize.  Obviously I was looking up the custody ages; here’s a little of the immediate context:


Ebadi: Children Rights Are the Same As Human Rights

Yaas-e Nou (Persian Morning Daily)
Thursday, Oct 9, 2003 Vol. 1, No 176 Page: 15
By: Mahvash Kian-Ersi

Summary: Renowned Iranian lawyer Shirin Ebadi was announced on Oct 9 to have won the 2003 Nobel Peace Prize for her efforts in favor of democracy and freedom in Iran.   Ebadi was the first Muslim woman and also the first Iranian to become the Nobel peace laureate.   One day before this astonishing announcement, she talked to reformist Yaas-e Nou on the occasion of World Children Day (Oct 8).   Here we offer the full text of our interview with this university professor of law.

Text: The children should grow coordinately from physical, spiritual, cultural and economic points of view.   The families and the governments are obliged to provide the facilities to the children to grow.   The significance of children’s growth prompted the world nations to draw out an international convention for children’s rights.   In the face of social, cultural and economic abnormalities, the children need healthy atmosphere.   Now we read a short interview with Shirin Ebadi.

Q:What discipline is adopted to deal with child abuse either by parents or the relatives?

A:The latest version of law dealing with child abuse was adopted in 2002.   According to this law, any physical blow or mental trauma against children and under-18s amount to a crime and no individual plaintiff is required in this case.   The public prosecutor can cope with the offenders.   The important point in this law is that the judiciary and not the parents are entitled to lodge a lawsuit.

Q:How can we support the children subject to abnormal conditions at home?

A:If it is proven to the court that abnormal conditions at the family would damage the physical and mental health of the children, the court authorizes anyone who is ready to accept the child.   Or the court can order the children be looked after at the State Welfare Organization.

Q:What problems do we have in Iran regarding children’s rights?

A:The Iranian law looks at the children as properties of the parents.   For instance, if a neighbor kills a child he would face `qisas’ (the eye-for-an-eye law of retribution) — required by the Islamic Penal Code.   The same man will not face such punishment if he kills his own child and he will at most get ten years in jail if the mother files complaint.   We have similar laws.   When a couple decides to get divorced, the custody of over-2 boys and over-7 girls rests with the father while the future of such children is forgotten.   The law should take into account the independence of children.

Q:How will a mother who kills her own child be punished?

A:Such mothers face eye-for-an-eye law of retribution and they do not enjoy any acquittal.

AND  from Nov. 2003, and obviously I was not current as to the status of custody in Iran, above….


Iranian women win improved child custody rights

Khaleej Times, (Reuters)

30 November 2003

TEHRAN – Iranian women won the right to have custody of boys up to the age of seven on on Saturday, giving divorced mothers the same rights over their sons as they do over their daughters, a reformist parliamentarian said.

Under Iran’s strict law, divorced women already had automatic custody of girls until they are seven, but were previously only able to keep boys until they were two.

“The Expediency Council granted divorced mothers custody of both girls and boys until the age of seven,” Elaheh Kulai, a reformist woman deputy, said after it was broadcast on state television.

Iran’s conservative-controlled legislative body, the Guardian Council, had twice rejected the change on the grounds that it was against Islamic law, despite its approval by the reformist-led parliament last year.

But parliament’s decision was backed by the powerful Expediency Council, the top arbitration body headed by influential former President Akbar Hashemi Rafsanjani.

“It is a positive step forward for defending women’s rights,” said Ms Kulai.

The reform is one of several bids by parliament to overcome the conservatives’ resistance and improve the lot of Iranian women, who cannot become president or a judge and are entitled to half of the inheritance due to a man.

Judges also often give fathers the custody of their children, regardless of their qualifications as parents.


As this is a step against sexism, I am wondering how did our progressive SF attorney view this?  Isn’t it sexist TOWARDS fathers to move at all anything towards mothers?

(I also should note that the author also is advertising as a Parenting Coordinator (which was how I became aware of the firm).  See my 4-part series) 

Parenting Coordinator

Mr. Aly Ebrahimzadeh, Esq. is certified as a Parenting Coordinator and Special Master by the Northern California Mediation Center in San Rafael, California. Mr. Ebrahimzadeh has extensive professional training in mediation for high conflict parents and aggressive opposing parties, and he brings this expertise to work with Prometheus: A Social Justice Law Firm.

 We are available to work with you even if you are in the midst of aggressive litigation, and either you, your spouse, your child’s attorney, or the judge determines that a Parenting Coordinator is required to reduce the scope of litigation. Any party or the court on its own motion can request a Parenting Coordinator, often called a Special Master in court, be assigned to a case. A Parenting Coordinator, or “Special Master”, may be afforded certain powers by the court or by agreement of the parties to make non-binding recommendations or binding decisions about a host of important issues about Child Custody, Child Support, Child Visitation, and other issues concerning the education, health, and welfare of the children.   
This is true, and particularly of concern when it’s clear that attorneys who become parent coordinators are quite likely to have a bias, and definitely not in favor of young children being in the care and custody of a mother after a domestic violence (or child abuse) situation.  This could potentially affect their education, which can affect which college — or whether a child ever gets to college.  It can affect forever, almost, the future prospects of one or both parents, including their ability to re-marry (I’m talking financially) and whether they may also be allowed to ever emotionally detach from the battle, whether it’s in the court, or with a hostile parenting coordinator who believes, based on comparison with, for example, Iran, that California is too feminist and domestic violence is highly exaggerated in the divorce courts, as any “seasoned” california divorce attorney knows it is.
    The name “prometheus” is sure popular in California (These are LLCs or LLPs category), not this law firm, I’m sure….

Number Date Filed Status Entity Name Agent for Service of Process

 (I haven’t got time today to figure out which one).  This is a HIGHLY educated professional — I also note who does criminal defense — Brandeis grad.  The Oakland address is a virtual office address  

Customize Location

Product Type Setup Monthly
Oakland Business Center
1300 Clay Street Suite 600, Oakland, CA
Office Location $125.00 $95.00
(and for an extra $185, listing in the lobby) understandable if the practice is all over the area.
Back to Nabil Samaan, and that Center for Judicial Excellence apparently did file a complaint and an attempt to disbar.  The article shows how this is unlikely to happen, it did come under First Amendment, further, it could also be considered a bit much to handle discovering one’s brother was (alleged? I”m not following the case) a murderer, and he has since retracted the statement:
Anyone could and should be shocked and offended by such a statement, but this also shows some cultural lack of awareness, and I mean family law culture.  What is the excuse for this lack of awareness on CJE’s part, and desire to get more publicity in what is going to be an unsuccessful attempt to get this person disbarred?

Complaint filed with State Bar against lawyer in AMBER Alert case

By Malcolm Maclachlan | 08/17/11 12:00 AM PST
Can an attorney be disbarred for saying reprehensible things to a television reporter?

Probably not, according to attorneys who defend other attorneys. But that’s not stopping a group seeking to take a local lawyer’s license following a shocking murder-suicide.
The Marin-based Center for Judicial Excellence (CJE) has announced it will file a complaint with the State Bar of California demanding the disbarment of Sacramento attorney Nabil Samaan. The group says Samaan’s license should be taken away because of comments Samaan made to a reporter that, according to CJE, appear to support his brother’s decision to allegedly murder his own two-year-old daughter.
The case has roiled the Sacramento area for days.
The victim’s mother is Marcia Fay, a prominent deputy to state Attorney General Kamala Harris. Fay’s ex-husband, Mourad “Moni” Samaan, 49, disappeared with Madeline Layla Samaan-Fay on Aug. 7 after a scheduled visit.
This led to a statewide AMBER alert, which was called off on Sunday when both their bodies were found inside an SUV on land Samaan’s father owns in El Dorado County, about 50 miles from Sacramento. The pair died of carbon monoxide poisoning, and police are investigating the matter as a murder-suicide.
By Monday, members of the Samaan family were speaking to the press. Nabil Samaan told Fox 40’s Chris Biele: “You can justify and try to say that Moni wasn’t a good father, and that’s just ignoring the facts. The fact is that he was an extraordinary father. Better than I’ll ever be.”
Nabil Samaan added, “I think he did the right thing. I’m proud of him.”
This caused Biele to do a journalistic double-take, asking Nabil Samaan if that’s really what he meant. “I think justice was done,” Samaan replied.
As of press time, Nabil Samaan has not replied to a reporter’s phone call and email seeking comment. Harris’ office declined to comment on the case.

A spokeswoman with the Bar said she was not allowed to comment on pending disciplinary matters.
The motion rests on what the group says are two violations of the Bar’s standards of ethics, which require that “an applicant for admission to the practice of law in California possesses good moral character.” The  CJE’s Kathleen Russell said Samaan’s comments go far beyond what should be necessary to demonstrate a violation.
“It clearly does not reflect well on the legal profession in California to be saying what he said on television,” Russell said.
The second complaint cites a section on ethical requirement that requires attorneys “to support the Constitution and the laws of the United States and California.” Referring to a brutal murder of a toddler as “justice” fails to meet this standard, Russell says.

(Is there an AFFIRMATIVE duty to meet the standard applicable at attorneys?  Did Ms. Russell consult with an attorney at the firm CJE refers distressed parents to for pro bono custody help, (out of state) Justice for Children before taking this route  (see the site)?  Or take some of their own budget to seek counsel first?)

The vast majority of complaints that result in disbarment fall into a few basic categories: A felony conviction, embezzlement of client funds, failure to disclose a suspended law license to clients, or gross incompetence or negligence, particularly following an earlier suspension.
None of these would appear to directly apply in this case. Nabil Samaan did not represent his brother as an attorney, at least in any official capacity. Nor did he appear to commit a crime. The Bar Association website shows no complaints against him.
“It’s incredibly bad taste, but probably protected by free speech rights,” said Walnut Creek attorney Jerome Fiskin. His firm, Fiskin Slater LLP, specializes in defending other lawyers in ethics and state bar cases.

{{Which is reasonable known.  This is a PR stunt, not that it’s bad to call attention to the bad comment…}}

In general, Fiskin said disbarment comes in response to conduct that affects an ongoing case, or which harms the attorney’s own client. But he added that Samaan’s comments are still likely to be highly detrimental to his law practice, particularly given the media and blog attention given to his comments in recent days.
“What kind of people search out an attorney who, um … yeah,” Fishkin said, not quite able to complete his sentence.


  As to the Constitution, Here’s our articulate, accomplished, and very literate (and in many aspects logical) Promethean attorney speaking about the Constitution, in the context of how the “American Tea Party” (he’s an american citizen, right, practicing law here?  Is there a “Tea Party” in other countries? so why “American Tea Party? — not that I’m favorable, at ALL, to it…  Is that a Freudian slip, or just a distancing from these crazy Americans where he’s forced to pursue social justice in the SF Bay Area (one of the favored places to live and work in the US, both as to climate and for several other reasons).   
The comments about the Constitution definitely caught my eye.  Of all people that ought to respect it, attorneys should.

American Tea Party Helps Republicans Win the House

November 3, 2010 By Mr. Aly Ebrahimzadeh, Esq.

(Paragraph 2ff): Basically, the American Tea Party takes the entire retinue of ultra-conservative Republican Party values and attempts to justify them by a perspective on American jurisprudence that disregards the two centuries of legal precedent and evolution** that has occurred since the drafting of the US Constitution, and rather focuses on that original document much like a text as sacred as the Bible is to Christians.


Odd reference — while no one is required to hold the Bible sacred in the US as a function of citizenship or to hold office (yet!), as I have pointed out before, we probably wouldn’t have the U.S. or the Constitution had not certain very brave men risked — and lost — their lives translating it into English (and other languages) at least two very literate men (Wyckliffe late 1300s, Tyndale 1500s) of who were burned at the stake for doing so.  The transformation of England at this time by the literacy it promoted alone was a major event, as well as helping propound the Reformation and some significant challenge to the Catholic Church.

Influential writers who fled England to the US, or at least ended up here, having rejected the standard theology of the time (Trinitarian) altogether based on their reading of the Bible, influenced those who later wrote the Declaration of Independence.  I am speaking generally (again) of Locke,  Priestley (and his influence on Locke), and so forth.  Within their lifetimes one could be executed still (in the Colonies) for not towing the line up til at least 1689.

I think that those who wrote the Constitution had every cause to expect it to be held as sacred as the Bible, lest the country be as war-torn over how to interpret it as England had been.  However many of these were Deists –and they had enough humility to recognize they were not “gods” and there might just be one.

Benjamin Franklin
“I have lived, Sir, a long time, and the longer I live, the more convincing proofs I see of this truth — that God Governs the affairs of men. And if a sparrow cannot fall to the ground without His notice, is it probable that an empire can rise without His aid?” –
—  Benjamin Franklin

Again, re:

 Basically, the American Tea Party takes the entire retinue of ultra-conservative Republican Party values . . .focuses on that original document much like a text as sacred as the Bible is to Christians.

Presenting the American Tea Party (whose positions could be logically debated elsewhere as not exactly in alignment with the Constitution OR those who wrote it) as springboard to saying the Constitution shouldn’t REALLY be our focus is pretty lame logic.

Logically, from that position (let’s not take that Constitution so seriously!) perhaps then both Democrat and Republican Presidents will have to change their oath of allegiance in public when they are being sworn in and privileged to lead the country, subjecting their personal egos and program agenda to this document.  For a brief review:

he information below is courtesy of the Architect of the Capitol. It has been compiled by the Office of the Curator from contemporary accounts and other sources in the files of the Architect of the Capitol.

Each president recites the following oath, in accordance with Article II, Section I of the U.S. Constitution:

“I do solemnly swear (or affirm) that I will faithfully execute the office of President of the United States, and will to the best of my ability, preserve, protect and defend the Constitution of the United States.”

Does that say “and rewrite“?  . . .
Why is this ceremony comprised of only 2 human beings, while there are 3 branches of government:  Executive Office (represented here by President), Judicial (represented by Chief Justice) and Legal (with NO single person representing the law — significant)?  While I’m here, a youtube of  Chief Justice John Roberts flubbing the words of that short oath

**would that be like the evolution of child support system?  Or the devolution of the “old” language of criminal law? I am only half tongue in cheek, this is a criminal defense attorney also here.  ANd no, I am not entirely unaware of “legal evolution” there’s been plenty written on this, particularly by conservatives!

This begs the question:  What exactly is so sacred about the US Constitution?  Much of it has been redlined as racist, elitist, or purely impractical.Every time an Amendment is added, significant parts of the Constitution are essentially deletedPerhaps rather than continuing to revise a document that is over 200 years old and has been editorialized by over 30 major Amendments and interpreted out of its skin by scores of major legal precedents, it is time for the American people to accept the fact that we may need to go back to the drawing board and draft a new Constitution that reflects current ideologies and legal principles.

Not exactly the place for a full discussion, but perhaps if there hadn’t been the “interpreting out of its skin” legal precedents to start with, no one would have the chutzpah to say, aw, let’s just scrap it and start over!  (for more on judicial precedent, societal custom, and faint-hearted originalist Scalia, a short read)


Several European, African, and Asian nations have done exactly this, having drafted entirely new Constitutions within the last fifty years.  Surely a new Constitution, one that is more detailed, modern and practicable as a guide for the American Legal System, may serve to minimize the argumentation about what the law truly is.

But then again, in the obscurity of our antiquated rule book, the US Constitution

But then again, in the obscurity of our antiquated rule book, the US Constitution, there lies the opportunity to shoehorn all sorts of interpretations and theories into what our nation was meant to look like and what course it should take.  Yet, the political process may benefit from more clarity and less theory, for we find ourselves in the stormy seas of unwieldy military conflicts, devastating economic whirlpools, and questionable political leadership on all sides.  What we may benefit most from in such times is a working compass, rather than an assortment of bickering navigators trying to outdo each other with interesting theories about the reasons why the compass broke.

Or rather, perhaps we can take a more simple example as our guide.  If you were drafting an essay for a class, and you had to make over 30 revisions of that essay, redlining huge swaths of text, completely contradicting main premises and themes, would you consider handing such a work in as your final product?  Or would you simply take what you had learned and draft a new clean copy, no attached revisions and deletions, but a singular essay that incorporates the lessons learned?  Or is the US Constitution truly a Sacred Tome for this Indivisible Nation Under God?

 There is a difference between drafting an essay for class, and drafting a foundation for a country.  I find it disconcerting, to say the least, that this is not cocktail conversation, or even heated town hall conversation, but it’s from the blog of a well-decorated attorney practicing criminal defense and family law (among other areas of practice) in many jurisdictions — in my area. I’m not as shocked as I should be (hardly the first encounter with an attorney’s “reasoning” in the past years in family law), but I find it rather like, after blowing holes in a house repeatedly and intentionally and belonging to or taking classes from leaders of associations who do (i.e., this person took a class from Joan Kelly’s mediation center, and reflects basic AFCC with the added multicultural punch, women should be thankful they’re not divorcing (or committing adultery, allegedly) in Iran) –and then saying, look at all those holes — let’s tear the thing down.
The ability to take laws literally — in the sense of either kidnapping or contempt of custody order — and the will to act on it — might have saved that toddler’s life.  It’s been the continual psychologizing and therapizing of family matters which led to the situations enabling a man willing to kill a kid if he couldn’t grow up with the kid — to do so, and then take his own life also.  That’s someone totally beside themselves.
I am a woman.  If you read my blog, it’s known that I went years without seeing my kid, and this was done illegally and not even in compliance with the procedures for a legal custody switch AFTER criminal custody interference.   The father had no legitimate grounds for removal of custody from my house, there was not a legitimate cause of action, and no elements of the alleged causes he claimed (which weren’t legally tenable anyhow) were ever proved in court.  This would put almost anyone over any edge, as this was also a former batterer.  The law entirely supported my position, had I wanted to behave like that — but rewarded the opposite of who the law is to protect.
And I have never threatened to kill anyone over this, or tried to.  I did not take the law into my hands based on motherly pride or belief that the family law courts were unfair to women (although I do believe that when it comes to handling domestic violence and child abuse matters).   None of the people I took on as friends even suggested going this, and certainly wouldn’t have endorsed me if I did.  I understand that our culture is not ready for equality between the sexes, and on behalf of my children and because it’s not my intent to raise people and demonstrate to my kids an acceptance of casual violation of court orders because they don’t personally please me.   As a consequence of this behavior, the courts, recognizing apparently one of their own in my law-breaking ex, gave him custody, shortly after which he abandoned them, and the same courts would not assist me in getting my kids back at the time I found this out, either, though I definitely approached BOTH family courts and law enforcement for assistance (given the former threats by my ex).
I don’t know quite what conclusion to draw at this point in the courts, but equal parenting + fatherhood funds + anti-violence funds going to ridiculous “change the world educate everyone” (plus anger management courses when it’s clearly a cultural belief at play, and the person involved has wilfully disobeyed more than court orders– hospital orders).      
Again, they are now (8/15) interviewing Samaan’s neighbor?

Nabil said Mourad disappeared after receiving a court order from his wife. Nabil said it was one of dozens he received in the past few months at the behest of Madeline’s mother, Marcia Fay, a deputy attorney general for the state Department of Justice.

“She was trying to prevent him from having any visitation,” said Nabil. “It has to be court-supervised.”

Samaan’s neighbors knew he was going through a custody battle.

“The hardest thing is that the public has no idea what he went through with his ex-wife,” said his neighbor Stephanie Brinkman. “It’s just heart-wrenching.”

I’d just like to clarify one thing.  They were husband and wife for a VERY brief period.


“There’s not one document that would show that Moni is not the best father in the world,” said Nabil Samaan while being interviewed by News10 reporter Natalie Sentz.>

Sentz said, “He’s the best dad in the world until he takes the life of his child.”

Nabil responded, “He’s still the best dad in the world.”

Sentz said, “Madeline is dead.

“Yeah, but he’s not the one who killed her,” Nabil said.

Yeah, right.      
Sacramento Family Court Anger Management Classes” (and fees, as of July 2011)



July 1, 2011

Please Note: Batterer’s Treatment Programs (BTP) are certified by the

County Probation Department and are not included on this list. Please contact

Probation directly to obtain a current list of certified BTP providers.

(includes” Center for Fathers & Families” and “Fathers’ Resource Center.”)

Ah, well, here’s core criteria that anger management is to teach (found under a search for supervised visitation providers):

Any provider offering anger management for clients referred from Family Court must address at least 15 of the following core topics during the anger management program:

 Gaining personal control  Stress Management  Emotional Intelligence  Fundamental Child Development, ages birth through adolescence  Basic Communication Skills

 Positive Communication  Role Modeling and Positive Parenting Reinforcement  Characteristics of Healthy Families  Personal Anger Management  Child Abuse and Corporal Punishment  Responding to Child Tantrums  Coping with Stress  Child Discipline Alternatives and Behavior Plans  Family Conflict, Anxiety, and Resolution  Family Violence, Domestic Violence, and Prevention  Provocation and Alternative Response  Identifying Distorted Thinking  Irrational Beliefs  Active Listening  Developing Empathy  Identifying and Expressing Needs  Assertiveness vs. Bullying  Coping with Angry People  Conducting Successful Family Meetings


I have to make another point:    Marcia Fay is 46 years old.  Assuming this is her first child, she had this child at age 44 (or so), the father was 49 (child at 47) per this article:

49-year-old Mourad Samaan and his daughter Madeline were found Saturday night in his car near Placerville.


Were there previous children, were there previous marriages.  Is this a woman attempting to get a child, but marrying to do so?  WHat is the background? (I hope it’s not heretical to ask that question, but someone should.  And while the press is going to report, and understandably this mother is not ready to comment yet (would YOU be?) then it’s the father’s family that is making their “blame the courts” “blame her” case / excuses.


And in the usual knee-jerk response to another death someone is going to interview the local DV agency.  Was this a DV case, and was this the cause of separation?  I don’t know.   But it’s the first phrase here we should note.

sheriff’s deputies were called in July when he was reluctant to turn Madeline over during a visit.

But Women Escaping A Violent Environment sees things differently. “It’s about power over their victim,” said WEAVE Executive Director Beth Hassett in describing classic domestic abusers.


Did Ms. Hasset use the phrase  “domestic abusers?

I knew that if I looked, eventually it’s turn up which court the grandfather is taking court business from.  Suprise, it’s Sacramento (says this commentor, “Espeth.”)  note:  I don’t approve of the tone of the comment, but I am going to follow up on the reference.  Is it possible that the grandfather’s relationship to the SAME family law court may have affected how the father was treated in this situation by Judge McBrien?


In family courts, one tactic is to slam the judicial employees

By Malcolm Maclachlan | 09/01/11 12:00 AM PST

This article begins again as calling CJE a watchdog agency.  Maybe they are — except for complete and utter failure to report on the systems that set up the court-referral processes, from what I can tell.  Why bite the hand that is currently feeding one leadership grants, and white house invitations, etc., i.e., the Federal “Designer Family but we also protest violence against women” apparatus (add to which, local judiciary favorite professionals).


It’s certainly part of our work and our efforts to encourage people to make complaints when they’ve seen something untoward,” said Carolyn Placente, program director with the Marin-based Center for Judicial Excellence, a family court watchdog group that has been widely criticized by attorneys and others working in the family courts over the years.

“Many people are totally unaware that there is even a process for filing a complaint against some of these folks,” said Placente who, along with colleagues, has been a regular visitor to Courtroom 43.

Still, she acknowledged, most complaints don’t get anywhere.


Which is exactly why a different approach would work.  But rather than working on systemic changes, the CJE tactic is to pick a high-profile (and sometimes losing, sometimes losing) case, and get publicity.  I parted paths with the “get Burrille” people, who have been informed already that it’s probably a better choice to get whoever/whatever is paying Burrille — or at least get the local court’s vendor payments and contracts — and make a habit of it!

But the state attorney general’s office appears to think they have a point, at least in Courtroom 43.

The woman on the stand is Janelle Burrill. The attorney general’s office has certified two complaints against her filed with the Board of Behavioral Sciences, filing official accusations in March and April.


A reader put in this comment:


Ha!  She
ain’t the only bad apple in the greater Sacramento region. Dr. Makram Samaan,
grandfather of Madeline Layla Samaan-Fay, who was murdered by her father, Dr. Samaan’s
son, is a psychologist employed by the Sacramento Family Court as a
mediator.  He along with his son, Nabil, the attorney, praised the murder
and blamed the mother.  Dr. Samaan also espouses the belief that people
like him, and not the courts, should be in charge of marriage and divorce. At the same time as praising the death, Dr. Samaan swears that he couldn’t have seen how distressed his son was and that he couldn’t help him.  This despite the fact that his son, on no less than SEVEN occasions violated court orders.  Yeah, Dr. Samaan should be in charge of marriage and divorce, sure, maybe in Iran…he probably just wants to impose Sharia Law, which is why he and his living son are praising the murdering son as a hero for rescuing baby Madeline from her mother’s evil influences.  You should check out the good doctor on the Sacramento Superior Court website, it appears that he has been sued by numerous clients for professional malpractice…another bad apple?

I did just look this up, and it’s going in a second post: but see “http://www.lawlink.com/research/caselevel3/60418

appealing his dismissal as tenured professor at Cal State (CSUS), 150 cal.app.3d.646.  YEAR:  1983.

In which we learn that the paternal grandMOTHER (Dr. Samaan’s wife) is a marriage and family therapist, but the issue here is dishonesty in billing practices.


Funny how Center for Judicial Excellence missed this one, while trying to get the son disbarred.  Must be where they are (and are not) looking.  I’ve only been on this less than a full day.


The grandfather, per article, is a Coptic Christian from Egypt, not a Muslim from Iran!  Look it up, read a few sides: (“weekly.ahram.org”)

Al-Ahram Weekly Online

Published in Cairo by AL-AHRAM established in 1875

30 March – 5 April 2006
Issue No. 788

(This is the entire article, showing we have to stop ignoring religion if we are going to deal with family law matters!  The religious impulse if often why someone will kill before go against it, and bottom line, those are historically against divorce and pro-father, generally speaking.  But it can get complicated when the authority is split between church and state) (not paraphrased too well– here’s the entire article):

The monogamous twitch

Nader Habib weighs in the recent administrative court ruling giving Copts the right to divorce and re-marry

Copts are widely opposed to the notion of legalising divorce and remarriage. Not so paradoxical a stance, considering the circumstances in which the question was raised: the administrative court ruling that brings about the change is seen as an intervention in the application of the Coptic Orthodox Church principles on the part of a Muslim-majority judiciary. And it comes in a country where secular marriage is not a legal option.

Still, those Copts who have been awaiting a clerical marriage license for years have welcomed the developments. And there are those who endorse them: Milad Hanna, a high- profile intellectual, conceded that divorce in Christianity is only possible in the case of adultery. But, he expressed the view that, in light of current social realities, those Copts separated from their spouses should be able to divorce them and marry others — a privilege the Coptic Church tends to withhold from them, keeping them waiting. Hanna’s point is that, in effect, the Church is merely complicating matrimonial procedures.

Though not a supporter of the ruling, housewife Heba Shoukry too believes the clerical laws relating to matrimony are in need of revision. “It ends up merely forcing Copts to change their sect.”

An authoritative work, The Law of Monogamy in Christianity, written by Pope Shenouda III in 1958, stresses that monogamy is the essence of Christian marriage — a canon law derived from the Holy Bible and upheld within church law, whether received from the Apostles or from ecumenical and regional synods. According to Mathew, “Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be lost in heaven.”

Marriage in Egypt is legally registered, Anba Bessanty, Bishop of Maasara and Helwan, explained; this makes divorce through a court of law standard procedure. So far, so good. But when it comes to remarriage, the Bishop goes on, “it is the church’s business, for we follow the words of Jesus Christ when He was asked, ‘Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for [just] any reason?’ He answered, ‘whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery’ (Mathew 5:22).”

Thus, the Church allows “civic” divorce, but “when it comes to remarriage, it’s a different story,” the Bishop said. “A license to remarry is granted in only one of three cases,” the Bishop adds for good measure, “adultery (a license for remarriage is given to the innocent party); forsaking the creed (a license is given to the party who maintains the creed); and when it is proven that the marriage was invalid in the first place. The Bishop adds that the ruling will be appealed on the grounds that it contradicts Christianity.

Anba Bola, Bishop of Gharbiya and the papal deputy of the clerical council responsible for personal affairs in the Orthodox Church since 1989, on the other hand, referred to Law 19 for 1927, which states that no body other than the clerical council, built by state decree in 1882, has the authority to license marriage; will the Egyptian judiciary, he asked, question the authority of a body established by the government to manage Copts’ affairs? Clerical deacon Fadel Tawfik likewise wonders: “By which law — Islamic or Christian — was the ruling issued? For it is also true that Islam gives people of the Book, including Christians, the right to live by their own personal status code. So long as you are a member of a church, which has the constitutional right to operate freely among its constituency, you must abide by that church’s rules.”

The ruling, Tawfik added, seems to uphold the individual’s right to remarry while dispossessing the Church of its own right to practice its own version of traditional Christianity. For priest Basilious Guirgis, Father of the St Mary Church in Moqattam, the issue is that the rulings of personal status courts, whether in the case of Muslims or Christians, follow rather than precede the rulings of the religious authority in question. A Muslim cannot legally marry or divorce without first obtaining the relevant papers from the religious authority; so, too, with Christians, except that there is no such thing as divorce in the Coptic Church.

Pharmacist Talaat Nessim stressed that a long period of engagement is critically important. The couple might decide to separate during the engagement period before marriage. Moreover, the engagement period allows couples time to undergo medical check-ups.

For his part, human rights activist George Isaac blamed parliament for not fine-tuning non-Muslim personal status laws. He believes it is government incompetence that is to blame. The non-Muslim Personal Affairs Law that was being drafted 25 years ago while Sufi Abu Taleb headed parliament, he explained, is still pending review, with some 90,000 cases of divorce awaiting the rule of law — in vain; the same goes for the law governing the building of non-Muslim houses of worship, he added. It is the government’s policy, according to Isaac, to complicate the simple details of life, whether for Muslims or Copts, with the object of diverting attention away from the real issues. On the other hand, most will agree, Pope Shenouda III remains the sole authority on the issue. “No power on earth can force the Orthodox Church to do anything against the words of the Holy Bible, or against its own conscience. Whoever marries a divorced Copt without license from the clerical council … I will defrock him whatever his rank might be,” the Coptic Pope warned.


(August 22, 2011, to a blog started in 2006) which I’ll share, to show the issues we are GOING to have in the US as a multicultural country as are other countries which have religion (one or another brand) in control:

(this might be an Irish blog, I’m not sure; seems Catholic):

Clerical Whispers



Egyptian Copts demand right to divorce

Egypt’s Coptic Church, one of the oldest Christian denominations, is being threatened with a major schism within its ranks over demands by congregants to be allowed to divorce.

Dozens of Christian protesters demonstrated across from St. Mark’s Church in Cairo Monday, clashing with police, as they petitioned their church’s clerical council to grant them second marriage permits.

The Coptic Church, an orthodox denomination led by Pope Shenouda III, restricts divorce to cases of adultery or the religious conversion of one of the spouses.

On Saturday, the Right of Life Movement, a Coptic group, threatened that a large number of its members would collectively leave the ranks of the church if they were not granted the right to divorce.
The Egyptian daily Al-Wafd reported that some 150,000 members could potentially break away from the church, joining the evangelical or protestant denominations instead, which comprise just some 5% of Egypt’s Christians.

“It is my civil right to get a divorce, how dare they prevent that from me?” Rafik Farouk, an Egyptian Copt who wants to divorce his wife, told The Media Line. “The church and the court make it almost impossible to prove adultery. They leave us hanging.”

Farouk said the Coptic Church was attempting to maintain the integrity of the family at all costs, fiercely guarding the monopoly given to it by the state in matters of marriage and divorce.
Family law is exclusively governed in Egypt by the religious denominations. A Christian may, however, leave his denomination and be judged by default under Islamic law, which is more lenient in allowing divorce.
“We are portrayed as fornicators who only follow our lust. Pope Shenouda keeps saying that we are acting against the New Testament,” Farouk said.
Up until 2008, Egyptian Christians divorced according to a 1938 bylaw which allowed them to separate under nine conditions including impotence, abandonment, abuse and mental disability. But local Christians accuse Pope Shenouda of recently limiting the permissible reasons to infidelity and conversion only.
“We could have left the church and accepted Islam, but we want to remain in the church,” Farouk said, adding that the clerical council must become more cooperative and transparent. “We will continue to engage the Church until the last moment.”
He added, however, that many of his friends would consider converting in order to attain a divorce and then rejoin the Church in order to remarry. “It’s a trick,” he said.
Ishaq Ibrahim, an expert on religious freedom at the Egyptian Initiative for Personal Rights, a Cairo-based human rights watchdog, said that the exact number of Copts prevented from obtaining a divorce is unknown, but estimated it at a few thousand cases. It was pointless trying to convince the Church to change its policy, he believed, saying the only viable solution being the creation of a parallel track for civil marriage.
“We have no civil marriage in Egypt,” he told The Media Line. “But marriage is the responsibility of the State, not the church. The state cannot force the church to change its doctrine, but it can create an alternative which will allow Christians to divorce without converting their religion.”


Standard material from Sacramento Superior Court on Family Court Services Mediation

Notice that if there is a critical emergency, the response is STILL to send someone to mediation! or FCS!

Immediate Referrals from the Court

The court may refer parties to FCS to provide expedited services. Generally, this occurs in cases where either parent presents an immediate danger or risk of harm to the child(ren). Parties are usually seen in FCS within a few days of the referral being made. A date to return to court is usually set to occur within 1 to 3 days following the referral. Immediate referrals may involve, but are not limited to, the following situations:

  • Physical abuse
  • Sexual abuse
  • Emotional abuse or neglect
  • Domestic violence
  • Alcohol or substance abuse
  • Allegations of flight risk or abduction

Other Important Information

Mediator conflict of interest

Mediation of cases that involve family law attorneys or their spouses, relatives, friends, or co-workers of the mediator may present a conflict of interest. A mediator will not handle a case in which they perceive that a serious conflict of interest exists. Therefore, in these cases, parties may be referred to private mediators.

So, who handled this case?

Reports to Child Protective Services

Family Court Counselors are mandated reporters. This means they are legally obligated to report to Child Protective Services (CPS) any situation that may pose an imminent danger or risk to the child(ren). Parties will be informed when referrals are made to CPS for risk assessment.

Complaints about FCS services

Family Court Services is committed to the delivery of quality mediation services. If you should have a complaint regarding services received, you may register your complaint orally or in writing to the FCS Manager.

FCS fees

A deposit of $150.00 is required any time a FCS mediator is subpoenaed to attend a court hearing or proceeding as a witness. The party issuing the subpoena will be charged, at the rate of $78.00 per hour, for the actual time spent preparing for court testimony and/or deposition and the actual time spent testifying.


So — you are in pro per and broke, possibly from years of litigation and prior poor decisions by a mediator, the present one or a prior one.  YOu want to do something about it — go ahead, and for $150/hour plus $78 for any time spent preparing for the testimony / subpoena (probably more time than was spent preparing for your mediation that caused the problem, i.e., reading the case file!) — you can do it.  If you can afford to!



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